Niceguy89 saidWhen I'm on this site I always enjoy reading the forums, I also enjoy looking at all the gorgeous men on here. Sometimes it can make me a little sad aswell though because since whenever I can start remembering I have never been satistfied with my appearance. I know it's in my head and I don't look as awful as I sometimes feel, but lots of times I wish I looked more like some of the guys on this site.
Anyone else here that has the same
"Another person's happiness is just a shadow.
To be vexed by shadows is foolish.
Create your own circumstances in which you are the one who is happy."
― Daisaku Ikeda
I used to feel like I wish I could have had a great look(face) like famous actors or models. It was only because I was uncosciously thinking that those men who had great looks were happy and better than me since they had things I couldn't have. However, it is not true. We also have things that others could never have. We don't have to be loved by everyone in the world, but at least, you got to love and cherish yourself. Unless you truly realize what the quote means, the same worry/problem will keep coming up over and over, and you will not be able to creat your own happiness. Although, when you conquer the feeling, you can also cheer people who suffer from the same trouble up in the future. To have worries is not a bad thing. I'd rather say you are so brave to confide how you feel about yourself right now. Forward, ever forward Mr.Niceguy89!