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  • bsings Posts: 14
    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 2:03 AM GMT
    Are bathhouses trashy? There are several within an hour or two form where I live, are they worth exploring?
  • myklet1 Posts: 345
    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 2:41 AM GMT
    I guess it depends what you are looking for in your life. Anonymous sex or a relationship that you want to grow with. Personally the bath house was never my thing. I like to meet and get to know someone before I make that step.It is way more exciting. But good luck whatever you choose!
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 8:38 PM GMT
    There are disgusting bathhouses.
    There are nice bathhouses.

    Go to one and if you don't like it, leave. It isn't like if you go and hate it you will be forced to muck about in the cum and the filth.
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 8:43 PM GMT
    What is a bathhouse? icon_question.gif
  • DCEric Posts: 3674
    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 8:45 PM GMT
    shan37 saidWhat is a bathhouse? icon_question.gif


    A place that is Craigslist without the Internet.
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 9:07 PM GMT
    DCEric said
    shan37 saidWhat is a bathhouse? icon_question.gif


    A place that is Craigslist without the Internet.

    LOL!
    True that!
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 9:31 PM GMT
    bsings saidAre bathhouses trashy? There are several within an hour or two form where I live, are they worth exploring?

    Depends on the bathhouse, and I don't know what your nearest options are. Some are rather upscale and classy, others quite trashy & disgusting. The idea is to have anonymous and mindless sex, which can be lots of fun, provided you keep it safe.

    Here's a of place I to which I had a membership, before I got hitched, which hubby does not approve so I no longer belong. I'd still like to go there with him, but he's more important to me than any bathhouse. But when i was single... pure heaven. icon_biggrin.gif

    Click on Photos in the menu bar. A bit upscale and not inexpensive, but just to show you that gay bathhouses are not all pits. I hope you have some good choices where you are.

    http://www.the-clubs.com/page.cfm?location=ftlauderdale#
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    DCEric said
    shan37 saidWhat is a bathhouse? icon_question.gif


    A place that is Craigslist without the Internet.


    He's only 16.
    Please don't corrupt Canada's youth. icon_biggrin.gif
  • HndsmKansan Posts: 15620
    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 9:56 PM GMT
    Never been in or even seen a bathhouse. I view them as something I'd avoid, but I have a limited view,
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    This topic just makes me want to relive a now infamous thread.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/798326
  • yogadudeSEATT... Posts: 372
    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 10:37 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    bsings saidAre bathhouses trashy? There are several within an hour or two form where I live, are they worth exploring?

    Depends on the bathhouse, and I don't know what your nearest options are. Some are rather upscale and classy, others quite trashy & disgusting. The idea is to have anonymous and mindless sex, which can be lots of fun, provided you keep it safe.

    Here's a of place I to which I had a membership, before I got hitched, which hubby does not approve so I no longer belong. I'd still like to go there with him, but he's more important to me than any bathhouse. But when i was single... pure heaven. icon_biggrin.gif

    Click on Photos in the menu bar. A bit upscale and not inexpensive, but just to show you that gay bathhouses are not all pits. I hope you have some good choices where you are.

    http://www.the-clubs.com/page.cfm?location=ftlauderdale#


    This is the only bathhouse I've ever been to. Red Vespa is right on. It was a cool place. Clean facilities. Nice dudes.
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 10:42 PM GMT
    cosmicjewboy said
    Red_Vespa said
    bsings saidAre bathhouses trashy? There are several within an hour or two form where I live, are they worth exploring?

    Depends on the bathhouse, and I don't know what your nearest options are. Some are rather upscale and classy, others quite trashy & disgusting. The idea is to have anonymous and mindless sex, which can be lots of fun, provided you keep it safe.

    Here's a of place I to which I had a membership, before I got hitched, which hubby does not approve so I no longer belong. I'd still like to go there with him, but he's more important to me than any bathhouse. But when i was single... pure heaven. icon_biggrin.gif

    Click on Photos in the menu bar. A bit upscale and not inexpensive, but just to show you that gay bathhouses are not all pits. I hope you have some good choices where you are.

    http://www.the-clubs.com/page.cfm?location=ftlauderdale#

    This is the only bathhouse I've ever been to. Red Vespa is right on. It was a cool place. Clean facilities. Nice dudes.

    And coincidentally, I was living in Seattle myself, as you are now, when I first visited it. Then bought a new motorcycle not far from that bathhouse, and rode it solo all the way back to Seattle from Fort Lauderdale, about 4700 miles the route I took. Oh, to be a mere 48 again! LOL!
  • calibro Posts: 8888
    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 11:00 PM GMT
    most of the ones i have been to have been ok. some more run down than others, but there's usually a hot tub, gym, and sauna to kill time with. i even watched flight plan once in a bath house.
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    QUOTE Mar 25, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    shan37 said
    DCEric said
    shan37 saidWhat is a bathhouse? icon_question.gif


    A place that is Craigslist without the Internet.


    huh?


    Steamworks on Jasper Ave

    btw 16 is the age of consent in Canada and the Supreme Court of Canada ruled that sex between consenting adults in a private club atmosphere is just that, private ,which effectively ended any more police raids and prosecutions on gay baths in Canada.
  • Greekboxer Posts: 2592
    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 1:56 AM GMT
    bathhouses are dripping with std's and not just hiv.
    so you can catch anything from athletes foot to the gay flu.
    GROSS.icon_eek.gif
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    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 2:11 AM GMT
    Ah, I could tell you stories... icon_lol.gificon_eek.gificon_surprised.gif
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    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 3:13 AM GMT
    beneful1 said
    shan37 said
    DCEric said
    shan37 saidWhat is a bathhouse? icon_question.gif


    A place that is Craigslist without the Internet.


    huh?


    Steamworks on Jasper Ave

    btw 16 is the age of consent in Canada and the Supreme Court of Canada ruled that sex between consenting adults in a private club atmosphere is just that, private ,which effectively ended any more police raids and prosecutions on gay baths in Canada.


    lol im 18 not 16
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    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 3:19 AM GMT
    Bathhouses are for whores and disgusting queers.icon_biggrin.gif

    Find some class and do something more productive.
  • calibro Posts: 8888
    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    PAstud21 saidBathhouses are for whores and disgusting queers.icon_biggrin.gif

    Find some class and do something more productive.


    like post pictures of my bicep and ridicule others?
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    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    calibro said
    PAstud21 saidBathhouses are for whores and disgusting queers.icon_biggrin.gif

    Find some class and do something more productive.


    like post pictures of my bicep and ridicule others?


    We have to fight enough sterotypes and bathhouses does not help matters. Often times gays bring it upon themselves.
  • nv7_ Posts: 1453
    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:34 AM GMT
    PAstud21 saidBathhouses are for whores and disgusting queers.icon_biggrin.gif

    Find some class and do something more productive.


    "Queers" have bathhouses and "heterosexuals" have Spring Break I guess....
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  • calibro Posts: 8888
    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:35 AM GMT
    PAstud21 said
    calibro said
    PAstud21 saidBathhouses are for whores and disgusting queers.icon_biggrin.gif

    Find some class and do something more productive.


    like post pictures of my bicep and ridicule others?


    We have to fight enough sterotypes and bathhouses does not help matters. Often times gays bring it upon themselves.


    have you been to one? because if you haven't, i'd have to say you're not qualified to formulate an opinion on them, and if you have, have you really visited them all such that you can make a generalization about all the bath houses in america and the people who frequent them? the only difference between meeting a guy for sex in a bath house as opposed to in a club and then taking him home is that there's no awkwardness of having to wake up with him the next day.
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    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:40 AM GMT
    calibro said
    PAstud21 said
    calibro said
    PAstud21 saidBathhouses are for whores and disgusting queers.icon_biggrin.gif

    Find some class and do something more productive.


    like post pictures of my bicep and ridicule others?


    We have to fight enough sterotypes and bathhouses does not help matters. Often times gays bring it upon themselves.


    have you been to one? because if you haven't, i'd have to say you're not qualified to formulate an opinion on them, and if you have, have you really visited them all such that you can make a generalization about all the bath houses in america and the people who frequent them? the only difference between meeting a guy for sex in a bath house as opposed to in a club and then taking him home is that there's no awkwardness of having to wake up with him the next day.


    If that is the type of guy you are (not so much you but generally speaking) on a regular basis then i guess it doesnt matter if its at a bathhouse or a bar HOWEVER sex is more prevalent generally speaking at bathhouses than the typical bar. One of the biggest things at a bathhouse is sex and that is not so much at bars. Bathhouses are centered and marketed around one thing : SEX.

    To each their own really but dont play victim or shocked when sterotypes are thrown out there against slutty fags.
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    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:40 AM GMT
    The main problem with bathhouses is that they're the perfect playing ground for getting an STD. It's probably worth visiting one just for the cultural aspect, but not necessarily for anything beyond that.
  • nv7_ Posts: 1453
    QUOTE Mar 26, 2010 4:49 AM GMT
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