May 20, 2007 4:27 AM GMT
I've been a life-long top (all of six years now; since the days of dating women to the present) and recently had a debate with a friend. Somehow we got on the subject of preferences and I mentioned I hadn't done it yet because I want to meet someone worth that pain and that I want to do it for. He asked why I didn't have the same mindset when topping a guy. To which I responded, I don't need something up my ass to make me cum and there is really no mental committment to topping. Besides, if you do everything for every and any one, what makes a bf special? Not being judgemental, I'd just like to hear others opinions on if either topping or bottoming is more "sacred".