FOREPLAY - aggressive or passionate?

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    Mar 27, 2010 7:56 PM GMT
    In all of my years being with both women and men, I have found that my supreme pleasure is being passionate. I guess, because I like to take my time and get to know their body and find all of those erogenous zones. I guess that's why I appreciate a clean body and relatively soft hands. Kissing, licking, petting, strocking in the softest ways always seemed to build to an explosive and awesome climax. Given that I'm not a huge fan of anal sex, I rely on this even more now with the guy that I am with. I'm not opposed to trying something new. Maybe being aggressive now and then can bring something new to the table.

    Which do you prefer?
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    Mar 27, 2010 8:01 PM GMT
    We prefer both!
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    Mar 27, 2010 8:49 PM GMT
    passionate
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    Mar 27, 2010 9:00 PM GMT
    Passionate.

    I did have a FWB once and while mostly we were passionate, occasionally we'd both be so horny we'd just go at it a bit more aggressively. Once in a while I like that but depends on the guy.
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    Mar 27, 2010 9:11 PM GMT
    you can be both ya know, aggressive doesn't mean fast and passionate doesn't mean slow.
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    Mar 28, 2010 12:59 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidyou can be both ya know, aggressive doesn't mean fast and passionate doesn't mean slow.


    Agree icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 28, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidyou can be both ya know, aggressive doesn't mean fast and passionate doesn't mean slow.


    I know what you're saying, but it seems to me that aggression pushes the phermones and the sexual drive even faster and in my experience brings climax quicker.

    I guess you could always do that first and round two could be more sensual and passionate. Hmmm...
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    Mar 28, 2010 2:10 AM GMT
    Dwiggypop saidI know what you're saying, but it seems to me that aggression pushes the phermones and the sexual drive even faster and in my experience brings climax quicker.

    I guess you could always do that first and round two could be more sensual and passionate. Hmmm...

    Sex can be what ever you ant it to be, being aggressive doesn't mean you can't stop to smell the proverbial rose, you just might end up being a little more joyfully battered doing it hahaha

    Personally, I can be passionate without being aggressive, but I can't be aggressive without being passionate, when a guy starts setting off those sparks in my head, I want him and I want him really badly, but that doesn't mean I want him long enough to get off, it means I want him, I want to explore his body, I want to find parts of him that will make his entire body shudder in pleasure... finding those things takes time, you need to move around his body and explore everything, not just get your cock into him and hump away like a crazed dog (although, having said that, it's fun sometimes to do that too hehe)
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    Mar 28, 2010 5:18 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Dwiggypop saidI know what you're saying, but it seems to me that aggression pushes the phermones and the sexual drive even faster and in my experience brings climax quicker.

    I guess you could always do that first and round two could be more sensual and passionate. Hmmm...

    Sex can be what ever you ant it to be, being aggressive doesn't mean you can't stop to smell the proverbial rose, you just might end up being a little more joyfully battered doing it hahaha

    Personally, I can be passionate without being aggressive, but I can't be aggressive without being passionate, when a guy starts setting off those sparks in my head, I want him and I want him really badly, but that doesn't mean I want him long enough to get off, it means I want him, I want to explore his body, I want to find parts of him that will make his entire body shudder in pleasure... finding those things takes time, you need to move around his body and explore everything, not just get your cock into him and hump away like a crazed dog (although, having said that, it's fun sometimes to do that too hehe)


    Haha....well said and pretty hot to boot! Wow!