Where can I meet a guy besides a gay bar?

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    Apr 03, 2010 1:43 PM GMT
    Hey guys...I'm really not into the gay bars and am still in the process of coming out to friends/family. I'm really into sports and I'm looking for cool friends who I can relate to but can't really find a good spot to meet others like me. Any suggestions?
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    Apr 07, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
    Try going online and looking for a LGBT community center or other central source of information for your area. Once you find a source, look for LGBT sports leagues and other social events. Or, if the sports league doesn't exist...be the person who starts it. In the process you just might find yourself feeling more comfortable as you meet more people. You will also be a leader in your community and people may flock to you.

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    Apr 07, 2010 1:20 AM GMT
    baseball_guy saidHey guys...I'm really not into the gay bars and am still in the process of coming out to friends/family. I'm really into sports and I'm looking for cool friends who I can relate to but can't really find a good spot to meet others like me. Any suggestions?


    i am on your same way...i am not used to be on a bar...i dont like to drink, but i can get 1 drink at least...is just that i dont drink more than 3 cups...but i dunno where are does gay bars anyways, i am looking for the same as you...but on PR is so dam harder...trust me....
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    Apr 07, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    Well it depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for a quick fuck, try the local bathouse. If you're looking for something less dangerous and more meaningful, look around when you're doing the things that you enjoy doing outside of your house, or condo. They're at the gym, or the museum, or art gallery, or book store, or even at work or the dentist's office. All you need is a TShirt that says "Nobody knows I'm gay." If you're hot, they will find you. Kidding about the TShirt, but you're surrounded by gay people. That's we have to get Republicans to understand too.
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    Apr 07, 2010 1:25 AM GMT
    craiglist icon_smile.gif....nah I kid, how bout hittin the gay district in your city?(if theres one anyways) if not then, look someplace else...but really you have to b lucky...good luck in your hunt for a fella
  • ohioguy12

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    Apr 07, 2010 1:36 AM GMT
    I'm in the same boat, but I like going to bars and stuff but I can't seem to meet anyone, I think my problem is just that I gotta start acting more gay
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    Apr 07, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    lol
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    Apr 07, 2010 1:43 AM GMT
    grindr lol
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    Apr 07, 2010 1:47 AM GMT
    Used to go gay bars but they didn't worked for me. I met my ex on yahoo personals.
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    Apr 07, 2010 2:13 AM GMT
    dannyboy1101 saidgrindr lol


    Grindr rocks! I've met more guys with whom I've shared social time than the traditional hook up sites.
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    Apr 07, 2010 2:17 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    dannyboy1101 saidgrindr lol


    Grindr rocks! I've met more guys with whom I've shared social time than the traditional hook up sites.


    all i hear are bad things about grindr, but ive met some really awesome guys that werent all about sex, sure we didnt click, but theyre really great guys
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    Apr 07, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
    sublstyley said
    GAMRican said
    dannyboy1101 saidgrindr lol


    Grindr rocks! I've met more guys with whom I've shared social time than the traditional hook up sites.


    all i hear are bad things about grindr, but ive met some really awesome guys that werent all about sex, sure we didnt click, but theyre really great guys

    ok whats a grindr o.o
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    Apr 07, 2010 2:45 AM GMT
    Everywhere you're willing to look.
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    Apr 07, 2010 3:00 AM GMT
    badmikeyt saidEverywhere you're willing to look.


    thanks to answere me that nuub question...i am not used to know gay phrase and vocabulary >.<...i am barely coming out...