Body Language

  • ricky123

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    Mar 03, 2010 5:37 PM GMT
    What does it mean if he always ( 98% ) touchs his junk while he 's talking to you like face to face with eye contact ? Is it normal ? I have one guy , he just moved in to stay at the same house that I rent . We 're always cooking together, and I just noticed this kind of acting from him . I 'm straight acting and still in the closet. I kinda like him though .Thanks for any advice . :-)
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    Mar 03, 2010 5:48 PM GMT
    Underwear ... Maybe he has underwear problems .... If you're lucky, that's the only problem he's got down there. ... icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 03, 2010 9:55 PM GMT
    He's either interested in you or he's got jock itch. If you like him assume the best.
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    Mar 03, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    he's got crabs and wants to give you some...badly.
  • FriscoJansen

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    Mar 03, 2010 10:07 PM GMT
    Some straight guys just do that, they are not conscious of it. It's like an involuntary movement. A habit.
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    Mar 04, 2010 12:11 AM GMT
    I would automatically assume he has scabies or something.
    You should ask him, that shit doesn't seem normal... if it's intended to entice you I say "get to the point, a dick doesn't suck itself"
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    Mar 04, 2010 12:14 AM GMT
    is that like what Michael Jackson did when he danced?
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    Mar 04, 2010 12:19 AM GMT
    The constant touching thing is just weird when I see guys do that. It's like they never outgrew the "toddler who can't do anything without running around holding his thing" phase. It's distracting...not in a good way either.

    Now if it's just adjusting, that's another thing. Can't fault a guy for that. It's an anatomical necessity for some guys. And it's not because we want to have to do it that frequently either.

    OR, the above mention is the simplest and quit possible; he has something to "share" heh. Watch out!
  • jrs1

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    Mar 04, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
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    Mar 04, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    EasilyDistracted saidI would automatically assume he has scabies or something.
    You should ask him, that shit doesn't seem normal... if it's intended to entice you I say "get to the point, a dick doesn't suck itself"


    This is outrageous advice and should be ignored.
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    Mar 04, 2010 3:18 AM GMT
    Quit being such a pussy. Say to him, "Dude, I notice you keep putting your hand on your dick when you talk to me. What's up with that?"

    It's that simple. You'll get a response one way or another.

    Stop with all the drama. It's plain ass stupid. If you want to know an answer, ASK. That's how smart folks get smart, and leaders lead.

    This IS NOT a complicated thing. You should not make it so.
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    Mar 04, 2010 9:04 PM GMT
    Motorsport422 said
    EasilyDistracted saidI would automatically assume he has scabies or something.
    You should ask him, that shit doesn't seem normal... if it's intended to entice you I say "get to the point, a dick doesn't suck itself"


    This is outrageous advice and should be ignored.
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    Works for me with uncanny regularity!
    Right along with, "You're hot... you put out?" icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 04, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    just say something.... in a slightly joking manner.

    "dude, have u got a rash down there or are you just happy to see me?"

    "you don't have to hide your boner from me, we all get them, it's perfectly normal. doesn't freak me out at all"

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    Mar 04, 2010 9:30 PM GMT
    Since you're straight acting, you should have no fear of reprisals if you make a wrong move. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Mar 04, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    chuckystud saidQuit being such a pussy. Say to him, "Dude, I notice you keep putting your hand on your dick when you talk to me. What's up with that?"

    It's that simple. You'll get a response one way or another.

    Stop with all the drama. It's plain ass stupid. If you want to know an answer, ASK. That's how smart folks get smart, and leaders lead.

    This IS NOT a complicated thing. You should not make it so.


    Perfectly stated.

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    Mar 04, 2010 10:50 PM GMT
    You should probably copy him and do it at the same time he does.

    Make it so perfect, that he'll be like WTF.

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  • ricky123

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    Mar 07, 2010 8:15 PM GMT
    thanks for all responses guys, appreciated that !!!!icon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_idea.gif
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    Mar 07, 2010 8:18 PM GMT
    Guys do it to adjust their dicks or balls.

    Who cares.
  • Celticmusl

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    Mar 07, 2010 8:26 PM GMT
    Frisco82 saidSome straight guys just do that, they are not conscious of it. It's like an involuntary movement. A habit.



    I totally agree, and it's mostly a straight habit, but my ex did this too....as well as talking with his mouth full......straight characteristics. When he would sit down on the couch at home his hand would invariably rest on his crotch....and he would have no conscious idea.
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    Mar 07, 2010 8:31 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Frisco82 saidSome straight guys just do that, they are not conscious of it. It's like an involuntary movement. A habit.



    I totally agree, and it's mostly a straight habit, but my ex did this too....as well as talking with his mouth full......straight characteristics. When he would sit down on the couch at home his hand would invariably rest on his crotch....and he would have no conscious idea.


    i dont think its a straight characteristic, just a characteristic of men lol.

  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 07, 2010 9:42 PM GMT
    I'm def interested,,,,,,,I mean he's very interested..icon_redface.gif
  • cbrock

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    Mar 07, 2010 10:41 PM GMT
    It depends. Is he just adjusting his junk? Some guys seem to do this way more often than necessary. Or, is he grabbing it (not to adjust, but to make it known he's grabbing it, and possibly shaking it a little during the grab)? If that's the case, then I'd say he most probably wants you.

    Here's a good way to find out. It could also make for a really hot story. Somehow let him know you're gay, without it being obvious that you might be trying to seduce him. Even better if you somehow arrange it so that he finds out and thinks that he doesn't know. Try leaving this site, or some other obviously gay site, open on the computer for him to find, or something like that. If, in fact, he does want you, and isn't just adjusting his goods way too often, then you've already planted the seed at this point. Finally, one night, when just the 2 of you are around, get a little drunk. You should act like you're more drunk than you actually are (or why not? just get drunk) and get a little touchy and in his personal space more. Find any excuse to touch him, and exploit it. If he does want you, then he'll probably let it be known at this point. He might reciprocate the touching and maybe linger a little longer than usual, kiss you or go all the way. who knows? Or, he could just be straight and you're misreading the signs. In that case, you can just play off your "probably too intimate" actions as being drunk.