Well it depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for a quick fuck, try the local bathouse. If you're looking for something less dangerous and more meaningful, look around when you're doing the things that you enjoy doing outside of your house, or condo. They're at the gym, or the museum, or art gallery, or book store, or even at work or the dentist's office. All you need is a TShirt that says "Nobody knows I'm gay." If you're hot, they will find you. Kidding about the TShirt, but you're surrounded by gay people. That's we have to get Republicans to understand too.