How to get over Ex

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    Apr 06, 2010 6:13 PM GMT
    Hey Guys.
    Me and my ex broke up about 2months ago we were only together for 3 weeks and the brake up was kinda mutual, i don't feel anything for him anymore, but each time i see him at the gym it spoils my whole day?
    What must i do?
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    Apr 06, 2010 6:56 PM GMT
    Tell him to Fuck Off ! That what helped me .
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    Apr 06, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    See other people? Work out at a different time?
  • bmw0

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    Apr 06, 2010 7:00 PM GMT
    Blow him a kiss when you see him and go on about your business. icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 06, 2010 7:26 PM GMT
    Its not that i go to the gym at the same time everyday, each day i gym at a diffrnt time, im a student so i dont have a fixed schedule. and its the only gym in town
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    Apr 06, 2010 7:41 PM GMT
    It was 3 weeks and ended mutually. Time to get over it. Get under someone else and you'll forget all about him.
  • jrs1

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    Apr 06, 2010 8:00 PM GMT
    because the relationship has ended in one sense does not mean that the friendship has to as well.

    you were a person before him and you will be after him

    when a relationship ends, no matter the circumstances, it's not about blame - who's wrong & who's right. it's about reflecting upon who you were before he came into your life and who you've now become since then.

    it would be a shame to close off those communication doors to him when ' it ends, ' for there is still so much to learn from ' what happened. ' if we never take the time to think about how we treat others then we never really allow ourselves the time to consider personal growth.

    the words and feel of this song reflect how I feel about exes. they're still people and even though you don't have to like them ... civility and mutual respect play a big part in learning:

  • Sanantonio66

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    Apr 08, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    Hey, if you feel nothing for him then why does it bother you?

    It is really important to try turning it into a friendship that way you still can enjoy some of the special qualities that attracted you to him in the first place. This way when you see him you can both have a happier day.

    I have many close friends that i had previous relationships with some brief and some as long as 5 years, things didn't work out for various reasons, but i still like the guys i had been with maybe not to be in a relationship with, but it is great to talk with them and some times take in a movie or what not.

    Just because you where intimate in the past and that has changed doesn't mean that you automatically become strangers or enemy's. i think that is something we all have been told to do just like so many bad idea's like not be gay. lol