You bring up a great point! As a gay man, I enjoy talking to other gay guys from all over. I will hot or buddy list someone or hit them up with an email to just start conversation to get to know them some. I love hot gay sex as much as anyone, but I am also content to chat with someone just because they are good and interesting people. I am easy to talk to, so I get a little put off by someone that thinks that they are better than everyone else, or that any of the other guys on this site are "lucky" that they even talk to them. Just remember, you are on here the same as me and all the other guys. There are many great guys that are on rj, and I have made a few really good friends from this site. Come on, you guys, you don't have to be stuck-up...there is no reason for it. I had one guy that was a real dick because I added him to my buddy list. He told me that I should have i.m.ed him or emailed him 1st...which made me, first of all, take him off my buddy list; then, I did send an email to him saying that I had thought that he had an interesting profile and I just thought he might be someone that I would like to get to know for no reason other than that. Then, I told him that after his belligerent response, he was not interesting at all, and I blocked him...done!! There are so many great people on here that we should all take the little bit of time to get to know each other as kindred spirits. Sex is great, but this site offers so much more...great workout tips from the site and from the people on it who offer one to one tips which is, personally, very motivational to me, and people to talk to about issues with regards to being gay, or even coming out. Just realized that many of us have been in the closet at some point in our lives, and when you don' t feel like you can talk to your family, or even, your closest friends, it helps to have someone or anyone that might have some insight to talk to, i.e. someone here. So, don't turn someone away...just because they are not your type or because you are too "hot" to talk to them. Anyway, these are my thoughts on the matter. -Joey Gilliam A.K.A. Greenlantern1
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