First time

  • tony_boost

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    Feb 26, 2010 8:28 AM GMT
    ok so i'm still technically a virgin, i've had 5 guys try and fuck me but it hurt too much so i had to stop, and i was just wondering how your guys's first times went, and how do you get over the whole butt/poop thing when your fucking, i find that i get two stuck on the fact thats its my asshole and i get grossed out haha
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    Feb 26, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
    Well, you need to take anal slow in the beginning. You can't just hop on and ride, ride, ride...

    As for poop issues, you should google how to prepare yourself (pretty easily done with a rectal wash bulb) and remember that evolution dictated that all our sex organs (penis, vagina, nipples) have some elimination process to them. If you think about it, it's no grosser than a woman having her period.
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    Mar 14, 2010 1:47 AM GMT
    As the above post says OR
    Foreplay...Load's of foreplay, finger's, tin dildo's then thicker dildo's and so on until you know you're ready, then take it slowly, then cock !
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    Mar 14, 2010 5:34 AM GMT
    tony_boost saidok so i'm still technically a virgin, i've had 5 guys try and fuck me but it hurt too much so i had to stop, and i was just wondering how your guys's first times went, and how do you get over the whole butt/poop thing when your fucking, i find that i get two stuck on the fact thats its my asshole and i get grossed out haha


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    Mar 14, 2010 6:18 AM GMT
    First you've gotta ask yourself something: Are you doing it because you really want to or because you feel like you're expected to? If it really is what you wanna do, I'm sure there are plenty of guys here that can give you the 411 on it. I don't care much for mixing butt/poop and sex so I wouldn't be much use if that's the case.

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    Mar 14, 2010 6:39 AM GMT
    bitch u need to start at the easy level....grab a beer bottle and practice with it eleventy times a day.....after a week move on to beer cans

    it wont hurt no more when u give up ass to another 5 homos....lolzicon_lol.gif
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    Mar 14, 2010 8:14 AM GMT
    I find that just making sure you've...evacuated...recently is good enough, though some guys prefer to wash out the whole kit n' kaboodle. One thing, though, is don't douche. It's possible to start losing muscle control after repeated douching; I guess water is safer, and the fewer chemicals you have in your bum, the better.
  • Bunjamon

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    Mar 19, 2010 8:48 AM GMT
    joshnyc saidbitch u need to start at the easy level....grab a beer bottle and practice with it eleventy times a day.....after a week move on to beer cans

    it wont hurt no more when u give up ass to another 5 homos....lolzicon_lol.gif


    I think this was probably meant as a cheeky, humorous comment, but just for safety's sake I can't emphazise enough how BAD the idea of putting a beer bottle in your ass is. Stick to fingers, penises, and toys that were made for anal play. You can get them super cheap on the internet if you're too embarrassed to go buy one in a store.
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    Mar 19, 2010 2:35 PM GMT
    Through the magic of pooping, an ass is already pretty capable of handling a cock. The problem is nerves. It can be very nerve wracking thinking about your first time, all that performance anxiety. That is why I can't recommend a toy enough.

    Get a smallish and a medium sized butt toy and play, play, play. Work your way up to the medium. That way, next time you are about to sit on a cock you can say to yourself "I have taken that before, no problem." It can be a confidence booster and put you mind at ease so you are ready to get fucked like a champ.

    The above advice about lube and foreplay is also spot on. This isn't an issue of working through tight muscles, this is an issue of working through anxiety. Having him eat you out and finger you for 20 minutes will have you relaxed and begging for it.

    As for poo. It really depends on your diet. I know bottoms that can take it anytime without having to worry. I also know bottoms who need to be given three hours notice. Figuring out how you work is a good first step. But, dicks don't stick in much further than an index finger. Lube your finger up, play around in there, and anything in the rectum will work itself out.

    Play safe. Post pictures.
  • rnch

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    Mar 19, 2010 3:12 PM GMT
    tony_boost saidok so i'm still technically a virgin, i've had 5 guys try and fuck me but it hurt too much so i had to stop, and i was just wondering how your guys's first times went, and how do you get over the whole butt/poop thing when your fucking, i find that i get two stuck on the fact thats its my asshole and i get grossed out haha


    i waited a long time to loose my anal virginity. the combination of the right guy, the right dick and the right moment was an elusive one.

    when it DID finally happen, it went well. my first top was a skillfull, sensitive man who put my needs/emotions/fears above his carnal desires.

    we had several play sessiond before the main event, got to know each other in and out of bed. our foreplay lasted a longgggg time..he rimmed me for what seemed like hours to help loosen me up, used lots of high quality lube, inserted one, two, then finally three fingers, then slowly slid his penis into me, pausing frequently to let me get used to having him in me.

    my first time with anal was a happy one! no pian, no blood, no gasping or screaming...he just slowly slid right in like he had always been there! icon_wink.gif

    he/it was worth the wait!!!
  • Timbales

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    Mar 19, 2010 3:16 PM GMT
    I found the best way to get a guy accustomed to it was to get him off by fingering him while blowing and playing with his dick. I think it helps him get used to the feeling of being penetrated and his prostate being stimulated when he's also experiencing something he's (hopefully) felt before.
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    Mar 20, 2010 5:32 AM GMT
    tony_boost saidok so i'm still technically a virgin, i've had 5 guys try and fuck me but it hurt too much so i had to stop, and i was just wondering how your guys's first times went, and how do you get over the whole butt/poop thing when your fucking, i find that i get two stuck on the fact thats its my asshole and i get grossed out haha


    Oh good grief, you're 18! Wait another 12 years or so to make sure you really want to. icon_wink.gif

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