Do you think guys in the army, and etc. make out with one another?

  • twonutbuster

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    Apr 02, 2010 8:01 AM GMT
    You always see all these tough boys flexing their muscles on different sites, and their with other guys. I just wonder since no girls or around, do they do it with one another?
  • Gonlrdy

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    Apr 02, 2010 12:04 PM GMT
    Yeah in your fantasies, and maybe mine, but in reality, no way is a safe bet.
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    Apr 02, 2010 12:45 PM GMT
    I'll say a big ole NO to that one
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    Apr 02, 2010 1:09 PM GMT
    twonutbuster saidYou always see all these tough boys flexing their muscles on different sites, and their with other guys. I just wonder since no girls or around, do they do it with one another?

    If you mean the US Army, there are plenty of women soldiers around, and the other services have women, too. Only some combat units are male-only, and Navy submarines have been all-male, but that's supposed to be changing.

    Enlisted barracks (the Air Force also uses the term dorms) are same sex, but sometimes the same large housing building is shared by men & women. Even as early as 1973, when I was an Army Lieutenant, the 8-story Bachelor Officers Quarters (BOQ) where I lived had female officers randomly throughout the building, just like any civilian apartment building, which is exactly what it looked like, each of us having a private efficiency unit with kitchen. In fact, my next-door neighbor in the hallway was an Army nurse, and we used to watch my TV together sometimes (I had a large color one, still not universal at that time), and cook meals for each other, but never dated.

    So if you have an image of males in the military living a monastic life without women, that is incorrect. Women are indeed in the minority, but certainly present almost everywhere. Furthermore, except during initial basic training, military are not confined to the installation/post/base. You go out into the civilian community like anyone else, and indeed many live there, getting their private housing subsidized by the military.

    Single men can see and date all the civilian women they want, except in combat assignments like Iraq and Afghanistan, and even there women serve with them. Which prompted a screw-loose US General to issue a notorious order recently, later rescinded under pressure from Washington, that female soldiers who got pregnant would be prosecuted under military law.

    In my entire 25 years I saw only 1 instance of 2 male soldiers making out, a story I related elsewhere here. It was in 1970 in a 4-man barracks squad room, before I became an officer. And it was pretty tame, basically a naked body massage. Got those guys into some trouble, though.

    And my partner, who served in the Army a few years earlier than I did, claims he had sex with other soldiers a lot. But then he knew he was gay at that age, and was looking for male sex and ignoring women, whereas I did not know I was gay when I wore a uniform.
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    Apr 02, 2010 1:25 PM GMT
    Having also served in the Air Force all I can say is YES, happened in bootcamp and all the way thru my enlistment. I even got it on with my TI (training instructor) in boot camp, go figure
  • coolarmydude

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    Apr 02, 2010 1:28 PM GMT
    shortmuscleguy saidHaving also served in the Air Force all I can say is YES, happened in bootcamp and all the way thru my enlistment. I even got it on with my TI (training instructor) in boot camp, go figure



    You still haven't posted that erotic story yet.
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    Apr 02, 2010 1:35 PM GMT
    Never served in the Armed Services but two good friends have (Navy & Marines) and they report that there's a fair amount of m2m sex -- and not always between gay men, even. Apparently, sometimes it was more for intimacy, warmth, human contact. And not always making out, although there is some of that. Massage, intimate shoulder rubbing, etc. Other times, for sure-enough orgasmic sex. Sometimes between officers and enlisted men, other combinations as well. Often inspired by straight GF talk, sometimes str8 porn. But always discreet, on the DL.
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    Apr 02, 2010 1:48 PM GMT
    coolarmydude said
    shortmuscleguy saidHaving also served in the Air Force all I can say is YES, happened in bootcamp and all the way thru my enlistment. I even got it on with my TI (training instructor) in boot camp, go figure



    You still haven't posted that erotic story yet.


    Hum, will try and post the story soon, very intense
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    Apr 02, 2010 1:52 PM GMT
    MascguyATL saidNever served in the Armed Services but two good friends have (Navy & Marines) and they report that there's a fair amount of m2m sex -- and not always between gay men, even. Apparently, sometimes it was more for intimacy, warmth, human contact. And not always making out, although there is some of that. Massage, intimate shoulder rubbing, etc. Other times, for sure-enough orgasmic sex. Sometimes between officers and enlisted men, other combinations as well. Often inspired by straight GF talk, sometimes str8 porn. But always discreet, on the DL.

    The comment about officers and enlisted kinda surprised me. The few times I knew that happened it was with straight couples, and it caused a great scandal. It's called fraternization and is illegal, on top of the additional issue if gay sex is involved, likewise illegal.

    I was always extremely cautious about even being alone in a room with a female enlisted soldier, and even when I was a Colonel and speaking with one of my female senior sergeants (no junior enlisted worked for me), I would keep my office door open a little.

    Yet officers & enlisted could socialize, under prescribed circumstances, like unit parties & picnics, intramural baseball games and that sort of thing. And married Army officers have the tradition of inviting the most junior enlisted, mostly Privates, into their homes to share Thanksgiving dinner, so these young people won't spend the holiday in the barracks and mess hall. But private socializing was not done, and sexual activity was a serious violation that would get an officer dishonorably discharged. So not sure if these anecdotal stories are true, or if some officers are that unprofessional & stupid.
  • zakariahzol

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    Apr 02, 2010 2:22 PM GMT
    I have some guys showing some interest to me, when we are going thru some military drill in the jungle. But the chance for us to do anything is basically none existence. You are constanly surrounded with fellow army, , sargent and other officers. Once me and him, try to arrange for the two of us, to share a same camp while guarding sentry in the night. But latter on we are order to be pair with some other guys when our shift started.

    However, one of my friend , told me he have a lot of sex in the military. He show me a picture of his platoon. And point to me, "I have sex with this guy, this guy and this guy. Frankly, I not sure I believe him.
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    Apr 02, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    shortmuscleguy saidHaving also served in the Air Force all I can say is YES, happened in bootcamp and all the way thru my enlistment. I even got it on with my TI (training instructor) in boot camp, go figure


    ...damn(!)...you got it with a TI? Lucky bastard. No boot-camp jollies for me. But what was with all the married guys? Constant hits on that front. Ex AF here, before DADT, and I had an Army BF after getting out. Turned out we had been stationed less than 40 miles apart; just never bumped into each other while serving. (The Army guys would often drop by the AF base for chow; the food really was better at our place.)

    Discretion was absolutely in order; OSI still sniffed out the gay guys and gals, and if you weren't on the 'guest' list (protected by an officer or person of influence) you got tossed out the gate. I remember having to drive Mr. GQ to the local airport after he was outed and discharged. Never heard who he pissed off to get the boot, but damn, what a waste: easy on the eyes (fucking gorgeous from head to toe); top specialist (details withheld); and well liked (Mr. Cool on top of GQ.)

    ...crazy planet we live on....
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    Apr 02, 2010 3:13 PM GMT
    in my head thats all they ever do
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    Apr 02, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    i wanna join now
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    Apr 02, 2010 3:41 PM GMT
    Oh, yes, they certainly do.

    Ahh, memories ...
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    Apr 02, 2010 3:48 PM GMT
    Of course they do. Ever study human behavior or read Kinsey? Ever observe human behavior, or primate behavior?
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    Apr 02, 2010 4:07 PM GMT
    reppaT saidOh, yes, they certainly do.

    Ahh, memories ...


    Tapper in a dog tag... (swoons)
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    Apr 02, 2010 5:02 PM GMT
    sailors.

    :sigh:
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    Apr 02, 2010 5:06 PM GMT
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    reppaT saidOh, yes, they certainly do.

    Ahh, memories ...


    Tapper in a dog tag... (swoons)


    ...let's worship him together...once we decide where to hang the tags...icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 02, 2010 5:08 PM GMT
    Over the past 7 years i have never seen a guy make out with another guy. We are there to do a job and not have a fag orgy. Military Police dykes maybe but honestly who cares about them.

    Why anyone who sacrificed time and energy into a military career would jeopardize that by giving into a weak sexual urge is beyond me. This applies to both straights and gays. We are there to do a job and to do it with excellence and sex just gets in the way.
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    Apr 02, 2010 5:14 PM GMT
    PAstud21 saidOver the past 7 years i have never seen a guy make out with another guy. We are there to do a job and not have a fag orgy. Military Police dykes maybe but honestly who cares about them.

    Why anyone who sacrificed time and energy into a military career would jeopardize that by giving into a weak sexual urge is beyond me. This applies to both straights and gays. We are there to do a job and to do it with excellence and sex just gets in the way.


    i'm sure when bullets are zinging by your ears, sex is the farthest thing from your mind. but i've heard there is a lot of sitting around in the military...you know, waiting for bullets to zing...and when you sit around, your mind starts to turn to other things, if you know what i'm sayin'.

    after all, all work and no play makes GIJoe a pent up ticking sex bomb.

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    Apr 02, 2010 5:17 PM GMT
    PAstud21 saidOver the past 7 years i have never seen a guy make out with another guy. We are there to do a job and not have a fag orgy. Military Police dykes maybe but honestly who cares about them.

    Why anyone who sacrificed time and energy into a military career would jeopardize that by giving into a weak sexual urge is beyond me. This applies to both straights and gays. We are there to do a job and to do it with excellence and sex just gets in the way.


    I bet you're a blast at parties.
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    Apr 02, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
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    PAstud21 saidOver the past 7 years i have never seen a guy make out with another guy. We are there to do a job and not have a fag orgy. Military Police dykes maybe but honestly who cares about them.

    Why anyone who sacrificed time and energy into a military career would jeopardize that by giving into a weak sexual urge is beyond me. This applies to both straights and gays. We are there to do a job and to do it with excellence and sex just gets in the way.


    I bet you're a blast at parties.


    Haha. Well, 1. I dont party much b/c i am 28. 2. If i go to a party its to drink and not to get involved with public sex. Also, there are undercover military folks and why i would risk that making out with a guy and my officer status woulden't make much sense. My job is more important than any type of gay sex.
  • jgymnast733

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    Apr 02, 2010 8:22 PM GMT
    SOMETIMES, they do fool around,
    Attending all boy schools all my life i can tell you for sure that so called str8 dudes do hook up on occation but keep it real DL...The biggest dick contests in the shower as well as the ''who can cum without jerking off contest'', and lets not forget the 'away games'' as we chose who'll stay in what hotel room...Man, i had dudes coming at me from every direction and each other as well, nobody got any sleep on those trips....
    I got together with the high school crew last summer and when the wives were out of ear-shot someone brought up how much fun the away trips were.. MMMMmmmm kinda makes wonder if they miss the boy action...
  • jgymnast733

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    Apr 02, 2010 11:04 PM GMT
    The military guys [ the ones i know ] find ways to hook up, when the fleet comes into new york you should see all the uniforms in the gay clubs...I'v befriended a few of these guys but when comunicating its strictly in code...
  • rnch

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    Apr 02, 2010 11:09 PM GMT
    immediately after hurrican katrina visited new orleans, the city had many, many national guard guys here to help keep the peace.

    most of the Guard Guys were in their 20's/early 30's and in very good shape.

    the ones that patrolled the gay friendly neighborhood i live in were very polite, pleasant and friendly.

    i spotted several of them in the gay bars in my neighborhood, after hours, late at night. icon_cool.gif