Mar 26, 2010 7:45 AM GMT
Over the past years, I have been this sight and other numerous sights just talking to guys, hanging out with them, and so on and I noticed something...A lot of times, guys try to say hello, but by saying this phrase, "sup bro", or " Nice pics bro". Now, not that I think this is stupid, I think I am kind of uncomfortable with it. I know a lot of times the guys who message me these things, just want to be friends, and I am fine with that. However, the majority of the time they want to "talk to me" talk to me, and using the "sup bro", or the " sup, you sexy bro", makes me feel AKWARD!!!...lol. With my buddies, like guy friends(str8 or gay) if they use this term/phrase, I am like "yo dude", or "yeah homie", and the occasion "get it, puta!"But, these are my homies, my compadres, and we can say that. I feel with someone I am interested or who is interested in me should use something else. I think I prefer getting a message like"hey sexy" or "looking good baby"or even "hey, daddy". I may not always find that sexy or attractive, but it will get a better response from me than" sup, bro". I posted on a forum earlier this week about liking fem gays, or not so masc gays, and I think to me, this is trying to act more masc, or "straight" ( if you want to call it that) and I guess I am just not feeling it. Maybe, I don't really like the straight acting gays, or the oh so Masc gays, cause I like deal with it a lot. I mean I am masc, but not uber, I do have my flame burning now and then, but I kinda like that sweet wifey(hubby) material that is kind of bitchy, a bit femm, and who wants to call me"baby" rather than, "bro". Am I wierd? Do I even make sense?...I think so, but what do you lovely "bro's" think?