When you Hot list a guy?

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    Mar 10, 2010 2:32 AM GMT
    When you are about to Hot list that guy, are you just hot listing him because of the face and kickn body or are you including his profile such as qualities in him?
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:40 AM GMT
    profile included, I start reading things about "being masculine" and I totally lose interest.
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:42 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidprofile included, I start reading things about "being masculine" and I totally lose interest.


    Is that because, you don't believe him, or that you think he has issues and has to be tuff?
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    Mar 10, 2010 2:45 AM GMT
    EverydayJack said
    lilTanker saidprofile included, I start reading things about "being masculine" and I totally lose interest.


    Is that because, you don't believe him, or that you think he has issues and has to be tuff?

    well, I could try and speculate, but, it's just a complete turnoff.
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    Mar 10, 2010 3:10 AM GMT
    When I hot list a guy, initially, it is based on the body, the face or more specific such as the eyes, legs, etc. I always read their profiles and the more a guys writes, the more I am either intrigued or turned off. Hotness means different things to different people. My hotlist lately includes alot of guys who have my opinion of a hot body that I would aspire to get as well as things in their profiles that have inspired me in different areas.
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    Mar 10, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    Good I like that! I hadn't considered that view. Thanks!icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 10, 2010 5:27 AM GMT
    I hot list a guy - because something in the profile turned me on!
    (does that make me sound ....cheap?)
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    Mar 10, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    A handful of guys I've "Hot Listed" based on looks alone. The rest are guys I think are hot AND have been fun to chat with.
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    Mar 10, 2010 6:37 AM GMT
    I hot-list people because they're hot. Then I'll read their profile.
  • RP919

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    Mar 10, 2010 6:41 AM GMT
    Initially his body, face and pictures showing them. Secondary I'll read the profile and if something turns me off it negates the hot list category.
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    Mar 10, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    I'll admit that hot guys get my attention and I'll hot list them after viewing their pics AND their profiles.

    Lately though, I've been hotlisting smart, respectable guys after reading their intelligent posts. I read between the lines in their response to the topic or rebuttals to opposing views. These guys who may or may not share my views get my attention because they make strong, reasonable analysis of the subject without judgment or offense to the opposer. To me, that's one sexy conversationalist.
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    Mar 10, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    I use looks but there also has to be similar ways of thinking. I like intelligent, fit guys who are educated.
  • coolarmydude

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    Mar 10, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    It varies. I have removed someone off my Hotlist before because he was a total jerk. He's no longer here. Imagine that!!
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    Mar 10, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    I hot list guys with killer bods or cute faces...yep Im pretty damn shallow but oh wellz :d...bout to reach 100...need to terminate a couple of lads >: D
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    Mar 10, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    RP919 saidInitially his body, face and pictures showing them. Secondary I'll read the profile and if something turns me off it negates the hot list category.


    Me too, especially if their shallow and self centered with words starting... HOT/MASCULINE/VGL/HUNG/JOCK. Just seems so vain, YUK. Let me make that decision.
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    Mar 10, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    I hotlist because I'm interested in them, and usually 2 out of 3 factors need to be present:

    - I'm attracted to/admire the body pics
    - I'm attracted to/admire the face pics
    - I like what they have to say about themselves

    If it's JUST bodyshots and nothing else, I'm not likely to hotlist. If they sound like a dick, I won't hotlist and generally sigh and lament the shallow looks-oriented side of our culture. LOL
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    Mar 10, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    bigeasydude saidI'll admit that hot guys get my attention and I'll hot list them after viewing their pics AND their profiles.

    Lately though, I've been hotlisting smart, respectable guys after reading their intelligent posts. I read between the lines in their response to the topic or rebuttals to opposing views. These guys who may or may not share my views get my attention because they make strong, reasonable analysis of the subject without judgment or offense to the opposer. To me, that's one sexy conversationalist.


    Yea I feel the same way! Looks along doesn't get the HOT List anymore.
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    Mar 10, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    I hotlisted him because there's only room for one person on my hotlist and he's earned his spot. icon_smile.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Mar 10, 2010 4:10 PM GMT
    I hot list the guys because they have nice feet. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 10, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    I always include the profile.