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    Mar 12, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    so threres this guy where i work and he is gorgeous he is flawless....

    he is tall dark hair.tan,huge muscles,great bod etc..and he has dimples heh
    anyways
    so we flirt and we talk during our lunch break,he pays for my food sometimes and hes told me we should go out but never do..well here the deal
    he is STRAIGHT and has a GIRLFRIEND..they been going out for 2 yrs and he told me he didnt want to talk to me anymore couse i make him feel stuff hes never felt befor not even with his girlfriend,he told me hes not gay but since he saw me he cant stop thinking about me.
    i really really like him alot,like alot but his girlfriend is hot typical blond,big boobs,blue eyes,nice body,tan..etc..in other words FAKE..
    but im way hotter,but wt should i do i really want to put my lips on his..and i no he does to but his girlfriend i think knows couse she looks at me weird when she picks him up after work sometimes usually fridays like tomarrow..i need advice..or im gonna tear a relationship apart...
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    Mar 12, 2010 1:52 AM GMT
    Give him your number and tell him you’ll be around when he is ready to except what he is feeling.

    Then break off all contact and move on.
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    Mar 12, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    The contact has been made and both of you have made your feelings and positions known. Leave him alone if you can't respect his relationship and be his friend.
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    Mar 12, 2010 3:55 AM GMT
    Keep flirting with him. Have lunch with him if he lets you. You can crack him.

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  • htkhkhya

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    May 18, 2010 6:15 AM GMT
    I think the problem depends on your friend. May be you two take a short time a part and after that you two will know clearly what do u two really want.
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    May 18, 2010 6:23 AM GMT
    Say hypothetically he breaks up with his girlfriend and goes for you... Be prepared for a lot of baggage. He hasn't even come out to himself let alone others so don't even get me started.

    Either hands off or have fun but don't expect a romantic relationship.
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    May 18, 2010 6:27 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidGive him your number and tell him you’ll be around when he is ready to except what he is feeling.

    Then break off all contact and move on.


    ditto.
  • barriehomeboy

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    May 18, 2010 6:32 AM GMT
    Bi guys are the biggest fuckups on the planet. If he's willing to leave the women alone to be with you and you alone, he's a keeper. Otherwise, adios amigo.
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    May 18, 2010 6:39 AM GMT
    I forgot who you were so I clicked on your profile. lol.

    But... if he's got no attachments to this girl other than the relationship.... maybe wait it out.
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    May 18, 2010 7:01 AM GMT
    ShinyToyTrev saidI forgot who you were so I clicked on your profile. lol.

    But... if he's got no attachments to this girl other than the relationship.... maybe wait it out.


    omg this topic is so old hahaha like months old..i totaly forgot about it..lol when i saw it i was like wtf this is old lol
  • scothman

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    May 18, 2010 7:16 AM GMT
    BELLO said
    ShinyToyTrev saidI forgot who you were so I clicked on your profile. lol.

    But... if he's got no attachments to this girl other than the relationship.... maybe wait it out.


    omg this topic is so old hahaha like months old..i totaly forgot about it..lol when i saw it i was like wtf this is old lol


    Ok, so now its old. What eventually happened? haha.
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    May 18, 2010 7:29 AM GMT
    yes this is very old umm he did leave her and we did date for like 2 weeks if you call that dating and he just wanted sex so i passed and when he went back to his girlfriend she didnt want him anymore awwwwwww
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    May 18, 2010 7:39 AM GMT
    BELLO saidyes this is very old umm he did leave her and we did date for like 2 weeks if you call that dating and he just wanted sex so i passed and when he went back to his girlfriend she didnt want him anymore awwwwwww


    That's some tea right there

    haha
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    May 18, 2010 7:42 AM GMT
    SineOfChange said
    BELLO saidyes this is very old umm he did leave her and we did date for like 2 weeks if you call that dating and he just wanted sex so i passed and when he went back to his girlfriend she didnt want him anymore awwwwwww


    That's some tea right there

    haha


    lmfao your funny
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    May 18, 2010 11:45 AM GMT

    ".i need advice..or im gonna tear a relationship apart..."

    ..well, you certainly did that.
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    May 18, 2010 11:55 AM GMT
    Wow, finally a fallow-up to a: “I’m in love with a straight boy.”
    You got the guy but dumped him after you realized all he wanted was sex—classic.
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    May 18, 2010 12:23 PM GMT
    pull out that whip, make him your bitch and listen to him squeal in joy!
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    May 18, 2010 12:27 PM GMT
    barriehomeboy saidBi guys are the biggest fuckups on the planet.


    Thank you for providing my first "what the fuck is wrong with people and why are they SOOOO dense???" moment of the day. I'm sure there will be more to follow, but this comment was a great start.
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    May 18, 2010 12:38 PM GMT
    Don't fuck it up! Remain friends only. If he wants/needs something from you, let him initiate!
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    May 18, 2010 12:38 PM GMT
    BELLO saidso threres this guy where i work and he is gorgeous he is flawless....

    he is tall dark hair.tan,huge muscles,great bod etc..and he has dimples heh
    anyways
    so we flirt and we talk during our lunch break,he pays for my food sometimes and hes told me we should go out but never do..well here the deal
    he is STRAIGHT and has a GIRLFRIEND..they been going out for 2 yrs and he told me he didnt want to talk to me anymore couse i make him feel stuff hes never felt befor not even with his girlfriend,he told me hes not gay but since he saw me he cant stop thinking about me.
    i really really like him alot,like alot but his girlfriend is hot typical blond,big boobs,blue eyes,nice body,tan..etc..in other words FAKE..
    but im way hotter,but wt should i do i really want to put my lips on his..and i no he does to but his girlfriend i think knows couse she looks at me weird when she picks him up after work sometimes usually fridays like tomarrow..i need advice..or im gonna tear a relationship apart...


    Remember, theory always sounds/looks better than the actual implementation.

    You sound like you're crushing hard for him and the concept/fantasy intrigues/excites you. But stop and think before you act, he is probably an emotional/psychological mess with what he is going through.

    You probably excite/intrigue him as well, but even if he does 'switch teams' it will take a while for him to come to grips with being gay/bi/(whatever). For alot of 'straight' guys in his situation this means coming to grips with the perceived social, religious, and cultural stigmas of what it is to be 'a gay'. Unless you are looking to walk down that path with him for a couple of years before you hit some semblance of stability - I'd say run!

    OR

    It could just be he's always been 'bi' (or whatever) and wants to get with you, the GF knows and she's hurting.

    Either way, I still say stay the hell out of it... unless you prefer major drama. -Good luck.
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    May 18, 2010 12:41 PM GMT
    Might as well kill this thread, BELLO's drama with the guy is over. Sounds like he got what he wanted, but it turned out to be not what he wanted.

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    May 18, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    DjDorchester saidMight as well kill this thread, BELLO's drama with the guy is over. Sounds like he got what he wanted, but it turned out to be not what he wanted.


    Oh bugga, I should have read the thread more carefully... Damn... heh
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    May 18, 2010 4:07 PM GMT
    Been there, done that, enjoyed the sex, and laughed when his gf wouldn't take him back which ultimately forced him to come out of the closet. icon_lol.gif
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    May 18, 2010 4:36 PM GMT
    OMG YOU GUYS i made this topic when i joined this site a long time ago..so yeah its done and over with hehe