I just got asked to be a "sugar daddy"

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    Mar 09, 2010 11:24 PM GMT
    Update
    he has a job now, details are down there somewhere.


    or at least that's what I think it's called even though I'm 27

    a guy I see on a semi regular basis in a purely sexual way asked me.

    So the story is, he came out to his parents about 6 months ago and they didn't take it well, kicked him outta home and lost his job (family business) and he's going to uni (eventually wants to be a neurologist) ANYWAY... had to tell him I'd think about it..

    haha oddly, I'm seriously contemplating it, he'll still live where he is, I don't need to do any of that dating stuff or pretend there is any relationship, it's pretty much a "I get laid when I want and he gets his rent and bills paid" haha

    I'm quite shocked at my self for seriously considering it, but he's pretty damned good in the sack and can give head like it aint no bodies business, plus I don't need to be at all a boyfriend to the guy...

    And I suppose if I don't, someone else might and gawd knows who that could be..

    hmmm I don't know wtf I'm thinking..
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:28 PM GMT
    Well, if you have the money, why not? I say go for it.
    Also, in your second to last sentence, it sounds like you might get jealous if he finds someone else to be his sugar daddy.
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:32 PM GMT
    wreckd saidWell, if you have the money, why not? I say go for it.
    Also, in your second to last sentence, it sounds like you might get jealous if he finds someone else to be his sugar daddy.

    wellllllllll kinda, more protective, I've seen the guys who are the "typical" sugar daddies, erm, they aren't the kinda guy I'd want someone like this guy being influenced by... Don't get me wrong, this guys got a real strong head and he's determined, but I've seen what happens to some guys who are constantly pecked away at by these wealthy older men and I wouldn't wanna see that happen to him.
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidor at least that's what I think it's called even though I'm 27

    a guy I see on a semi regular basis in a purely sexual way asked me.

    So the story is, he came out to his parents about 6 months ago and they didn't take it well, kicked him outta home and lost his job (family business) and he's going to uni (eventually wants to be a neurologist) ANYWAY... had to tell him I'd think about it..

    haha oddly, I'm seriously contemplating it, he'll still live where he is, I don't need to do any of that dating stuff or pretend there is any relationship, it's pretty much a "I get laid when I want and he gets his rent and bills paid" haha

    I'm quite shocked at my self for seriously considering it, but he's pretty damned good in the sack and can give head like it aint no bodies business, plus I don't need to be at all a boyfriend to the guy...

    And I suppose if I don't, someone else might and gawd knows who that could be..

    hmmm I don't know wtf I'm thinking..


    Oh DADDY.....

    Well....some 27 year old offered to be my sugar boi....so...YAH...trip to Hawaii here I cum!
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:37 PM GMT
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    wreckd saidWell, if you have the money, why not? I say go for it.
    Also, in your second to last sentence, it sounds like you might get jealous if he finds someone else to be his sugar daddy.

    wellllllllll kinda, more protective, I've seen the guys who are the "typical" sugar daddies, erm, they aren't the kinda guy I'd want someone like this guy being influenced by... Don't get me wrong, this guys got a real strong head and he's determined, but I've seen what happens to some guys who are constantly pecked away at by these wealthy older men and I wouldn't wanna see that happen to him.

    Well then, say yes. I completely understand though, cause I'm the same way, though I'd also be jealous along with being protective. Though, you aren't in any way a sugar daddy yet lol. You got plenty years to go.
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:40 PM GMT
    Sounds like you are going to need some sort of contract.

    Wonder what the language of said contract might look like?
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:41 PM GMT
    Still amounts to paying for sex which equals prostitution in my book. However, Tank, the decision is yours and yours alone. If you can deal with it and don't mind the money thing and can't sleep at night, by all means do what makes you and the guy happy. It really is none of our business and I know you really are that kind of guy. You walk to the beat of your own drum. I'll support whatever you decide because I still think you are rock solid. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 09, 2010 11:42 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidSounds like you are going to need some sort of contract.

    Wonder what the language of said contract might look like?

    hahaha I don't think anything quite so formal would be needed.
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    Mar 10, 2010 12:21 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    wreckd saidWell, if you have the money, why not? I say go for it.
    Also, in your second to last sentence, it sounds like you might get jealous if he finds someone else to be his sugar daddy.

    wellllllllll kinda, more protective, I've seen the guys who are the "typical" sugar daddies, erm, they aren't the kinda guy I'd want someone like this guy being influenced by... Don't get me wrong, this guys got a real strong head and he's determined, but I've seen what happens to some guys who are constantly pecked away at by these wealthy older men and I wouldn't wanna see that happen to him.


    Albeit I don't belive you. lets not forget though something is not for nothing. Young things sell their bodys and souls for cash, and or security to older men. They too pay a price. Also it's not a one way street either the damage these young things can do to the older guys psyche too; it's not one way.
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    Mar 10, 2010 12:58 AM GMT

    Tank,

    Obviously you're not my favorite person, but- aren't you better than this?
    Seriously, "be my sugar-daddy", (i.e. booty for rent). icon_lol.gif

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    Mar 10, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    If you're okay with it morally, ethically, and financially, I'd say do it. I don't know if I could have a sugar daddy -- I value my independence very highly -- but I don't have a problem with the system in general. I suppose if I support legalized prostitution (which I do), then I have to be behind this system.

    My vote? Yes.
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    Mar 10, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
    You too young, Tank. Far too young. You should have guys asking to be your sugardaddy!
    By the way...*clears throat*....
  • 8Always_Hard8

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    Mar 10, 2010 1:25 AM GMT
    lol so aka your paying him for sex

    lol
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    Mar 10, 2010 1:36 AM GMT
    8Always_Hard8 saidlol so aka your paying him for sex

    lol


    Why not he need some
  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 10, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    You are too funny,
    Alot of the younger guys approach me around the neighborhood and they dont have checkers on their minds.... One guy even said to me ' I'LL TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOU'' if you buy me sneakers......can you imagine....icon_eek.gif
  • calibro

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    Mar 10, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    i don't remember asking you that...
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    Mar 10, 2010 1:48 AM GMT
    I wanted you to be my daddy icon_sad.gif (jk I dont know you at all O.O)

    anywho, fuck it...if you gettin ass and he is ok with it, then theres no beef at all...just becareful he wont turn into a psycho....anyways good luck on your decision makin :d
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:00 AM GMT
    Well I'll let you hit it whenever you want for free icon_cool.gif when I move to Sydney. icon_wink.gif



    or If you ever visit SoCal
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:19 AM GMT
    I say go for it! If you got the money and will to do it, why not!! Help the kid out, and get a little something in return. Just set some rules daddy!! icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:20 AM GMT
    sexyactionnick saidIf you're okay with it morally, ethically, and financially, I'd say do it. I don't know if I could have a sugar daddy -- I value my independence very highly -- but I don't have a problem with the system in general. I suppose if I support legalized prostitution (which I do), then I have to be behind this system.

    My vote? Yes.

    Oh there wont be any thing changing really, he aint coming to live with me and besides sex I don't wanna hang out with him or have him about on any regular basis, he talks to much hahaha, he'll still sleep with who ever he wants and I'll do the same, but I think there will just be an agreement that this regular thing (ie, 3 - 4 times a week) will continue.

    I really have no interest in a relationship with him or anyone, so there wont be any sort of relationship beyond sex.
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    lilTanker said

    I really have no interest in a relationship with him or anyone, so there wont be any sort of relationship beyond sex.



    Hell yeah!
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:26 AM GMT
    You'd give me such a toothache lilTanker. icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:34 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    dustin_K_tx saidSounds like you are going to need some sort of contract.

    Wonder what the language of said contract might look like?

    hahaha I don't think anything quite so formal would be needed.

    No contract for sexual services would be legally enforceable, fortunately.
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    Mar 10, 2010 3:10 AM GMT
    I wouldnt commit for more than 6 months. Enough to help him get on his feet, but not too long for him to become too comfortable with someone else paying his bills. A little fire under his butt will help him to grow.
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    Mar 10, 2010 3:13 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidSounds like you are going to need some sort of contract.

    Wonder what the language of said contract might look like?


    Shit, can't find it. I ALWAYS keep a Suagr Daddy contract nearby.

    But.....to hit the high points:

    1) Make sure you incorporate a clause in regards to future palimony. After all, he is whoring and if he is no longer putting out you should not have to pay him long term.

    2) Personal items. He cannot remove any personla item from your home or homes other than what he brought with him and/or any item which wss not titles in his name. This is particularly important in regards to automobiles.

    3) Disability or retirement. If his pecker stops working he'll need disability. You can buy him a cheap policy for a period of say, 10 years, in case his future Sugar Daddy is not as generous.

    4) Last.....Fair Play Clause: Sugar Babby does ot have exclusive use of your cock.

    ;Nuff said.