I Don't Know What This Boy Is.

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    Mar 21, 2010 7:08 PM GMT
    Help. I don't know what this boy is. Into me, not into me, over me, playing hard to get, upset, whatever. I seriously have no idea. And I'm usually good at reading into people. I am at college and met this Fresh Fish (freshman) and we hit it off pretty well. We weren't officially "together" but sort of dating i guess u could say. He introduces me to his friend John Doe ...my boy falls off the map for awhile and for some reason isn't talking to me?!...so i start spending some more time just talking w/ John Doe. We are just hanging out. Then my boy finds out and he throws a fit and won't talk to me or anything.

    He returns texts I send but the whole spring break he hasn't initiated contact even ONCE. I know he's upset. But i can't figure out what else is going on. He's being annoyingly uncommunicative. And I sense he needs more time, but i really wish i knew if he was still into me.

    I want to give him space.

  • mcwclewis

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    Mar 21, 2010 8:17 PM GMT
    Space is probably the best option. I wouldn't stop communicating entirely, though. Just give it a week or so and try saying hi again. Talking about whatever is going on with him might be your best option, but you might not want to do it right away.
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    Mar 22, 2010 2:38 AM GMT
    Thank you for your response. And thank you so much for your time.
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    Mar 22, 2010 3:31 AM GMT

    You've put yourself out there and there's not much more you can do. If and when he does decide to contact you, it will be your choice to listen and try to understand or just move forward w/out the drama. He is a freshman w/ a lot on his plate so he might just be overwhelmed rt now.
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    Mar 22, 2010 3:32 AM GMT
    I know and you probably are right. I want to help him out though that is why I keep trying to be with him. I know he is having a hard time I just wish he would let me in. But no one can force their way in.

    It just sucks.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Mar 22, 2010 3:36 AM GMT
    Eh, space is overrated sometimes. Just ask him why he's upset with you. Get it outta the way now.
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    Mar 22, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    it's simple. he is either worth the little dance he has you in, or he isn't. this isn't about him...it's about you letting him have his way with you.

    just my .02.
  • jrs1

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    Mar 22, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    jlly_rnchr saidEh, space is overrated sometimes. Just ask him why he's upset with you. Get it outta the way now.

    you're so effing cute. there. it's outta the way now ...

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    Mar 22, 2010 3:48 AM GMT

    you're so effing cute. there. it's outta the way now ...

    I agree! Cute! I would get jealous too! Just forget it and continue on. The guy has issues - enough said.
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    Mar 22, 2010 3:52 AM GMT
    tell him to contact you back or you will bite his head off
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    Mar 22, 2010 4:51 AM GMT
    He is immature and still playing games. You can play along to see if he gets tired of the games or just move on (which is what I would do...but I am old)