Sex - lights on or off?

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    Mar 19, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
    It used to be that my partner and I would have sex at all times of the day. Lately, it is almost always at night. Usually, the lights are ready off or he'll turn the lights off right around the time we start going at it. Recently, he surprised me by keeping the lights on. Just wondering what most guys here do - leave the lights on or turn them off?
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    Mar 19, 2010 8:57 PM GMT
    lights on or turn them off ? I love it any way . But my favorite place outside in the backyard or in the woods .
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    Mar 19, 2010 8:58 PM GMT
    either either. a bit of light is always good.
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    Mar 19, 2010 9:03 PM GMT
    Depends on our mood, and other circumstances, but can be either for us, too, no strict rule. Seldom in total pitch darkness, however, except as a rare novelty. Most common is low "romantic" lighting.
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    Mar 19, 2010 9:19 PM GMT
    The only time its totally dark is when blindfolded...otherwise some light is nice.
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    Mar 19, 2010 9:26 PM GMT
    Duh, in the light, or being a body nazi would be pointless...

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  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Mar 19, 2010 9:29 PM GMT
    Well I like some light I've always had some light always a low light of a blue or green color.. and some times black light ;D
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    Mar 19, 2010 9:31 PM GMT
    FRONT2BACK saidThe only time its totally dark is when blindfolded...otherwise some light is nice.

    ::: PERK ::: Blindfolded? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 19, 2010 10:01 PM GMT
    ...dim all the lights sweet darlin cause tonight is...:wink
  • chris_dallas

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    Mar 19, 2010 10:04 PM GMT
    sometimes back on sometimes off
    but more often on or dimmed cuz seeing eachother makes it better unless ur ugly lol
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    Mar 19, 2010 10:07 PM GMT
    I like light....and mirrors. To see everything going on.
  • candhmuscle

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    Mar 19, 2010 10:11 PM GMT
    dim dim the lights...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 19, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    I like spotlights, sound crews, gaffers, cameras, scaffolding, props, and stuntmen.

    But when I'm not on camera, light or dark can both be thrilling for their own reasons.
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    Mar 19, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    Lights and mirrors for us! icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 19, 2010 10:26 PM GMT
    My man is amazingly sexy. I can't get enough of looking at him. ON. Definitely ON.
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    Mar 19, 2010 10:36 PM GMT
    On or dimmed. Not off. Seems pointless if you can't look at him.
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    Mar 20, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    Mirrors can be fun. The first guy I ever topped had a big mirror right next to the bed and I couldn't resist looking every once in a while to check out how we looked.
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    Mar 20, 2010 12:47 AM GMT
    I like bright lights! I like to see what's going on. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 20, 2010 12:48 AM GMT
    seanmm saidOn or dimmed. Not off. Seems pointless if you can't look at him.


    I agree!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 20, 2010 12:55 AM GMT
    personally i don't really care. my bf likes the ceiling lite off but the closet light on to have some light. now if we have a camera going, obviously the lights have to be on hehe ;-)
  • swimbikerun

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    Mar 20, 2010 12:59 AM GMT
    ON. I like to see what I've paid for!
    Although all cats do pet the same in the dark.icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 20, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    Definitely on and with mirrors. I like to see myself enjoying the ride. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 20, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    Well let me think back to the last time... and it may take a while, but I think both ways can be just as exciting. Sometimes you want to see him and ravage him, other times there is a certain excitement to exploring in the dark as it increases sensory perception icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 20, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    If I had to choose, then dim lights. You'd have to be really familiar with your partner to try total darkness (been there, evidently we were still in the getting to know each other phase... :-) ).

    Full light is for REAL jocks only, or for those old enough not to care.

    Sex in the woods does seem exotic... though, I don't plan on getting Lyme Disease as an STD...:-)
  • myklet1

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    Mar 20, 2010 9:12 AM GMT
    I like lights off.........my partner likes lights on,,,,,,,,,,so we compromise and light a few candles.