Feb 25, 2010 11:27 PM GMT
I have a married, openly bi friend who has been having heated arguments with his wife over his interest in men. At first I don't think it was problematic, but as he started to hookup with guys without her it became more of an issue. He tried to bargain with her... swear off guys for no more arguing, but it obviously was not enough for her. I gave him the advice that she married him for all his aspects (she knew he was bi before marriage), and that he shouldn't have to repress that part of him to make the marriage work. Now, two months later, they're splitting. She's moving several states away. I don't know how hard he's taking it. And I don't really know what to say to him because I think it's for the best. He's my age, attractive... he's got a whole other life to live. He lives 5 hours away so I can't see him. Any advice?