What should i do?

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    Mar 27, 2010 4:03 PM GMT
    i loved someone from my company and we are togther almost 1 year.he is stright and i am helping him alot.and he likes me alot.my problem is that i seek a true love and i was going to tell him that i am a gay but he said i dont wanna letsen,then i ignored that so.on the days ahead we become great friends and i invited him many times for dinner and lunch,untill someday i invited him again but the night i make m first move and to be honest he didnt do anything i did everything instead...after we finish...the nest day he was angery and i tried to cheer him up but he didnt contact me after 3 days after leaving him,the fourth day he was normal when he called me.. after a week he took him to visit our friend at the beach and while talking my friend asked us we stll single or not and when are we going to marry..i just said i dont need to get marry and my friend answerd after 2 years when i heard that.i felt pain that i cannot stay with him since i do love him and he doesnt.my question is here..

    Should i leave him and start to look for another one? or stay with out anyone till i find someone likes me?

    and yeah i orgot to mention that he is 29 year old..
    so i hope yiu guys help me about this if there is any question need to ask jusy send a msg to me ill reply..

  • Halfstep

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    Mar 27, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    Sounds like your friend has some personal issues that he is dealing with.

    And as hot and steamy as it is to most gay men to be a curious guy's first, or to even potentially snag him for life, you must never forget how long and tiring of a process it is.

    Truly ask yourself if you the patience for this. You know what you want, and he clearly does not.

    If you are tired of the distance, if you are tired with this unoffical arrangement,

    I strongly suggest you bring it up to him and if he can't give you want you want/need, then move on.

    And find someone who can.
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    Mar 27, 2010 7:59 PM GMT
    Well he was very angry after letting you get sexual with him. It took him a week to get over that. He intends to marry a girl in two years. When you wanted to speak with his he didn't listen and when he said he was marrying a girl in 2 years it hurt you very much.

    You would stay in this situation? Really?

    -completely intrigued....us two.
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    Mar 27, 2010 8:11 PM GMT
    in any relationship communication is very very important. If you don't want to discuss your relationship then I suggest move on. You shouldn't put yourself through a situation that isn't healthy.