A Convergence of Men

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    Mar 11, 2010 8:19 PM GMT
    Tonight I have an event for a project I've been working on and I'm sick to my stomach because there are going to be 4 ex-boyfriends and about 5 guys that I dated noncommittally and a myriad of guys who I have a speckled past with.

    On top of that my date is the guy I'm currently, casually but exclusively dating, whom a handful of my friends have ever met.

    I've always been really proud of my ability to stay friends with my ex's but they've never converged all at once before... along with almost all my closest friends, work colleagues and positive social acquaintances.

    I did giggle at first with a sort of sick narcissistic pleasure when I saw the people who RSVP'ed but now that the day is here I'm kinda freaked out. I'm good at multi-tasking but tonight might stretch my ability to socially function like a normal human.

    Any pearls of wisdom from the ranks?
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    Mar 11, 2010 8:28 PM GMT
    HAHAHAHA oh my icon_biggrin.gif

    Here is a pearl of wisdom for you....

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHA

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  • Timbales

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    Mar 11, 2010 8:30 PM GMT
    how many of them have been intimate with each other?
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:09 PM GMT
    That a vitamin Q and get ready to orgy.
  • DCEric

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    Mar 11, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    Lets make this simple.... whats the worst that could happen? They discuss your dick size? they compare notes on who made you howl the most? Or are you nervous about something more mundane, like two of them start dating?
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    So glad I don't have gay friends and really don't interact with gays on a regular basis...no awkward moments.
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:16 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidHAHAHAHA oh my icon_biggrin.gif

    Here is a pearl of wisdom for you....

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHA

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    I don't think it gets any wiser than this.
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:31 PM GMT
    I'm lame I know... there is a myriad of them.
    My ex who I was "married" to for six years, and guys I just "spent time with", men I've traveled with, some from last year, some from ten years ago...

    Nothing will go wrong but as much of an attention whore as I am, I'm just not used to this kind of attention.

    Being surface and topical with a group I've shared intimacies with individually is going to be frustrating because they all deserve to feel special and I don't know how to do that on such a scale!

    They are all lovely, wonderful men... I'm sure nothing will go awry.
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:36 PM GMT
    I have been in that situation. Everyone had a wonderful time. Of course, I tend to date mature people. If you had a string of drama queens I wouldn't use anything flammable on your hair.
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:38 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidI have been in that situation. Everyone had a wonderful time. Of course, I tend to date mature people. If you had a string of drama queens I wouldn't use anything flammable on your hair.

    They are wonderful, all of them. They deserve much more than I have to give tonight... I guess that could be the theme of each relationship or we wouldn't be ex's! Hah!

    I just need to chill the fuck out and breathe.
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:42 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidI have been in that situation. Everyone had a wonderful time. Of course, I tend to date mature people. If you had a string of drama queens I wouldn't use anything flammable on your hair.


    nice icon_lol.gif I'm sure it'll all be fine icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:42 PM GMT
    Hey I'll be there and I'll stand in as your Dad if you need help. Otherwise face your fears!!!

    Anyone gets their tits in a tizzy do the liltanker dance " Kick'em to the Curb"

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    Mar 11, 2010 10:44 PM GMT
    agri_sci saidSo glad I don't have gay friends and really don't interact with gays on a regular basis...no awkward moments.


    Ditto. Also the fact I have only dated two guys over the past 20 years, and have not split up with anyone since I was 24, and before that I was in my right of massage being a slut, and had my own stabel of men too. That all is so long gone, dead even, and since one of my parterns is now dead, and that leaves my one compainion, my life can never be in such a predicament; never!icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:44 PM GMT
    NCemtOBX said
    lilTanker saidHAHAHAHA oh my icon_biggrin.gif

    Here is a pearl of wisdom for you....

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHA

    That is all icon_biggrin.gif



    I don't think it gets any wiser than this.


    And how sad is that..............
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    Roccoe saidHey I'll be there and I'll stand in as your Dad if you need help. Otherwise face your fears!!!

    Anyone gets their tits in a tizzy do the liltanker dance " Kick'em to the Curb"

    I'm so glad you are going to be there! IguanaSF will be there too!!
    *sigh* I'm going to be a grinning fool all night... from nerves and just overwhelming love. So many people I love most will be there... my mind is racing... I feel so lucky... and freaked... and lucky... and freaked.

    ...where is that Xanax...
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    i think liltanker got it right. i don't think there's anything to do but just laugh.

    no, seriously HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:54 PM GMT
    heckyeah09 saidi think liltanker got it right. i don't think there's anything to do but just laugh.

    no, seriously HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.


    lol yeah he did
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    Mar 11, 2010 10:57 PM GMT
    ...yeah... funny... this will be me for the first 15 minutes.

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    Mar 11, 2010 11:20 PM GMT
    Just got my hair cleaned up, am off to have some tea with on of the ex's and then take a nap before I get ready.

    See you all on the other side! Hah!
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    Mar 12, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    PAJohn said
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    agri_sci saidSo glad I don't have gay friends and really don't interact with gays on a regular basis...no awkward moments.


    Ditto. Also the fact I have only dated two guys over the past 20 years, and have not split up with anyone since I was 24, and before that I was in my right of massage being a slut, and had my own stabel of men too. That all is so long gone, dead even, and since one of my parterns is now dead, and that leaves my one compainion, my life can never be in such a predicament; never!icon_razz.gif


    Wow. You're really fucked up. No wonder you're such a jerk!


    Who was that directed at? I simply dont have gays in my circle.
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    Mar 12, 2010 12:17 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidHAHAHAHA oh my icon_biggrin.gif

    Here is a pearl of wisdom for you....

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHA

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    That is all icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 12, 2010 12:20 AM GMT
    Nothing you can do but let the night play out, buddy.

    So you've dated a few people and they are all going to be in the same room with you. Big deal. Do your event project. Make nice and mingle and just enjoy the evening.

    You are always going to run into people with who you've had a past history with whether it's good or bad. Nothing you can do but move forward and look towards the future.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Mar 12, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    I hesitate to feel bad for you, mostly because you have enough ex-boyfriends to fill a room.

    Bitterness aside, good luck with your event!
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    Mar 12, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    This thread is delicious
  • Timbales

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    Mar 12, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    I can't even imagine it.