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    Mar 29, 2010 7:57 PM GMT
    Do we have to be on shape just to search for love? i mean do we have to be muscler to let others love you??
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    Mar 29, 2010 10:27 PM GMT
    umm no...there are guys who like chubby guys, others who like twinks, and other who are just normal looking.(and trannys too o.o )
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    Mar 29, 2010 11:46 PM GMT
    No.

    For me what's inside counts more than the wrapper.
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    Mar 30, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    The answer to your question is easy - NO!

    But feeling like your not good enough if you don't look "right" or not being confident about yourself can certainly be a barrier to finding love.
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    Mar 30, 2010 2:48 AM GMT
    No.
    It all depends on what type of guys you're attracted to and looking for. Although, it would be easier to find someone if you're in shape... ...and if you're not, don't take offense when someone rejects you because of it- ...because you would obviously be doing the same thing.icon_neutral.gif
    Browse a couple of dating sites and you'll see the wide variety of people looking for love.
    You don't have to be perfect.
    Good Luck and Happy Hunting.

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    Mar 30, 2010 2:53 AM GMT
    sashaman saidThe answer to your question is easy - NO!

    But feeling like your not good enough if you don't look "right" or not being confident about yourself can certainly be a barrier to finding love.


    ^^ what he said.

    also it's not about muscular, the reason i prefer someone who works out is because it's healthy, i want a healthy partner but that doesn't mean a perfect body at all.
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    Mar 30, 2010 3:34 AM GMT
    You don't have to be in-shape to find love, but often you have to be the right shape for someone else to be interested in you, and more often than not, attractiveness is based upon fitness
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    Mar 30, 2010 3:42 AM GMT
    Two words: Equivalent Exchange. If you find that you're attracted to a certain type of guy(Based on your post I'm going to guess muscular), try to offer the same things you find attractive about him in return.
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    Mar 30, 2010 3:53 AM GMT
    jayyp said
    sashaman saidThe answer to your question is easy - NO!

    But feeling like your not good enough if you don't look "right" or not being confident about yourself can certainly be a barrier to finding love.


    ^^ what he said.

    also it's not about muscular, the reason i prefer someone who works out is because it's healthy, i want a healthy partner but that doesn't mean a perfect body at all.



    I totally agree with jayyp.
    "Healthy" doesn't necessarily mean "Muscled" icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 30, 2010 4:08 AM GMT
    Dragoonxi saidTwo words: Equivalent Exchange. If you find that you're attracted to a certain type of guy(Based on your post I'm going to guess muscular), try to offer the same things you find attractive about him in return.



    Cool post....an alchemist! I've learned lately that I am mostly a face person, then the rest follows.
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    Mar 30, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Dragoonxi saidTwo words: Equivalent Exchange. If you find that you're attracted to a certain type of guy(Based on your post I'm going to guess muscular), try to offer the same things you find attractive about him in return.



    Cool post....an alchemist! I've learned lately that I am mostly a face person, then the rest follows.


    Yeah icon_biggrin.gif I've been keeping up with Brotherhood pretty religiously so it's kinda infecting my thought processes, lol
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    Mar 31, 2010 4:10 PM GMT
    No, not at all.

    Helps attract people who are interested in muscular guys, though.
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    Mar 31, 2010 6:10 PM GMT
    Nah! The fact of the matter is, the better built a partner is, it tends to increase your attractiveness to their physique and thus...lust is born. Which is never a bad thing if you enjoy sex, a lot.

    However, the overweight crowd will get snubbed a lot more than a skinnier gay.
    I'll just stay at my "almost good looking" attractive level. Hahahaha.
  • drypin

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    Apr 01, 2010 12:30 PM GMT
    I don't think we have to look very far around us to find people who are in love who are not what we ourselves might consider "in shape". So the answer is no.

    And I've met one guy who was in fantastic shape (truly, not unlike that Nick Denbeigh guy) and boring as hell. All attempts to "draw him out of his shell" were fruitless. The sex was "athletic" and ultimately unsatisfying (for me, anyway).
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    Apr 01, 2010 12:40 PM GMT
    No.....but this is REALjock

    So I think a certain athleticism is at least expected

    There's always fattiesforbiglovin.com or manorexictrannies.com if you are so inclined
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    Apr 01, 2010 12:57 PM GMT
    if he stopped shaving his head.....i might fuck

    oops wrong threadicon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 01, 2010 1:01 PM GMT
    Celticmusl said
    Cool post....an alchemist! I've learned lately that I am mostly a face person, then the rest follows.

    10 point word score, you may now use the lightning sword.

    Being muscular can get you more attention, but letting someone love you has nothing to do with what’s on the outside.
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    Apr 02, 2010 2:00 PM GMT
    MsclDrew said

    There's always fattiesforbiglovin.com or manorexictrannies.com if you are so inclined


    Fooled again, they're not real websites! I know some of you looked too.
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    Apr 02, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    foxy55 saidDo we have to be on shape just to search for love? i mean do we have to be muscler to let others love you??

    No, but it helps. There are other reasons to love a guy besides his bodily appearance, as noted very effectively in posts above. But as a general rule, the better you look, the better you do.

    And this shouldn't surprise us, because all humans are that way. Often when I try to analyze gay behavior, I look for its equivalent in the straight world. And indeed, handsome straight guys do better with straight women, and lovely straight women do better with straight guys. We all know this, so why should gays be any different?

    So I'd advise that you try to stay in shape, not only to appeal to more guys, but also for your own good health, and positive self-image. This is a good online site for doing that. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 02, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    foxy55 saidDo we have to be on shape just to search for love? i mean do we have to be muscler to let others love you??



    What a silly question. That's like saying "Do you have to be blonde to search for love?"
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    Apr 02, 2010 2:31 PM GMT
    yah id fuck....on the patee-o of some hauz he be showing me

    oops wrong threadicon_twisted.gif