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    Mar 04, 2010 8:30 PM GMT
    So do u guys think LOOKS count in this world,in our society today,in my opinion LOOKS do matter and alot.If u see all the actors,singers etc they r all hot,models, and so on,only in comedies do u c a fat guy as the main character,but i think it does,i mean thats y we all myself included,everyone on realjock go to the gym to look good to look better.When i c a guy looks matter call me shallow or wetever u want but thats me,and yes looks fade with age, but if u c the pics below and u pick who u would date u will get yo answer to if looks matter.....=)

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    Mar 04, 2010 11:52 PM GMT
    i hope you're not going to say that it's the same guy and the top pic is his after surgery photo icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 05, 2010 2:06 AM GMT
    The top guy is a soap star on the Bold and the Beautiful (yes, I watch). While he does have a very tight and cut body, he looks better with clothes on because it makes him look like he weighs more than 100lbs. But this opinion is coming from a guy (me) who likes guys to be a bit thicker than a stick per se'.
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    Mar 05, 2010 7:56 AM GMT
    Well, this is a TOPIC! Now, this is how it works. Men for the most part, and women to a degree are very visual when it comes to something that's considered or deemed appealing to the eye. No different then when you are about to eat something, it better look good or worth eating before you decide to taste or stuff your face with it. Being attractive and naturally so can get you places in this world, but at the same time being in a certain spot to catch a certain eye is important as well. Not everyone can be a "star." But what drives me CRAZY is when people think of an attractive guy or what it means to be attractive they for the most part visualize a WHITE PERSON!

    People, White men are not the ONLY source of "beauty" as what media portrays and what so many believe. I did a topic in the past about the need for colored men to feel validated by being with a white person and that rose all types of hell, in a span of 6 days and 6,000 views and a few hundred replies. But yes looks matter, and when you see how people are exploited for them it tells you just who is the one or ones that are in charge of dictating that they should matter SO much. In closing I bet any and all who read my response would say or think "Why does he not have a picture, or a "decent" profile?!" My answer, before you reach yours is, I'm only here on Real Jock, for one person these days. I need NO approval or validation from ANYONE except him. As he is blessed to see me on camera and in person, I could care less of what ANY would think otherwise.

    My 2 Cents. ;-p
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    Mar 08, 2010 5:17 PM GMT
    unifiedaron04, i'm guessing at my next statement, that the majority of forum users would be white so it would make sense to use a white example because it's easier to identify with. and these guys could also be bello's personal definition of attraction.

    but personally, looks matter initially then they aren't as important to me after personality. but i always find something physically attractive about someone if i've known them for awhile. but looks count in ALL cultures and societies for differing reasons.

    i absolutely think looks grow better with age, experience and wisdom is something that can't be bought and it does something honest (?) to the face & body. has anyone seen pat rafter lately? AMAZING at 37.

    with the pictures, i'd think the guy on top is insensitive and we wouldn't have much in common whereas the guy below would be a keeper if cut his hair. i look for "kindness" in someone's face and bottom pic guy to me has that quality.
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    Mar 08, 2010 5:20 PM GMT
    you know I never noticed that there are alot of white guys here :i

    anyways obviosly the top guy would get my vote....i prefer a guy who can take good care of himself...I mean if Im willing to do it, why not him?...that of course is just my opininon :]