Time Spent Together?

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    Mar 06, 2010 6:18 PM GMT
    Hey, Im pretty new to the whole relationship thing and need a little advice..
    I met this guy around a month and a half ago .. we spoke alot .. met up and we get on very well .. We havnt had sex but we have tried other stuff and it was good ..
    The thing is that i only get to see him around once a week .. i dunno if its usual but i know that i want to see him more ..
    He came to meet my friends and they got on .. so i thought that would mean he was at least a little serious about us? does it not?
    We kiss, we cuddly while watching a movie ect .. but i dont know .. we havnt voiced the whole "In a relationship" thing .. so im confused as to if we are actually in one now ..
    But how much do you usually see someone when you start a relationship and am i wrong for wanting to see him more then once a week?
    Thanks
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    Mar 06, 2010 11:59 PM GMT
    No, you're not wrong if you want to see him more than once a week.

    So why not just tell him you'd like to see more of him, and see what he says? Perhaps he would. If not, then you'll find out.

    If you'd like to be his bf, say you wouldn't mind being bfs. Keep extreme intensity out of it, so he doesn't feel pinned by a searchlight.

    Let us know what he said. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 07, 2010 12:02 AM GMT
    listent to meninlove. he is like the shaman of the RJ
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    Mar 07, 2010 12:14 AM GMT
    Somethings big things start small .. no pun intended icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 07, 2010 5:03 PM GMT
    I think you are off to a wonderful start. In this day and age, and between two men, it's unusual if the "sex line" isn't crossed after the first or second date. With you guys it's been a month and a half. I find that sweet and old-fashioned....in a good way! You are getting to know each other. If you really like him, give it more time. Find little ways to tell him how you feel, without putting the squeeze on him too much.

    Is he just too busy to see you more often, or does he live far away? Maybe there are logistics you haven't told us about?