Petition to add Top/bottom/vers profile boxes

  • Leo123

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    Feb 23, 2010 7:45 AM GMT
    This would make life so much easier..

    Let's not be hypocrites and say this is not important!
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    Feb 23, 2010 7:49 AM GMT
    Really? Why do you need that. If it came to a point where that was important, couldn't you just ask?
  • Leo123

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    Feb 23, 2010 7:56 AM GMT
    Well, people wouldn't waste time developing interest to a guy who is not a fit.
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    Feb 23, 2010 8:05 AM GMT
    Maybe the better solution is to be versatile.

    ...just sayin...
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    Feb 23, 2010 8:38 AM GMT
    just use mancunt
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    Feb 23, 2010 8:45 AM GMT
    NanjingCowboy saidMaybe the better solution is to be versatile.

    ...just sayin...


    HAHAHAHA
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    Feb 23, 2010 11:29 AM GMT
    what a distasteful concept..

    You don't fit me sexually, I'm not even going to bother getting to know who you are as a person, screw there being any chance of something happening and us finding a way to have a sexually satisfying experience...

    Screw that, I'm only going to choose guys who fit my narrow profile of what I want..

    Gawd your lame!
  • GQjock

    Posts: 11649

    Feb 23, 2010 11:34 AM GMT
    How about a check box for
    Guys who like

    Uncut guys

    Hairy guys

    Size queens

    .................................................... ?
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    Feb 23, 2010 12:00 PM GMT
    @GQ -

    You forgot the "into" section. Y'know, "watersports" "leather" "threesomes" etc. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 23, 2010 2:41 PM GMT
    Just going to be you and your hand, anyway.
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    This coming from a man without a profile. Troll someplace else love.
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    Feb 23, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    Leo123 saidWell, people wouldn't waste time developing interest to a guy who is not a fit.

    Then why not just ask as a part of your initial greeting?
  • Shiv66

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    Feb 23, 2010 5:10 PM GMT
    I would very much welcome a check box for positions. As it is I feel I have to put it in my headline and sprinkled all over the body text of my profile; it's an important part of my gay identity. And, no, assuming I am versatile would not please me.
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    Feb 23, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    Leo123 saidWell, people wouldn't waste time developing interest to a guy who is not a fit.

    Then why not just ask as a part of your initial greeting?


    "Hi, my name is Leo. I am a hungry bottom slut looking for big cocks. If you don´t MEASURE up then don´t waste my time by speaking to me or making me speak to you. We obviously have nothing else to talk about. Measure up... get it? I´m talking about your dick in case you didn´t understand."

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  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 23, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    Leo123 saidThis would make life so much easier..

    Let's not be hypocrites and say this is not important!


    I could care less! What the hell do I care about somebody half a continent
    away and his sexual preferences. If you want to know, get to know him and ask. Thats about the last thing I'd really want to know... if you do, go to
    Adam or Manhunt!
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    Feb 23, 2010 5:18 PM GMT
    Ya, it happens. But if you are just going down a laundry list of fuck buddy components, there are other sites that fit the bill: Gaymusclematch or recon for example.

    Honestly, whether I am looking for some ass or I am looking for a date, the top/vers/bottom question happens pretty early on; and I am a perfect gentleman. Are you really putting in much of an investment in your conversations when you haven't even put in an investment in your profile?

    That said, NanjingCowboy is A+
  • Shiv66

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    Feb 23, 2010 5:24 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said

    That said, NanjingCowboy is A+


    He is. And hopefully a good bottom.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Feb 23, 2010 5:40 PM GMT
    Personally, I think this isn't a good idea. One of the things that I find appealing about RJ vs. other gay sites like say Manhunt or Adam4Adam is that it's geared more towards other things besides SEX. Not that it isn't here, but it's not in your face like so many other sites, and I find that refreshing.
  • Shiv66

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    Feb 23, 2010 5:58 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidPersonally, I think this isn't a good idea. One of the things that I find appealing about RJ vs. other gay sites like say Manhunt or Adam4Adam is that it's geared more towards other things besides SEX. Not that it isn't here, but it's not in your face like so many other sites, and I find that refreshing.


    Right, but you are gay because of your SEXual orientation. It should be an option for those of us who like all the interesting forum stuff and articles -- and this is the best website for that -- or an "ask me" for those who aren't interested in revealing that up front. Saying that you aren't here looking for some sort of sex/relationship/flirtation/connection/sexy pix is like a straight man saying he just reads Playboy for the articles.
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    Feb 23, 2010 9:56 PM GMT
    Shiv66 saidRight, but you are gay because of your SEXual orientation. It should be an option for those of us who like all the interesting forum stuff and articles -- and this is the best website for that -- or an "ask me" for those who aren't interested in revealing that up front. Saying that you aren't here looking for some sort of sex/relationship/flirtation/connection/sexy pix is like a straight man saying he just reads Playboy for the articles.


    Since there seems to be a minority of (voiced) opinions who would want that option, maybe a better idea is for the guys it is a pressing issue for to include in their profile instead something like:
    "I'm here predominantly for sex, I haven't quite figured out how to engage on RJ past the mores of Manhunt and am applying the same logic (or lack there of) to RJ. In that vein, I'm a top/bottom so please don't bother if you are not compatible."

    Douche bag, don't assume you have any idea why *I* or any of these other guys are here. You just proved you have no fucking clue.

  • Timbales

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    Feb 23, 2010 9:57 PM GMT
    Shiv66 said
    CuriousJockAZ saidPersonally, I think this isn't a good idea. One of the things that I find appealing about RJ vs. other gay sites like say Manhunt or Adam4Adam is that it's geared more towards other things besides SEX. Not that it isn't here, but it's not in your face like so many other sites, and I find that refreshing.


    Right, but you are gay because of your SEXual orientation. It should be an option for those of us who like all the interesting forum stuff and articles -- and this is the best website for that -- or an "ask me" for those who aren't interested in revealing that up front. Saying that you aren't here looking for some sort of sex/relationship/flirtation/connection/sexy pix is like a straight man saying he just reads Playboy for the articles.


    bullshit
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    Feb 23, 2010 10:33 PM GMT
    Lostboy said"Hi, my name is Leo. I am a hungry bottom slut looking for big cocks. If you don´t MEASURE up then don´t waste my time by speaking to me or making me speak to you. We obviously have nothing else to talk about. Measure up... get it? I´m talking about your dick in case you didn´t understand."

    Perfect! Now he only needs to C&P it into his "about me" section. Whoever said we all can't get along?
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    Feb 23, 2010 10:35 PM GMT
    How about a check box for NOT INTO ANAL SEX.
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    Feb 23, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    Shiv66 said
    CuriousJockAZ saidPersonally, I think this isn't a good idea. One of the things that I find appealing about RJ vs. other gay sites like say Manhunt or Adam4Adam is that it's geared more towards other things besides SEX. Not that it isn't here, but it's not in your face like so many other sites, and I find that refreshing.


    Right, but you are gay because of your SEXual orientation. It should be an option for those of us who like all the interesting forum stuff and articles -- and this is the best website for that -- or an "ask me" for those who aren't interested in revealing that up front. Saying that you aren't here looking for some sort of sex/relationship/flirtation/connection/sexy pix is like a straight man saying he just reads Playboy for the articles.

    No dear, you are here looking for sex... I'm here because I like the forums and the people who participate in them... Sure I flirt like a dirty desperate little whore, but that's because it's fun but there is only a tiny handful of guys I'd sleep with given the chance and even then only after a good chat over coffee..

    Also, I barely look at profiles and the profiles I do look at are forum members, rarely do I actually bother looking at others, I've no interest in most of the guys on RJ if they aren't forum posters (minus the few who have contacted me who read the forums but don't take part).

    careful about how you put things dear, not everyone is like you, not everyone is here for the same reason as you.
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    Feb 23, 2010 11:24 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Shiv66 said
    CuriousJockAZ saidPersonally, I think this isn't a good idea. One of the things that I find appealing about RJ vs. other gay sites like say Manhunt or Adam4Adam is that it's geared more towards other things besides SEX. Not that it isn't here, but it's not in your face like so many other sites, and I find that refreshing.


    Right, but you are gay because of your SEXual orientation. It should be an option for those of us who like all the interesting forum stuff and articles -- and this is the best website for that -- or an "ask me" for those who aren't interested in revealing that up front. Saying that you aren't here looking for some sort of sex/relationship/flirtation/connection/sexy pix is like a straight man saying he just reads Playboy for the articles.

    No dear, you are here looking for sex... I'm here because I like the forums and the people who participate in them... Sure I flirt like a dirty desperate little whore, but that's because it's fun but there is only a tiny handful of guys I'd sleep with given the chance and even then only after a good chat over coffee..

    Also, I barely look at profiles and the profiles I do look at are forum members, rarely do I actually bother looking at others, I've no interest in most of the guys on RJ if they aren't forum posters (minus the few who have contacted me who read the forums but don't take part).

    careful about how you put things dear, not everyone is like you, not everyone is here for the same reason as you.
    I've got to agree with lilTanker.