So... Last night was my first time!!

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    Mar 22, 2010 5:21 AM GMT
    I'm feeling a bit guilty this morning, last night was my first time with a guy that I barely even knew.. I met a friend at a local club and he brought a few of his friends along, I got chatting to one of them and a few hours later I found myself in his bed!! I feel guilty/ashamed icon_redface.gif, I always said I'd wait.. Not that it was bad or anything.... Haha. Anyway, this is just basically about your first experience if you want to share.
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    Mar 22, 2010 5:30 AM GMT

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/561410

    just wait till your 10+ time.....Ohhhhh the shame! In all seriousness own it, enjoy it and if your up to it go for seconds!
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    Mar 22, 2010 5:49 AM GMT
    nyc2010 saidI'm feeling a bit guilty this morning, last night was my first time with a guy that I barely even knew.. I met a friend at a local club and he bought a few of his friends along, I got chatting to one of them and a few hours later I found myself in his bed!! I feel guilty/ashamed icon_redface.gif, I always said I'd wait.. Not that it was bad or anything.... Haha. Anyway, this is just basically about your first experience if you want to share.


    hehe, I've been in your shoes. There's nothing to be ashamed of.
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    Mar 22, 2010 8:42 AM GMT
    My first experience was with a girl but my first guy experience was like a hook up I think, I just really wanned to know what itd be like to have sex with a dude and I went all for it.
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    Mar 22, 2010 9:06 AM GMT
    ur such a skankeh HOE.....lolzicon_lol.gif
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    nyc2010 saidI met a friend at a local club and he bought a few of his friends along


    oh yah.... how much were they? how much he done bought them for?
  • tennsjock

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    Mar 22, 2010 10:19 AM GMT
    congratulations - hope you enjoyed it! my first time was with a friend who was "bisexual" -- it lasted all night, and we ended up staying together for over a year icon_smile.gif

    i've had relationships that began with dates, with sex coming later. i've also had relationships that began as purely sexual relationships. my ex-partner - we were together 6 yrs! - was initially just a fuck buddy, and then we chose to be monogamous, started living together, got a dog, etc.

    i've also had one night stands. nothing intrinsically wrong or self-destructive with it. the only judge that matters is you. was it wrong for you? maybe -- maybe it was too soon, maybe you rushed into something you weren't prepared for, but even if that's the case, guilt is a useless emotion. if you made a mistake, learn from it and move on. on the other hand, maybe you're just feeling a little overwhelmed right now - that's natural. maybe tomorrow you'll want to see him again for a repeat ;) or maybe you'll start seeing other guys.

    but if it helps, i have faith that you'll find out what works for you, and eventually you'll figure out what you want. good luck!
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    Mar 22, 2010 12:16 PM GMT
    Don't beat yourself up about this. Many of us didn't have the good luck to have our first time with someone we cared about.

    My first time came right of out college, at the end of an unconsummated romance with a closeted guy. Eventually I had to accept that he'd never come out. One night I got drunk, went out to a bar, and went home with the first guy who asked. Fortunately he was kind and understanding. I never saw him again.
    6 months later I met my first bf and learned that just sleeping with someone is very different from making love.
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    Mar 22, 2010 12:20 PM GMT
    Well...1st of all...congratulations. Secondly, I hope all events that transcribed did so using the necessary precautionary measures.

    Its sex...it happens...its fun...its supposed to be easy and uncomplicated (only my opinion, no need to get your panties in a bunch ppl) No need to feel guilty about it or feel bad.
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    Mar 22, 2010 12:23 PM GMT
    oh you cheap whore.. I hope he at least brought you a glass of water icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 22, 2010 12:32 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidoh you cheap whore.. I hope he at least brought you a glass of water icon_razz.gif

    "Cheap whore?" What about your first time?
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    Mar 22, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    TexDef07 said"Cheap whore?" What about your first time?

    never heard of humor?
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Mar 22, 2010 12:44 PM GMT
    Oh please, please, please say you wiped your dick on his drapes.....(hoping somebody gets this reference)

    Seriously, you had fun. You're an adult. You're allowed. And you don't know where this might go. You could see each other again, and that's good. And if not, you took a fun "test drive" and learned something about what you're looking for and what you're not looking for. That's all good. Really, it is.

    So, without sounding like a redneck who took his boy to the city to get Belle to "make him a man", congratulations. It's not a badge, but it doesn't have to be a scarlet letter, either. Now you know how powerful testosterone can be.

    Now, if I was writing to "him"...well, that's aonther story, so if you do see him again, could you please pass this on:
    "LISTEN UP, BUCKO! What are your intentions here? Huh, because nyc2010 is OUR guy, and you better not fuck with him unless you mean it. Oh, and don't go thinking you can wake him up early, and woo him with a cheap-ass McDonald's salad, cuz that's not his style. Let him sleep in - or else! Oh, and when you talk about this with your buds - the first thing out of your mouth better be "So hot, So cute, Such a heartbreaker!" So, cough it up and look him in the eye and smile next time you see him, or ELSE!"

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    Mar 22, 2010 1:17 PM GMT
    Haha.. Well he texted me and said he wants to see me again, so it couldn't of been that bad.. icon_lol.gif Thanks guys!!
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    Mar 22, 2010 1:24 PM GMT
    nyc2010 said ...and a few hours later I found myself in his bed!!

    how exactly does this work? one minute you're hanging with your friends, laughing, dancing, having some drinks, then the next minute...::poof::...you're in bed.

    it's like this happened TO you.

    man, i wish that i would be sitting at my computer, drinking my coffee, petting the cat on my lap, when...::poof::...next thing i know, i'm in the bed of a 23 year old adonis. it would make my life so much easier.

    LOL
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    Mar 22, 2010 1:34 PM GMT
    rangard said
    nyc2010 said ...and a few hours later I found myself in his bed!!

    how exactly does this work? one minute you're hanging with your friends, laughing, dancing, having some drinks, then the next minute...::poof::...you're in bed.

    it's like this happened TO you.

    man, i wish that i would be sitting at my computer, drinking my coffee, petting the cat on my lap, when...::poof::...next thing i know, i'm in the bed of a 23 year old adonis. it would make my life so much easier.

    LOL


    Maybe he's just too young to appreciate a fine "yada, yada, yada". icon_lol.gif
  • inuman

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    Mar 22, 2010 1:36 PM GMT
    nyc2010 saidI'm feeling a bit guilty this morning, last night was my first time with a guy that I barely even knew.. I met a friend at a local club and he brought a few of his friends along, I got chatting to one of them and a few hours later I found myself in his bed!! I feel guilty/ashamed icon_redface.gif, I always said I'd wait.. Not that it was bad or anything.... Haha. Anyway, this is just basically about your first experience if you want to share.



    Should have went all out and went live on DudesNude web cam chat and had a romp for all to see icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 22, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    nyc2010 saidHaha.. Well he texted me and said he wants to see me again, so it couldn't of been that bad.. icon_lol.gif Thanks guys!!


    who wouldn´t want to see you again?

    And don´t worry about it: Jesus doesn´t care. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Timbales

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    Mar 22, 2010 1:45 PM GMT
    Just make sure you are safe.
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    Mar 22, 2010 1:52 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidJust make sure you are safe.


    This.
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    Mar 22, 2010 1:56 PM GMT
    You always said you would wait for what?

    The great guilt trip that some gays love to put on themselves is when they have recreational sex.........as if they've forgotten they are men with needs. As if they have to distiguish themselves apart from stereotypical "promiscuity".

    Oh please.

    Why is it that straight men are considered virile and Don Juans when they have sexual "conquests", but when a gay guy does it, its considered slutty and a recipe for getting a disease?

    A hookup can leave you feeling good, proud and satisfied and even if it only lasts for one night (or a few hours), it is possible to make a connection with another man. It is possible to make love with a stranger.



  • rnch

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    Mar 22, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    congrats on having a pleasureable, enjoyable first time!

    always play safe.

    take it as a compliment that you heard from the guy again....hook up again and enjoy each other as long as it lasts. icon_wink.gif

    always play safe!
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    Mar 22, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    Win for the OP
  • Timbales

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    Mar 22, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
    KissingPro saidYou always said you would wait for what?

    The great guilt trip that some gays love to put on themselves is when they have recreational sex.........as if they've forgotten they are men with needs. As if they have to distiguish themselves apart from stereotypical "promiscuity".

    Oh please.

    Why is it that straight men are considered virile and Don Juans when they have sexual "conquests", but when a gay guy does it, its considered slutty and a recipe for getting a disease?

    A hookup can leave you feeling good, proud and satisfied and even if it only lasts for one night (or a few hours), it is possible to make a connection with another man. It is possible to make love with a stranger.





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    Mar 22, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidoh you cheap whore.. I hope he at least brought you a glass of water icon_razz.gif


    brings glass of water to liltunker............. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 23, 2010 9:05 PM GMT
    MuscleComeBack saidOh please, please, please say you wiped your dick on his drapes.....(hoping somebody gets this reference)

    Seriously, you had fun. You're an adult. You're allowed. And you don't know where this might go. You could see each other again, and that's good. And if not, you took a fun "test drive" and learned something about what you're looking for and what you're not looking for. That's all good. Really, it is.

    So, without sounding like a redneck who took his boy to the city to get Belle to "make him a man", congratulations. It's not a badge, but it doesn't have to be a scarlet letter, either. Now you know how powerful testosterone can be.

    Now, if I was writing to "him"...well, that's aonther story, so if you do see him again, could you please pass this on:
    "LISTEN UP, BUCKO! What are your intentions here? Huh, because nyc2010 is OUR guy, and you better not fuck with him unless you mean it. Oh, and don't go thinking you can wake him up early, and woo him with a cheap-ass McDonald's salad, cuz that's not his style. Let him sleep in - or else! Oh, and when you talk about this with your buds - the first thing out of your mouth better be "So hot, So cute, Such a heartbreaker!" So, cough it up and look him in the eye and smile next time you see him, or ELSE!"





    icon_lol.gifAAHAHAHA I totally did LOL nice!! icon_cool.gif




    And Congratz I just hope you had fun icon_biggrin.gif The first time I met with a guy I gave him a head, and I was really nervous I was shaking, but he tolld me it was okay if I wanted to go home but I told him no I wanted to stay so he whipped it out and I was like WOW and I told him to tell me if I was doing anything wrong he just laughed and said okay it was fun once I relaxed.