Is it worth the risk?

  • shadow9667

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    Apr 05, 2010 2:51 PM GMT
    So here the situation, i was waiting for the bus to arrive. There was a police officer patrol around and we've make few eye contacts. And then he stand somewhere near me (maybe a meter away). I keep peek at him and it seem like he had a hardon (not sure it was the shape of his pant or a real hardon). So many question was do you guys dare to take the risk and approach the police officer? And can i be charge for sexual harassment if i do so?
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    Apr 05, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    shadow9667 saidSo here the situation, i was waiting for the bus to arrive. There was a police officer patrol around and we've make few eye contacts. And then he stand somewhere near me (maybe a meter away). I keep peek at him and it seem like he had a hardon (not sure it was the shape of his pant or a real hardon). So many question was do you guys dare to take the risk and approach the police officer? And can i be charge for sexual harassment if i do so?


    It's no risk to start an ordinary friendly conversation. Don't try to pick him up at the bus stop... just see if he's willing to talk.

    If he seems like a nice guy, and is willing and able to carry on a conversation, you've started the "getting to know each other" process. From there, you might be able to talk about getting together for a drink sometime.

    Of course, if you start a friendly conversation and the hot police officer immediately makes it clear that he wants to rip your pants off and do you before you get on the bus, I say go for it! icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 05, 2010 4:16 PM GMT
    Well, you can do a "Hi..small talk small talk small talk....oooh, whats that in your pants icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif" type of thing but don't go up to him grab his crotch...that'll just land u in jail.
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    Apr 05, 2010 4:27 PM GMT
    shadow9667 saidSo here the situation, i was waiting for the bus to arrive. There was a police officer patrol around and we've make few eye contacts. And then he stand somewhere near me (maybe a meter away). I keep peek at him and it seem like he had a hardon (not sure it was the shape of his pant or a real hardon). So many question was do you guys dare to take the risk and approach the police officer? And can i be charge for sexual harassment if i do so?
    I got out of a DWI once because I flirted with the cute cop...and he flirted back. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 06, 2010 12:54 AM GMT
    FitExecutive said
    shadow9667 saidSo here the situation, i was waiting for the bus to arrive. There was a police officer patrol around and we've make few eye contacts. And then he stand somewhere near me (maybe a meter away). I keep peek at him and it seem like he had a hardon (not sure it was the shape of his pant or a real hardon). So many question was do you guys dare to take the risk and approach the police officer? And can i be charge for sexual harassment if i do so?


    It's no risk to start an ordinary friendly conversation. Don't try to pick him up at the bus stop... just see if he's willing to talk.

    If he seems like a nice guy, and is willing and able to carry on a conversation, you've started the "getting to know each other" process. From there, you might be able to talk about getting together for a drink sometime.

    Of course, if you start a friendly conversation and the hot police officer immediately makes it clear that he wants to rip your pants off and do you before you get on the bus, I say go for it! icon_twisted.gif


    Yup. Fit is right on. As long as you're respectful and play it on the up-and-up, it should be fine.
  • shadow9667

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    Apr 06, 2010 2:53 PM GMT
    nysexy saidWell, you can do a "Hi..small talk small talk small talk....oooh, whats that in your pants icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif" type of thing but don't go up to him grab his crotch...that'll just land u in jail.


    This is funny icon_lol.gif
  • jrs1

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    Apr 06, 2010 2:59 PM GMT
    I actually thought this was a really cute thread. I would probably smile and walk away but ... if you've managed to turn on a man in uniform then good for you.
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    Apr 06, 2010 3:15 PM GMT
    I have a good friend who's a Portland cop. Partnered up in an open relationship. We affectionately refer to him as "The Horn Dog". Always on the prowl. He dates tons of men he meets on the job. Sounds like this dude was cruising you. Are you sure he was a cop or just a hopeful horny guy in a costume?
    Cops have a lot of discretion in most situations and can slap the cuffs on ya for just about anything particularly if you piss them off or lie to them. The ones I know do like to BS w/folks and appreciate friendly conversation. They are public servants after all. Don't approach them w/your hands in your pocket tough/hands in plain sight.
    Flirting is a form of small talk that's learned and most men aren't really good at it (including me). Probably best to ease into friendly small talk (baby steps) about the weather or lame ass buses always off schedule and late instead of diving right in and asking if he saves his sack.
  • shadow9667

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    Apr 06, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    jrs1 saidI actually thought this was a really cute thread. I would probably smile and walk away but ... if you've managed to turn on a man in uniform then good for you.

    No, i always hope to get hot man in uniform icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 11, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    sounds like a fantasy waiting to happen
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    Jun 11, 2010 5:52 PM GMT
    david1h saidsounds like a fantasy waiting to happen


    Who's fantasy?

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