how many is the question?????

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    Mar 21, 2010 5:04 AM GMT
    so when u date someone the question is always HOW MANY PEOPLE THEY SLEPT WITH...
    do u guys think it matters to no how many yo partner has slapt with and wt if its alot..does that change things or no..couse for me.it does..just thinking about all those ass's that hes fucked or all those dicks that fucked him..then again thats just me .
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    Mar 21, 2010 5:09 AM GMT
    nope, I don't care... there are a lot more important things to worry about then how many he's slept with.
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    Mar 21, 2010 12:40 PM GMT
    Actually, I would rather not know the number of guys my partner has slept with because I don't want to think about those guys when I am with him.
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    Mar 21, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    Everyone has a history... it's your turn to make your own history together. and quite possibly the future for the two of you.

    look at it this way... he was practicing with all of those guys to make it a better experience for you.

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    Mar 21, 2010 3:13 PM GMT
    Yeah I do wonder too.....but then again I do love the practice makes perfect above!!
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    As long as the number wasn't in the 20s I think I'd be okay with it. BTW, does cyber sex count towards that number? Hope not... icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:28 PM GMT
    lol, you'll eventually limit yourself too much doing that BELLO.

    It works this way...every time you fall in love and it doesn't work out, that's a guy you were with. So how many is too many? Now imagine yourself dating at 35. How many exes will you have by then? icon_wink.gif

    Imagine, for a moment, the idea of being rejected by someone because you had failed relationships in the past....pretty harsh punishment just for trying to find love and happiness..
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    BELLO said so when u date someone the question is always HOW MANY PEOPLE THEY SLEPT WITH...
    do u guys think it matters to no how many yo partner has slapt with and wt if its alot..does that change things or no..couse for me.it does..just thinking about all those ass's that hes fucked or all those dicks that fucked him..then again thats just me .



    Just a friendly tip: If you're always hung up on people's past relationships, you will be the jealous one destroying whatever relationship you get involved with.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:31 PM GMT
    He he he he he he he he hhe, I'm such a slut. Fuck I can't even remember how may guys I fucked since the beginning of this year lol... And I even live in an Islamic state. My partner and I engage in orgies and they tend to get pretty uhm, confusing lol. I certainly don't give a damn about how many people anyone sleeps with... As long as they have fun doing it... Damn these Arabs orgies are HOT!!!!!icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    I mean it depends. .

    Like if they slept with hundreds of guys, im gonna kind of be grossed out. If they slept with like 10....than that's not that bad.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    epnico saidHe he he he he he he he hhe, I'm such a slut. Fuck I can't even remember how may guys I fucked since the beginning of this year lol... And I even live in an Islamic state. My partner and I engage in orgies and they tend to get pretty uhm, confusing lol. I certainly don't give a damn about how many people anyone sleeps with... As long as they have fun doing it... Damn these Arabs orgies are HOT!!!!!icon_wink.gif


    I think it's a past like yours that Bello is afraid of. Ha ha.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    My general rule of thumb is "Don't ask a question unless you are prepared and willing to hear and accept the answer".

    I would never ask someone how many people they have slept with. I honestly wouldn't want to know. I really wouldn't want them asking me such a question either. It just seems like it is coming from a place of insecurity and judgment.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:35 PM GMT


    ...some interesting posts here...I'll add to them that WHY a person has slept with others is much more important than how many.

    -Doug
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:36 PM GMT
    I think ideally my guy's number would fit on one hand. You want someone with some experience but not someone you're afraid you might catch a disease from.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:38 PM GMT
    someguy saidI think ideally my guy's number would fit on one hand. You want someone with some experience but not someone you're afraid you might catch a disease from.


    exactly

    Is it really necessary to sleep with dozens and dozens of men??

    I dunno.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:39 PM GMT
    i think thats a stupid questino cuz some ppl count sex as only anal and some ppl count HJs as sex, and i dont even know how many ppl ive slept with, it doesnt really matter to me as long as we both get STD checks regularly and we know where we stand. a number is a number
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:39 PM GMT
    Online stuff doesn't count though right? Are we agreed on that? Ha ha. I mean emotionally online play could be a problem, but I don't count that in my number since I haven't slept with those guys.
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:51 PM GMT
    lol oh i dont have a bf i was just wondering wt others thought about it..we all think differently.i do care and i will ask when the time comes..i dont want no std..
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    Mar 21, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    BELLO saidlol oh i dont have a bf i was just wondering wt others thought about it..we all think differently.i do care and i will ask when the time comes..i dont want no std..


    u dont get an STD from a guy who sleeps around alot, you get an STD from someone who sleeps with someone with an STD.

    as long as you play safe and are honest with eachother your good. i normally do the cutesy foreplay stuff and dont get into the full on anal sex until we both make a quick trip to the STD screening place.

    i mean sure the chances of a guy having an STD are greater with a guy who sleeps around alot, but i know alot of guys whove slept around alot and are always safe, then i know guys who only have sex when its "special" but think that cuz they wait they dont need condoms.

    just be safe icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 21, 2010 4:04 PM GMT
    I'm with waxon on this. You don't get an STD based on number of past partners. You get an STD from a guy (or both of you) being careless.

    -Doug
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    Mar 21, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    Bello if you're afraid of an STD make sure to get to know the guy a before you hook up. Of course you can still get one in a committed relationship if someone is unfaithful, but you've got better odds.
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    Mar 21, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    BELLO saidlol oh i dont have a bf i was just wondering wt others thought about it..we all think differently.i do care and i will ask when the time comes..i dont want no std..


    In that case wouldn't the more prudent question be "when was your last test?"

    I'm ok with my number, and don't mind telling people. I have an issue with the guys who don't know.. but i place a lot of importance on sex. For me its like the ultimate gift, if you will. Only the people who i see a future with get to go there.. but sometimes.. well.. people lie and sometimes it just don't work out. So for me i guess the number don't matter unless its ridiculous.. it would be harder to trust someone that seems to be too sexually charged.
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    Mar 21, 2010 4:27 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ saidMy general rule of thumb is "Don't ask a question unless you are prepared and willing to hear and accept the answer".

    I would never ask someone how many people they have slept with. I honestly wouldn't want to know. I really wouldn't want them asking me such a question either. It just seems like it is coming from a place of insecurity and judgment.


    My thoughts exactly!
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    Mar 21, 2010 4:32 PM GMT
    You shouldn't care about the number. You should get tested with your new boyfriend to insure that everything is ok, and if it's not to take precaution. Cause frankly, you can get a disease if you've only had sex once, and some have avoided disease after having sex with more than 100.

    And P.S. What are we counting as "slept with." Is that oral and more, or just the full enchilada?