Sex Parties

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    Mar 26, 2010 11:26 PM GMT
    Ok i would like to know how many of you fellow realjockers have been invited or attended a sex party? And is it really dangerous to go to one if you know how to protect yourself? I got an invite on another "networking" website.......apparently...its a party that host only Greek muscled men for Black athletic/muscled men...which is kinda odd i thought. Back when i was in undergrad i had a friend who use to host them and he paid his mortgage by having these parties which is kinda smart. But anyways....how many of you have went to one..and for readers out there list the safety precautions you ought to have in mind if you do go to one. And..what if you see someone there like per say your boss...what should one do if they run into a familiar face?
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  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 26, 2010 11:39 PM GMT
    Now thats funny,,MY BOSSicon_question.gif if you could see him you'd laugh too..
    Anyway, i kept getting invites to the underground MMA matches here in NYC and once there the flyers handed out was an invite to a sex party consisting of black/latin men and italian men. Alot of jersey shore looking guys showed up... The invite stated that no big stomachs or outta shape people would be admitted, and fem's need not read any further....
    Just dont take anything of real value with you into the place, condoms,lube and dental dams are there for your enjoyment and wear flip flops,,if ;your uneasy about anything or anyone then leave...
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:02 AM GMT
    tereseus1 saidOk i would like to know how many of you fellow realjockers have been invited or attended a sex party? And is it really dangerous to go to one if you know how to protect yourself? I got an invite on another "networking" website.......apparently...its a party that host only Greek muscled men for Black athletic/muscled men...which is kinda odd i thought. Back when i was in undergrad i had a friend who use to host them and he paid his mortgage by having these parties which is kinda smart. But anyways....how many of you have went to one..and for readers out there list the safety precautions you ought to have in mind if you do go to one. And..what if you see someone there like per say your boss...what should one do if they run into a familiar face?
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    Sex party? You mean STD's and AIDS?
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    PAstud21 said
    Sex party? You mean STD's and AIDS?


    Did you flunk your sex ed? Unsafe sex = STDs, nothing more nor less.
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:07 AM GMT
    Never been invited to a sex party.

    I would say that I would go but not because of the title of the party. It's a party and like any party I have the option of going or not, staying or leaving and doing anything else that I wish to or not do.

    It's a party. Simple as that. Just because its involvement revolves around sex doesn't mean I have to revolve around it. Kinda the same with the Bath house thread. I went once and got a weird vibe from the atmosphere so I ended up leaving. Same with a sex party, a regular club/bar, a movie or whatever else. If' I'm not feeling it then I don't fight my feelings and go with what I'm feeling. I just leave and leave it at that.
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:24 AM GMT
    It sounds like a trap. Beware!

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    Mar 27, 2010 12:28 AM GMT
    I've been invited to one or two...but I have no urge to go.
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:30 AM GMT
    I once went to an after party that wound up having an orgy with maybe 8 to 10 guys in one of the bedrooms. My jaw about hit the floor when the door to the bedroom opened and I saw what was going on. One of my friends dared me to go in the bedroom and join in but I chickened out. And that is the closet I have ever come to being invited to a sex party.
  • DarkSensation

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    Mar 27, 2010 12:38 AM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidNow thats funny,,MY BOSSicon_question.gif if you could see him you'd laugh too..
    Anyway, i kept getting invites to the underground MMA matches here in NYC and once there the flyers handed out was an invite to a sex party consisting of black/latin men and italian men. Alot of jersey shore looking guys showed up... The invite stated that no big stomachs or outta shape people would be admitted, and fem's need not read any further....
    Just dont take anything of real value with you into the place, condoms,lube and dental dams are there for your enjoyment and wear flip flops,,if ;your uneasy about anything or anyone then leave...


    That's my Summer Adventure to do List, icon_lol.gif but like you Said which is True, you need to be in Shape so Hopefully my body gets ready by Summer...to fit the Criteria icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    There is so much ignorance associated with a group party,(not the ones thrown together at 1:45am and anyone who can walk can attend) most are well organized and have very strict rules of conduct, meaning if somebody says no or stop, you stop or you get thrown out, no heavy drinking, no drugs, starts at this time and ends at this time etc. There is nothing wrong with exploring this side of your sexuality and can be very interesting if the host is strict about who/type that is attending, not that I've ever been to one or two.. It's also ok to just go and watchicon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 27, 2010 12:56 AM GMT
    invited for sometimes, never got courage to go though.. But now wanna take a ride if its safe n secure..
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    Mar 27, 2010 1:22 AM GMT
    there are organized parties, and there are impromptu parties. if you are going to go to one, attend the former, not the latter. you should lock your valuables in your car or leave them at home. rather than flip flops, wear sneakers and lowcut socks, so that you have a place to put your i.d. - your hands will need to be free. a well-organized event will have a secure place to put your clothes for safe keeping, rather like a coat check.

    also in your sock with your i.d.: condoms, small ampules of lube, and a cock ring if you want/need one. most parties provide basic condoms and lube, but if you prefer a particular brand (ie: durex avanti, non-latex super thin condoms in combination with wet premium lube), you should bring your own.

    do not go drunk. do not take alcohol in. do not drink once you are there - you will need your wits and inhibitions. do not drink water that you haven't poured yourself, and do not accept bottled water unless you break the seal on the cap. avoid drugs as well. play safe or don't play. take inside only that cash which you need for admittance into the party. tell a friend where you will be, and when the event begins and ends, in case of unforseeable bullshit.
  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 27, 2010 1:33 AM GMT
    DarkSeduction said
    jgymnast733 saidNow thats funny,,MY BOSSicon_question.gif if you could see him you'd laugh too..
    Anyway, i kept getting invites to the underground MMA matches here in NYC and once there the flyers handed out was an invite to a sex party consisting of black/latin men and italian men. Alot of jersey shore looking guys showed up... The invite stated that no big stomachs or outta shape people would be admitted, and fem's need not read any further....
    Just dont take anything of real value with you into the place, condoms,lube and dental dams are there for your enjoyment and wear flip flops,,if ;your uneasy about anything or anyone then leave...


    That's my Summer Adventure to do List, icon_lol.gif but like you Said which is True, you need to be in Shape so Hopefully my body gets ready by Summer...to fit the Criteria icon_biggrin.gif

    That group on 39th st. is always sending me invites but i'v never been....Theres one in harlem i'v never been to either,too many people i know go there....It's all safe but theres that one guy who likes to bareback and thats just trouble............
  • jperfit

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    Mar 27, 2010 1:44 AM GMT
    I would be scared, the first thing that goes through my mind is STD's and besides i am only into 1 person at any given time, its different if u have another buddy whom u knew for awhile and maybe 3 of u want to hang 2gether but going someplace where u don't know the person or their history, it doesn't jive with me.
  • bradsmith

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    Mar 27, 2010 1:54 AM GMT
    Lots of good advice already given, just remember to work the room!
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    Mar 27, 2010 1:58 AM GMT
    Like I said earlier it's a party and if you aren't feeling it then there's no need to beat yourself up about it. I'd like to add that I wouldn't just go to some random sex party either. I should've said that earlier and I would also probably ask someone to come with me. Just to help level out the field so I had someone to talk to if and help break the tension.

    Other then that common sense should automatically come into play when engaging in something like this.
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    Mar 27, 2010 2:14 AM GMT
    Well, if the party isn't in Greece then there are not "Greek Gods" there. So don't go to that one, it's false advertising.icon_biggrin.gif
  • DarkSensation

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    Mar 27, 2010 3:01 AM GMT
    so Tereseus1...when do you plan on Hosting a Sex Party in the Area icon_biggrin.gif? I'm sure you'll Make a Very Gracious and yet Sensual Host icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 27, 2010 3:09 AM GMT
    I love how you used a pic from the Crew Club's web site (a bath house in DC) in the OP. Kinda fitting.

    Oh, and don't ask how I knew that. icon_razz.gif

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  • calibro

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    Mar 27, 2010 3:49 AM GMT
    been invited to a few, but never went. it's on the bucket list though
  • silverfox

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    Mar 27, 2010 3:54 AM GMT
    There are some things I find HOT and some not so hot.

    I was invited to an underwear party a couple months back and was reluctant to go. The guy that I was seeing was so into the idea of it...so I just decided to go with the flow.

    When I got there there were not many that I found attractive. My date said to me "That isn't the point....it is the FREEDOM of the whole thing". Well when the clock struck 12 midnight everyone had a choice.....remove your underwear or leave.

    This was going to become an orgy.

    I left, my date stayed.

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    Mar 27, 2010 3:57 AM GMT
    They moved my topic like this in the sex section//////LOL


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    Mar 27, 2010 4:05 AM GMT
    I think you might be surprised about this invitation...not so bad eh?? Well I did not revile where it's going to be out of respect to the ORGY MASTER...haha[

    b]SPRING TRAINING ORGY"

    Saturday Night's Gonna Be A HOT, HOT Night!

    Here's your invite & info:
    Location:


    guess...lol

    From the front entrance turn left past the main office. The building is 2 past the bldg. with the Main Office. and is the last one facing N. ???? Blvd. It's has a 21 on the back side, and an F which is hidden by a plamtree. I'm on the ground level and 2 doors in from the corner. Room 2111 It's in the back, NOT facing . You should be able to find parking along the rear wall. If not, park somewhere nearby and walk accross There are lots of clubs and bars nearby,

    (The Suite has 3 rooms; 2 bedrooms with King size beds,

    2 bathrooms and a living room/kitchen with refrigerator.)



    Time:


    11:00 p.m. ... til ? (2-3am)

    Try to arrive at 11:00-11:30 PM . . . No early birds please.

    If you can, or work late, make it by Midnight... Just Cum!


    Info/Details:



    There's no fee, but you can tip $5 when entering

    (if you're feeling generous) to cover costs.


    1. Bring some beer, a few bottles or a 6 pack, or what you like to drink, whiskey, vodka.

    It helps relax everyone!

    2. Condoms, Lube & Poppers, are provided and baby wipes will be readily available.

    You're welcome to bring your own Poppers...

    (Please dispose of used condoms, etc. in trash bags/cans!)

    3. Please, No PNP & No Barebacking... keep it safe,

    wear a rubber if you fuck! even with a dildo!

    4. Bring a dildo if you want to have it used on yourself.

    5. Bring a towel if you want to use the showers. Some of the first guys

    that arrive may want to undress and wear their towels

    until it get's going!

    6. Please clean out THOROUGHLY if you intend to have any assplay,

    or fucking, rimming, and dildo play!

    7. Respect others wishes. Not everyone has the same experiences you do, and may

    not be here to get gang banged! (Some are tho')

    8. Wear something sexy, a jock strap, cock ring . . .if you have em'...

    9. Please try and let me know by 6PM on Saturday, (via an email) if you’re

    cumming & also if you can't make it. . . . RSVP . . .

    10. Bring a backpack or overnight bag; it's a good idea to put all your clothing in.

    11. GET UNDRESSED AS SOON AS YOU COME IN! Help others to undress as they come in!

    12. No Cameras allowed! Put your cellphones away. Turn them OFF! Or better yet, leave them at home. Do you want your new iPhone stolen? It has happenned.

    13. Help get the Orgymaster off! (my fave request,and most important!) LOL....



    *Please do not invite anyone without my approval, as I have a full guest list
    .


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    Mar 27, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    collegekid2004 saidI've been invited to one or two...but I have no urge to go.


    Yeah right..go with me ..I think it's good to go see..strut your stuff show your junk...tease em all and run out fast...That's what I am going to do with my friend tomorrow..LOOOLLLL
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    Mar 27, 2010 5:26 AM GMT
    shortmuscleguy saidThere is so much ignorance associated with a group party,(not the ones thrown together at 1:45am and anyone who can walk can attend) most are well organized and have very strict rules of conduct, meaning if somebody says no or stop, you stop or you get thrown out, no heavy drinking, no drugs, starts at this time and ends at this time etc. There is nothing wrong with exploring this side of your sexuality and can be very interesting if the host is strict about who/type that is attending, not that I've ever been to one or twoicon_biggrin.gif


    I agree ..i think everyone should experience this type of scene atleast once. i have been to one but it was during freshman year of college when i was into thugs and roughnecks...lol i went because im a huge Voyeur. And i enjoyed seeing the guys just go at it...