What Do You Do For, Or With Your Partner/BF, Just To Please Him?

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    Mar 31, 2010 11:29 PM GMT
    I just finished watching Wheel of Fortune on US TV with my partner, a show I absolutely detest. But he loves it, and likes me to watch it with him. So every weeknight at 7 PM EST I join him at the TV, and try to guess the puzzles with him.

    And I do my best to get into it with him, because that pleases him. And for Christmas, I got him the game for his computer, which can link to the official Wheel of Fortune web site. That one was easy: you always want to give the gift that HE wants, not what may appeal to you.

    So what if anything do you do for your own special guy, that you might not otherwise do, or even hate, just to make him happy? And is there anything that he does for YOU, that you know is not exactly his favorite thing?

    And in case you hadn't already guessed, I think we should all do that at times, for guys we love. Because it's not all about us. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 31, 2010 11:41 PM GMT
    I freaking hate The Wheel. I don’t mind him watching but just can’t stand it myself.
    There is probable a long list of things I do, but do I do it to make him happy? I think I do most of them because it makes me happy to do them for him.

    One thing; for sure, is cut my hair, he likes it short and I’m partial to it long.
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    Apr 01, 2010 12:10 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said...One thing; for sure, is cut my hair, he likes it short and I’m partial to it long.

    Ah, yes. His head was shaved totally bald when I met my partner, and I didn't like it. I encouraged him to accept his natural male pattern baldness (bald on top, hair on the sides), because I think he looks much better. To help him I cut his hair myself (as I do my own). He agrees to it, more a concession to make me happy I think.
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    Apr 01, 2010 12:13 AM GMT
    I do everything and anything he wants -- 24 hours a day. We like very similar things. As a matter of fact, you could say dating my boyfriend is pretty much like dating myself. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 01, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    wrestlervic saidI do everything and anything he wants -- 24 hours a day. We like very similar things. As a matter of fact, you could say dating my boyfriend is pretty much like dating myself. icon_wink.gif

    Awww... that's sweet, truly. icon_biggrin.gif

    But I think my focus is doing things for him that you yourself DON'T want to do, but you do them anyway to please him. And hopefully enthusiastically and with good grace, not begrudgingly, with moans and complaints.

    Still, lovely that you are so well matched. I see the potential for a lifelong partnership here. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 01, 2010 2:03 AM GMT
    Red, I'm single. Didn't get it did ya. icon_lol.gif

    Although....I did recently meet someone special...
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    Apr 01, 2010 2:19 AM GMT
    For the guy I am seeing now....

    I watch "Cold Case Files"
    I watch "The First 48 Hours"
    I watch "America's Most Wanted"


    I have never watched any of these shows in my life but my b/f is fixated on most of the programs on A & E. I put up with it because he gives me amazing back rubs.

    I draw the line at "Hoarders" though. No way.