How to have sexgay friends and stay in the closet?

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    Jan 24, 2008 10:02 PM GMT

    Is it possible ?..

    I do have sex life secretely with some guys I met online .. I also have gay friends (which are the best friends ever) .. but my parents want me to cut it (not to have life at all ) cuz they think that this will out me ..

    please tell me they are wrong .. any advices? icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 25, 2008 2:35 AM GMT
    You should read While Endland Sleeps to see a bit what life is like for a man who fucks men but leads a double life in the closet.
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    Jan 26, 2008 1:55 PM GMT
    GHoSTa said
    .. but my parents want me to cut it (not to have life at all ) cuz they think that this will out me ..



    Told my mom recently, and that was her advice to keep my dad from finding out...

    I figured "well, I kept you from figuring it out for this long..." but there's definitely a huge risk factor there, and the longer you go the tougher it'll be to beat the numbers, plus you have to be careful about slipping. If you get too comfortable, you make mistakes. I've known a few guys who actually get off on being able to fool the people around them, but it doesn't always last, and when it does come down it comes down like a sack of bricks.
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    Feb 02, 2008 2:11 PM GMT
    Of course you can, I was in the Army for 24 years. I usually found civilian guys off post, way off post. It was in the days before the internet. I went to clubs and bars and cruisy areas. Germany was the best.
    German guys are hot.
    I never had anything romantic with fellow soldiers, I liked the Army and didn't want to get kicked out.