Whats with people who IM me?

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    Apr 04, 2010 11:32 PM GMT
    Does anybody else get bothered when somebody randomly IM's you and starts asking you a bunch of random sexual questions? They don't really make conversation, just wanna know how hung you are? Does anybody else get this? Is it annoying or am i just being weird?
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    Apr 05, 2010 1:07 AM GMT
    lol...well, i never IM for that...but if someone do it...i coud answere some of them hahah, if the dude is verified...hahahah
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    Apr 05, 2010 2:57 AM GMT
    HA, no it is annoying and at times you're not sure whether to be complimented or say WTF.

    The weirdest ones are when all they say is how big is you c*$#, without a hello or hi. LOL.
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    Apr 05, 2010 3:12 AM GMT
    lately i've been getting a lot of no-pictured, unverified emails wanting to hook up. really...like i'm going to just meet you at some random place?

    no thank you.
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    Apr 05, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    hahah, mj89..your totaly right xD, i wish i live in USA xD, and meet someone here and travel trought cities!! like a movie hahahah, but, yah, a hook up without knowing the guy is stupid..i sometimes get scared, imagine that a dude is a murderer o.o, it freak me out xD, omg...why i am starting to love USA...is because it is free? not like here that i havent get out of the closet because my stupid family...but i will when i am on USA, i will be happy, but mean wile, i am gona go gay places...but i dunno where...dam...
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    Apr 05, 2010 4:30 AM GMT
    i feel your pain omg,so many desperate cum snifing freaks on here,lmfao
  • Delivis

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    Apr 06, 2010 8:33 PM GMT
    This is why the vast majority of us keep our IMs off.
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    Apr 06, 2010 8:36 PM GMT
    Yeah, mine is permanently turned off
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    Apr 06, 2010 8:37 PM GMT
    Delivis saidThis is why the vast majority of us keep our IMs off.


    word
  • ohioguy12

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    Apr 06, 2010 8:37 PM GMT
    I like talking to people on IM, but if we get sexual within the first couple messages I immediatly block them, are most of them spam? one guy wanted me to go to a site to view his cam
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    Apr 06, 2010 10:29 PM GMT
    livestrong1248 saidIs it annoying or am i just being weird?
    Both.
    There's this nifty little feature that lets you turn off IM. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 07, 2010 10:40 PM GMT
    TheIStrat saidYeah, mine is permanently turned off

    ditto
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    Apr 07, 2010 10:44 PM GMT
    TheIStrat saidYeah, mine is permanently turned off


    Bingo.
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    Apr 07, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    Eh..I play along. Usually a thank you is involved. Sometimes I close out when they don't say anything more than 'how big is u' (and of course they fail at punctuation and grammar.)

    However, when I'm feeling devilish I enjoy waiting until the hook up question is offered and then act as if I'm a telemarketer. icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 07, 2010 10:48 PM GMT
    I don't get those, but I guess I'd be annoyed at first, then amused, then bored. But I don't get them.

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    Apr 07, 2010 10:50 PM GMT
    Yeah. It's kind of annoying.

    It's even more annoying when the person IM'ing you doesn't even have a pic or their profile filled out.

    I keep my IM on in case someone wants to chat with me. Not have cyber sex with me (at least make an attempt to butter me up before we get to that. LOL).
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    Apr 07, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    I turned mine off the first day I got an account. Then about a month later I turned it back on just in case I was being ridiculous. But I wasn't, so I turned it back off again.
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    Apr 07, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    I do like to chat on IM but lately it has gotten very annoying so I have been keeping mine turned off. If someone wants to have a conversation with me, they can email me first and then I will turn it on for them.
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    Apr 08, 2010 8:25 PM GMT
    My IM never works....people send me IM and I never get them.



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    Apr 08, 2010 8:33 PM GMT
    i think its super obnoxious, especially when they dont have any pictures...
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    Apr 08, 2010 8:57 PM GMT
    Usually the first question I get from people IMing me is "what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!what are you?!"

    Then I get " I would love to have your lips wrapped around my cock"

    Just the other day I had to block this guy that was stalking me. He told me he likes to look at my profile pictures everyday. I was nice to him until he wanted to see me naked. He was being creeppyy.

    I also had a guy in the chat room watching me on cam(I wasn't doing anything but talking to friends) while he was playing with dildos and had nipple clamps on. Usually when i see someone watching me on cam i just click to see who it is,but when someone is moaning your screen name while doing shit like that,that's just weird. I now leave my IM off unless a friend has something private to say.
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    Apr 08, 2010 9:00 PM GMT
    I had desperate, horny guys ask me those questions along with if I cam, when in my profile I clearly state that I DON'T webcam at all. I guess they're either illiterate, ignorant, or assume ALL other gay guys are as desperate and in dire need of sex like them. Without hesitation, I "X" out of the chat or wind up blocking their sorry ass!
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    Apr 08, 2010 11:51 PM GMT
    I've gotten from pretty interesting people IM, too, so I won't turn it off. Usually I get a lot of that, though. It's annoying.
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    Apr 09, 2010 12:03 AM GMT
    Are you hung?

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    Apr 09, 2010 2:18 AM GMT
    We keep ours off, and turn it on at RJ email requests. icon_wink.gif