Why is so hard find someone not interesting in sex( sex is good but is not the most important) and masculine ?

  • Thegabriel

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    Mar 29, 2010 7:23 PM GMT
    Is so hard to find someone interesting in love, someone masculine, like me, and inteligent, i would like to find ...have somebody here ?
  • Thegabriel

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    Mar 29, 2010 8:13 PM GMT
    Nobody ?
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    Mar 29, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    Why bother?

    Sex is a physical need. Love is an emotional response.

    I'll take FWB's any day over another long-term relationship. I can love them just as much as I'd love a "lover" - difference being no jealousy and no obnoxious "roomy/live-in-lover."
  • Thegabriel

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    Mar 29, 2010 9:17 PM GMT


    paulflexes saidWhy bother?

    Sex is a physical need. Love is an emotional response.

    I'll take FWB's any day over another long-term relationship. I can love them just as much as I'd love a "lover" - difference being no jealousy and no obnoxious "roomy/live-in-lover."


    yes this is true, but sex need be a small part,and not the big part os relationship...
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    Mar 29, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidWhy bother?

    Sex is a physical need. Love is an emotional response.

    I'll take FWB's any day over another long-term relationship. I can love them just as much as I'd love a "lover" - difference being no jealousy and no obnoxious "roomy/live-in-lover."


    Haha, oh wow. I mean to each his own but you seriously think a good FWB is better than any long-term? What do you do when sex doesn't satisfy you? Or when you're too old for those NSA hookups? Then start to date, when everyones already taken?

    Puzzled as to why you believe this, especially at your age.
  • Thegabriel

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    Mar 29, 2010 9:29 PM GMT
    I said that sex is important for me, actually i think sex is one stupid and magnetic thing that we canĀ“t live without it, maybe yes if you really want ...but the problem is put sex in wrong place, mybe most of the guys need put the penis in the head and not so down on the boxers shorts...
    one penis and not nose in his faces ...
  • stonefire

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    Mar 29, 2010 10:00 PM GMT
    hi m8, its a good subject which many men on here won't discuss, , its true its possible to live a less sexualised life, though it is hard to find ways to talk about this.. many men need verification through multiple hook ups to feel they are still worthy ..and rub against the idea of a partner /relationship that is not based around sex...my advice is to read some Plato, and stay away from an organised gay scene, I know the moment I stopped believing in " Gay Bars Plc " as a place to find something other than sex , I started to feel happier, it was a great relief not to go to them [ not being a great drinker/ drugtaker or liking really loud repetitive music ] .Gay people often don't have anything in common ,other than having an attraction to there own sex, so to find the ideal people who will enrich your life will be a journey.....good luck gs
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    Mar 29, 2010 11:49 PM GMT
    I hear ya.

    Sex is extremely important to me but I'll take a relationship before I have random sex. Sex without some sort of emotional attachment doesn't do it for me.

    Until I find him I can, um, take care of things myself. Not as good as the real thing but emotionally healthier *for me*.
  • wellwell

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    Mar 30, 2010 1:57 AM GMT
    ...You found me, baby !
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    Mar 30, 2010 2:04 AM GMT
    Thegabriel saidNobody ?


    There's plenty of us out here- you just have to look harder.

    It doesn't help that you posted a picture of your bare chest......icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 30, 2010 2:16 AM GMT
    Me and you both, buddy.

    Except I don't care about the masculine thing.
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    Mar 30, 2010 2:44 AM GMT
    lol, sex is great, but it's not THAT important.
  • calibro

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    Mar 30, 2010 3:31 AM GMT
    and yet, i have no problem finding thousands of these exact same threads from men who keep bitching about it and then other guys agreeing... for example:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/887554/

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    Mar 30, 2010 6:42 AM GMT
    I hear you.
    It's all about: 'lemme suck you, lemme fuck you' ...and then...if I like how we fucked...i'll call you..."

    pshh. bitch please. and its sad that many guys call it
    NEEDS

    I'll tell yous what you NEEDS...Get castrated. Lol. Sex is not only a pleasure or human physical need but a responsibility. Not just because you can't get anyone pregnant now doesn't mean you will be more careless about the situation.

    I hate guys like that... i do. Have some class those who say "it's a basic need"
  • Space_Cowboy_...

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    Mar 30, 2010 7:01 AM GMT
    calibro saidand yet, i have no problem finding thousands of these exact same threads from men who keep bitching about it and then other guys agreeing... for example:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/887554/




    lol
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    Mar 30, 2010 7:16 AM GMT
    I started having sex when I was 18 and living in Kuwait. It was my only escape especially since most homosexual men living in Kuwait, locals and expatriates, where sex-crazed bunnies. Upon moving to NJ, I haven't been as promiscuous. It's been almost a year and I haven't had sex. I know it's somewhat odd since I'm 21, but I really am no longer a fan of NSA sex. I'd rather keep dating, or at least eventually have sex with someone who I've spoken with for more than 25 minutes.
  • jrs1

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    Mar 30, 2010 7:17 AM GMT
    calibro saidand yet, i have no problem finding thousands of these exact same threads from men who keep bitching about it and then other guys agreeing... for example:
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/887554/

    or:

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    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/83196

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    and ... of course ... the grande pu bah:
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    ... and * facepalm * so many more.
  • Thegabriel

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    Mar 30, 2010 10:38 PM GMT
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