I ..talked to a guy today

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    Feb 23, 2010 2:37 AM GMT
    He was working at A&F store, and he's very hot! He has dark hair, brown eyes, tanned skin, nice body, great smile, and a super handsome face imo. Im not sure which race he is but i can care less anyway.

    Anywayz, he said hi (as he had to) to me as a customer when i came in. I noticed, nodded and walked away. I couldn't help but to check him out from within the store, like constantly. When I finally seems like i stayed in the store for too long, i started heading out, and there he was about to say bye to me.

    I had no idea what came over me, but i said hi and started a conversation! I've never done anything this brave before. Needless to say, i was nervous as could be but tried my hardest to act cool. Anyway, i now know we work out at the same gym about THE SAME time. And he did say i look familiar. It was pretty cool how we shook hands and stuff and I left. (I also forgot to introduce names and stuff, too nervous icon_sad.gif )

    Now im not sure if hes interested or even gay but at least i can say hi to him at the gym now icon_smile.gif

    Any idea on how to know if he's ..u kno.. gay/bi/interested? icon_wink.gif
  • Webster666

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    Feb 23, 2010 2:44 AM GMT
    Say, "Are you gay, bi, or straight ?"

    He's working at A&F. That's probably a BIG clue.
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    Feb 23, 2010 2:46 AM GMT
    Has there ever been any straight guys working at abercrombie?
    Just seeing a guy with abercrombie increases the chance by 75% of him being gay so you have your answer
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    Feb 23, 2010 2:49 AM GMT
    ^^^^ really? i didnt know A&F has that type of stereotyping at all..
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    Feb 23, 2010 2:52 AM GMT
    well unless its a shirt on someone in college or something....abercrombie is a very gay brand for some unknown reason....the models maybe?
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    Feb 23, 2010 2:54 AM GMT
    snowboarder saidwell unless its a shirt on someone in college or something....abercrombie is a very gay brand for some unknown reason....the models maybe?


    interesting icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 23, 2010 2:59 AM GMT
    Hey keep it fun and casual. Now you can give him a grin and a salute if you like when you see him at the gym.

    Slow n steady wins the race.
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    Feb 23, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    OMG! Do you have to be smacked across the face with a wet A&F polo shirt?!

    HE'S GAY!
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    Feb 23, 2010 3:59 AM GMT
    How about just getting to know him at the gym without having to find out, like...immediately....if he is gay? Let it be communicated in the course of getting to know him.
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    Oh my god which one is it?!!! The one with the square-ish jaw?!!! He's the manager and so HOT!!!!! If I'm thinking about the right person, idk if he's gay or not, I never really got that feeling from him though, he recruited me and my ex like 4 or 5 times though... if that helps
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:23 AM GMT
    Arfurnas saidOh my god which one is it?!!! The one with the square-ish jaw?!!! He's the manager and so HOT!!!!! If I'm thinking about the right person, idk if he's gay or not, I never really got that feeling from him though, he recruited me and my ex like 4 or 5 times though... if that helps

    You're in Indiana. He's in Pennsylvania. Are you talking about the same store?
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:34 AM GMT
    Caslon13000 said
    Arfurnas saidOh my god which one is it?!!! The one with the square-ish jaw?!!! He's the manager and so HOT!!!!! If I'm thinking about the right person, idk if he's gay or not, I never really got that feeling from him though, he recruited me and my ex like 4 or 5 times though... if that helps

    You're in Indiana. He's in Pennsylvania. Are you talking about the same store?


    Yep the one on the first floor of the Lehigh Valley Mall across from Deliahs and Origins... read my profile sometime...
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    Dude, everyone who works at A&F is gay or a girl.

    You have to also remember he was hired by the store to be eye candy for customers.
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:48 AM GMT
    I didn't know that most men who work at A&F are assumed to be gay. It is interesting. Then I should go visit that store more often now. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    For some reason that particular A&F has many fine gay men that work there... MMM best part of living in Whitehall PA!!!! haha
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    Feb 23, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    ddt8665 saidHe was working at A&F store, and he's very hot! He has dark hair, brown eyes, tanned skin, nice body, great smile, and a super handsome face imo. Im not sure which race he is but i can care less anyway.

    Anywayz, he said hi (as he had to) to me as a customer when i came in. I noticed, nodded and walked away. I couldn't help but to check him out from within the store, like constantly. When I finally seems like i stayed in the store for too long, i started heading out, and there he was about to say bye to me.

    I had no idea what came over me, but i said hi and started a conversation! I've never done anything this brave before. Needless to say, i was nervous as could be but tried my hardest to act cool. Anyway, i now know we work out at the same gym about THE SAME time. And he did say i look familiar. It was pretty cool how we shook hands and stuff and I left. (I also forgot to introduce names and stuff, too nervous icon_sad.gif )

    Now im not sure if hes interested or even gay but at least i can say hi to him at the gym now icon_smile.gif

    Any idea on how to know if he's ..u kno.. gay/bi/interested? icon_wink.gif



    Good for you! Hope things turn out well. I tend to set my gaydar a little more sensitive in A&F, simply because all the homoerotic decor makes working there kind of a male-centered environment...


    Today I actually got the number of a reeeally cute guy I have been talking to lately. Its not quite clear if he's gay or straight, but he played "Rocky" in the local production of the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I take that as a good sign. :icon_idea.gificon_surprised.gif

    At the very least I can't be blamed for hitting on him lol.
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    Feb 23, 2010 6:37 AM GMT
    north_runner said

    Good for you! Hope things turn out well. I tend to set my gaydar a little more sensitive in A&F, simply because all the homoerotic decor makes working there kind of a male-centered environment...


    Today I actually got the number of a reeeally cute guy I have been talking to lately. Its not quite clear if he's gay or straight, but he played "Rocky" in the local production of the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I take that as a good sign. :icon_idea.gificon_surprised.gif

    At the very least I can't be blamed for hitting on him lol.


    good for u as well! good luck man lol
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    Feb 23, 2010 6:48 AM GMT
    Webster666 saidSay, "Are you gay, bi, or straight ?"


    uhh, no. there are ways at getting your answer without being so blunt and classless
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    Feb 23, 2010 6:48 AM GMT
    ddt8665 saidHe was working at A&F store, and he's very hot! He has dark hair, brown eyes, tanned skin, nice body, great smile, and a super handsome face imo. Im not sure which race he is but i can care less anyway.

    Anywayz, he said hi (as he had to) to me as a customer when i came in. I noticed, nodded and walked away. I couldn't help but to check him out from within the store, like constantly. When I finally seems like i stayed in the store for too long, i started heading out, and there he was about to say bye to me.

    I had no idea what came over me, but i said hi and started a conversation! I've never done anything this brave before. Needless to say, i was nervous as could be but tried my hardest to act cool. Anyway, i now know we work out at the same gym about THE SAME time. And he did say i look familiar. It was pretty cool how we shook hands and stuff and I left. (I also forgot to introduce names and stuff, too nervous icon_sad.gif )

    Now im not sure if hes interested or even gay but at least i can say hi to him at the gym now icon_smile.gif

    Any idea on how to know if he's ..u kno.. gay/bi/interested? icon_wink.gif


    I'm not sure if this has been said already, but - He works at A&F. He likes the cock.
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    Feb 23, 2010 6:52 AM GMT
    HotTamale saidI didn't know that most men who work at A&F are assumed to be gay. It is interesting. Then I should go visit that store more often now. icon_biggrin.gif


    I feel u man, i honestly didnt think of it that way at all haha. It IS interesting and its for the better *grin*