Do You Ever Not "Hot List" A Guy Because...

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    Mar 14, 2010 8:24 AM GMT
    Do you ever see a profile you like, and you want to Hot List the guy, and then...you don't. Because he tends to be obnoxious on the forums, or maybe you're a little vain and he's not that certain brand of RJ-attractive, and you don't want people looking at your profile and asking "He's on his hot list? Well now, he's certainly not going on mine!" (Yay for pronoun confusion.)
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    Mar 14, 2010 9:22 AM GMT
    if he has posts on the forum and he comes across as obnoxious I don't hot list him, not because I care what other RJers think but because I usually will find him unattractive if the personality aint right.
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    Mar 14, 2010 12:56 PM GMT
    There are tons of people on my hotlist that are there because I find the fact that they are decent people hot. Others are there just because they are pretty.
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    Mar 14, 2010 12:59 PM GMT
    I have to agree with lilTanker on this.

    There's more to it.... than a great profile and a nice body. Which reminds me, I need to update my list.

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    Mar 14, 2010 12:59 PM GMT
    Basically if a guy's attractive (and sometimes that means I like his personality even if physically he's not great), well then I hot list him; it's a nice way to compliment someone and he can take it whatever way he does...

    Having such which one prima donna blocked me after I hot listed him! Rats to him.

    Jim
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Mar 14, 2010 1:01 PM GMT
    l don't hot list anyone period!
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    Mar 14, 2010 1:01 PM GMT
    It's a hotlist, not an "I approve of your personality" list. I hotlist for lots of reasons, but mostly because a guy is hot and I never exclude because of a personality clash. That would be intolerant.
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    Mar 14, 2010 1:12 PM GMT
    OH I do exclude if they are obnoxious. I once hotlisted one guy who then started going off against marriage equality and so he got ditched. No matter how pretty, someone like that is not hot.
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    Mar 14, 2010 1:21 PM GMT
    Jerry said it far more eloquently than I shall ever be able...
  • masculumpedes

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    Mar 14, 2010 1:23 PM GMT
    I Hot List whoever I want to....regardless of what someone else may think. All of the guys have been very nice, considerate, great sense of humor type of guys. 34.gif
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    Mar 14, 2010 2:53 PM GMT
    no. if a guy is hot, then hes hot....so I hotlist him.
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    Mar 14, 2010 3:23 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidif he has posts on the forum and he comes across as obnoxious I don't hot list him, not because I care what other RJers think but because I usually will find him unattractive if the personality aint right.


    I like the way you think, very much like me!
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    Mar 14, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    We haven't hot-listed anyone. icon_redface.gif

    We're not here for the bodies-beautiful, but are for the personalities, which don't fade or suddenly disappear with any of the 'thousand tortures of the flesh' (Shakespeare, we think) which are beyond anyone's control.

    We don't hotlist over personalities because there is that group of gays here that immediately yank credibility of being monogamous out and start spitting on it. Neither of us have anytime for that crap.

    We DO buddy-list, because we think that's hotter, eh? icon_wink.gif



  • Celticmusl

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    Mar 14, 2010 3:40 PM GMT
    H to the L y'all!
  • masculumpedes

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    Mar 14, 2010 3:41 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    We DO buddy-list, because we think that's hotter, eh? icon_wink.gif

    I like the way you think. I'm gonna be keeping my eye on you! 43.gif
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    Mar 14, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    This seems like more effort than is necessary in having a 'hot' list.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 14, 2010 3:50 PM GMT
    I've never had any thoughts about "perceptions" others might have about my or anyone elses hotlist.

    I appreciate being hotlisted, its not something I actively look to do with others. It certainly doesn't mean I don't think they are hot. I just dont' think to do it.
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    Mar 14, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    Unattractive personality - no hot list. twak.gif
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    Mar 14, 2010 3:57 PM GMT
    McGay saidIt's a hotlist, not an "I approve of your personality" list. I hotlist for lots of reasons, but mostly because a guy is hot and I never exclude because of a personality clash. That would be intolerant.


    I find your lack of intolerance, intolerable. But I'll tolerate you.

    Also, I find many things hot such as a sense of humor, proper grammar, intellijence, inteligence--smarts icon_biggrin.gif
    OH and Pecs and Abs icon_twisted.gif
    But a bad personality or cockiness is not hot.
  • masculumpedes

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    Mar 14, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    Pianist saidUnattractive personality - no hot list. twak.gif



    Hmmmm...gotta remember this 19.gif
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    Mar 14, 2010 4:04 PM GMT
    If I wanted people on here to take my Hotlist as indicative of my soul it would be very different.

    Does that make sense?

    I wank over porn but, without wanting to stereotype, doubt I'd fall in love with a pornstar.

    There are some guys on here who are incredibly "hot" physically, but I actually choose not to hotlist them because their personality comes across as so special, I wouldn't want to offend them and have them think I was objectifying them.

    SHIT I hope I haven't inadvertently offended anyone with that last paragraph. icon_redface.gif

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    Mar 14, 2010 4:32 PM GMT
    I don't care what people think of my hot list.

    But there have been times when I am looking at the profile of a hot guy... I read what he has written on his profile and posts... and the ugliness on the inside overwhelms the beauty on the outside.

    Suddenly... the hottest guy can look ugly because of the ugliness on the inside.

    Or vice versa...

    I've become attracted to some guys I may not be oringally attracted to AFTER reading their thoughts, opinions, values, and morals.
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    Mar 14, 2010 4:38 PM GMT
    Brit_Bloke saidIf I wanted people on here to take my Hotlist as indicative of my soul it would be very different.


    It's just pictures of guys you like to look at! It's not a list of people you're nominating for the Nobel Prize.

    That said, I list just a few people I've had some interaction with. Hotness comes from who a guy is, not how well he photographs.
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    Mar 14, 2010 4:40 PM GMT
    _Brandon saidMy album



    Man, _Brandon_...lots of guys do, except you.
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    Mar 14, 2010 4:45 PM GMT
    there are guys on my hot list i think nothing of, others i talk to all the time, they're hot, they're great and i haven't hotlisted them.
    It has absolutely no coherence whatsoever.

    I wonder about guys who hotlist hundreds. I mean do they ever go back to page 75 and look at who they hotlisted 2 years ago ?