I see too much negativity on here, soo......

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    Apr 05, 2010 2:12 AM GMT
    Why don't we talk about the good things that have happened to us, regarding men? Come on people, life isn't all bad and you know it very well.

    There are some men that I've had the chance to know that really are good for my health lol (as funny as it sounds). My life is far from perfect, but when I talk to these guys, things seem so much more sweet. From having my boy Andy in my arms after being apart for so long to talking to my friends on here and getting a good laugh. I'm blessed beyond measure and I do indeed need to remember it..always icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 05, 2010 2:39 AM GMT
    Hey welcome to Realjock,Steel231!

    -Doug and Bill
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    Apr 05, 2010 2:45 AM GMT
    Thanks, but I've been here for a lil while actually icon_razz.gif
  • rnch

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    Apr 05, 2010 3:04 AM GMT
    you haven't been paying much attention to the threads here, have you! icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 05, 2010 4:14 AM GMT
    rnch saidyou haven't been paying much attention to the threads here, have you! icon_lol.gif


    I have been paying attention. But I always see threads talking about how tired men are of being played. If it's not about something negative, it's about who's hot and who's not. Most of all, I'm always seeing forums about people that become so impatient with waiting for the right person to come along, they basically give up on altogether. Always talking about what they want and/or can't have. People wonder why they stay miserable. If all you do is look at what you don't have, what kind of life are you living?

    I'm not trying to put down anyone at all. All I'm trying to say to everyone is to cherish life and see what's already in front of you. Life is unpredictable and you never know what's coming around the corner or as the sun comes up everyday. Appreciate what you have and stop worrying about what you don't have or what you want. I've learned that if you stop worrying about every little desire that you want, things always go your way.
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    Apr 05, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    Steel231 said
    rnch saidyou haven't been paying much attention to the threads here, have you! icon_lol.gif


    I have been paying attention. But I always see threads talking about how tired men are of being played. If it's not about something negative, it's about who's hot and who's not. Most of all, I'm always seeing forums about people that become so impatient with waiting for the right person to come along, they basically give up on altogether. Always talking about what they want and/or can't have. People wonder why they stay miserable. If all you do is look at what you don't have, what kind of life are you living?

    I'm not trying to put down anyone at all. All I'm trying to say to everyone is to cherish life and see what's already in front of you. Life is unpredictable and you never know what's coming around the corner or as the sun comes up everyday. Appreciate what you have and stop worrying about what you don't have or what you want. I've learned that if you stop worrying about every little desire that you want, things always go your way.


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  • mynyun

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    Apr 05, 2010 12:13 PM GMT
    Some of the negativity comes from the religious or spiritual threads here and it never surprises me but always disappoints me how it turns into a war. And then some threads started like "how good is your sex" annoy me. So to keep peace I just ignore those stupid ass threads.
    But to keep this up and Poz I had a great weekend. I visited my mom and both g.mothers.
    In between I had taken my mountain bike up a mountains dirt road and road and road. I'd say there and back had to be almost 10 miles but I could be completely wrong. The point was it was far too nice to be stuck in doors and I needed to feel the sweat from my brow and the sun on my back.
    Yes this past weekend was GLORIOUS and I hope there are more like it so I can take full advantage of it.
    There is my dose of Poz for this week.
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    Apr 05, 2010 12:16 PM GMT
    Isnt this thread negative?
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    Apr 05, 2010 12:39 PM GMT
    Gotta love the "Ignore" option on here! (C)
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    Apr 05, 2010 1:49 PM GMT
    Here Steel231, speaking of talking about good things....


    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/897670

    -Doug
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 05, 2010 1:58 PM GMT
    Well...if you ever need a reason to smile....( or shake your head and roll your eyes) check out a few of my previous posts....Yeah, I tend to be a clown sometimes....34.gif
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    Apr 05, 2010 2:28 PM GMT
    Caslon14000 saidIsnt this thread negative?


    It was meant to be a thread where people talk about the good things that happen with men instead of always focusing on the bad. But I guess the topic turned into something else icon_razz.gif