How wierd is it NOT to masturbate.

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    May 22, 2007 2:33 AM GMT
    I feel a bit left out when it comes to Jack-off skills. I don't really like to do it or when I do feel like it I get bored and stop after a few strokes.
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    May 22, 2007 3:19 AM GMT
    I can relate. While I don't think I lack any skill, I just don't do it often. I'm inclined to believe that most dudes jerk off often, but just because you don't doesn't mean you're not normal. "Normal" is a relative term.
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    May 22, 2007 6:38 AM GMT
    The question is really, are you getting regular sex elsewhere? If not then are you frustrated?
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    May 22, 2007 11:07 AM GMT
    If you are anything like me, sex is much better with a partner.

    Try falling into a fantisy it may help!
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    May 22, 2007 11:22 AM GMT
    i only masturbate when i'm bored/nothing to do or can't go to sleep so i guess i do it to occupy the spare time i have.

    don't think it's not so strange to not do it, some guys prefer solo action as opposed to with a partner and some like both etc...
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    May 22, 2007 7:12 PM GMT
    If you're getting an alternative source, like a person, then that would explain why you just don't crave it.

    I think a lot of people get lazy with masturbation though. Visual and audio aids can help a lot.
    Different lubricants other than basic lotion will make a big difference also.

    Alternating strokes, up and down won't always do it. Try changing the hand you use every now and then or the speed of your strokes. Maybe even add a twist in it as you go back up.

    Sometimes people can experience mental blocks that just takes the pleasure out of pleasurable things.
    But truly you don't have to worry until you stop enjoying or craving sex.

    Maybe you've just reached an age where you're no longer turned on by self gratification. Its not weird and theres nothing abnormal about it at all. Some people beat off once a week, some twice and some go as far as to beat off 5 times a day.

    You only need to worry when you're desperately horny and want to but for some reason you just can't. But if it just doesn't appeal to you, then go out enjoy the real thing. After all it is way better or at least it should be.

    Exploring masturbation, however, may help give you insight into what it is that you are into. After all no one knows what you like better than you do.
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    May 23, 2007 6:33 AM GMT
    Guys, I have hemachromatosis, and thus, don't produce enough testosterone. Stay with me. Because of that, I take testosterone injections once every 2 weeks. When I'm at the point when my levels are low, before the injection, I find it more difficult to masturbate, and usually give up after a few strokes. After I get my shot, I'm a new man and can't masturbate enough. Woodie every morning.

    Moral of the story - get your testosterone levels checked.
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    May 23, 2007 9:58 PM GMT
    I was just wondering if there were other guys that don't masturbate. I get all the sex I want but i never considered jacking-off as sex. My old school thinking kinda pegs mastubating as a activity for losers ...in HS guys that couldn't get dates were called "jerk-offs". Recently though songs lyrics and general discussions point to masturbating as a core "sexual" activity like video gaming and done alone. I always thought luv was a thing to share even it is done with someone other then that special "ONE"
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    May 24, 2007 2:33 AM GMT
    Mister thumb and his 4 brothers have always been a best friend. Ya never have to take them from drinks and dinner to get lucky.
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    May 29, 2007 11:56 PM GMT
    i dont masturbate tooo so idont think its weird but my friends tell me it is.
    i really like it to be real:D fantasizing doesnt satisfy me
  • ramblerman

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    Jun 01, 2007 3:19 AM GMT
    I have a friend who gets all he wants from his girlfriend & only jerks it a few times a year. Only thing I was told is use it or lose it, especially as you get older. Moral of the story: keep air in the tires or you wont be able to pull your car into the garage.
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    Jun 01, 2007 4:37 AM GMT
    Prostate health is important. Jerk off today!

    I'd write more, but, I have to go take care of business. I'm about to explode (ROFL).
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    Jun 01, 2007 4:39 AM GMT
    In all seriousness, jerking off is a very healthy thing, and keep that plumbing cleared and in working order, as well as keeps junk that's not good from you from sitting around.

    The darn thing is there for a reason, and it ain't just for making it hard for old folks to piss. It's there for a good time, too.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Jun 01, 2007 2:36 PM GMT
    In a good relationship here, but do jack it daily. Doesn't mean you're not normal if you don't, but the old saying if you don't use it you lose it is true. Have you ever had your testosterone levels checked?? Are you depressed?? It might be a medication?? Good luck. Hate to quote Nike, but "Just do it"!!
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    Jun 01, 2007 3:55 PM GMT
    sundown55, moral of the story: take more shots.
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    Jun 02, 2007 1:47 AM GMT
    the more days I wait the more erotic and sexual I get....so I don't want to jerk off in the morning and then to find out I have a date that night....
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    Jun 02, 2007 4:57 PM GMT
    Yeah, I think having a major load to shoot makes it a lot more fun and my buds are impressed by what they think are "huge" loads. You guys got me worried about the use it ot lose it. Is sex twice a week enuf? Where are the scientific studies? Yeah, I did it twice a day when I was 30 y.o. but got almost nothing in my early 20's.
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    Jun 05, 2007 11:47 AM GMT
    I think I disprove the theory that frequent masturbation prevents prostate cancer. Diagnosed last October at age 53. I urge every man to get a PSA test each year starting at age 40. Earlier if there is a history of prostate cancer in your family.
  • GQjock

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    Jun 10, 2007 12:44 PM GMT
    masturbation is 99% mental and 1% lubrication
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    Jun 22, 2007 9:27 PM GMT
    I jacked off every day since I was a kid...sometimes more than once...and was diagnosed with prostate cancer last year. It's much more important to stay clear of testosterone boosting hormones...they are gasoline for dormant prostate cancer cells. I was on androgel for 6 months before being diagnosed w/ a psa test. GET TESTED!!!!
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    Jun 27, 2007 12:23 AM GMT
    Its healthy and a good way to relieve stress. Sex with your partner is better but even watching someone masterbate can be erotic. Getting the proverbial hand job from someone else is nice too.
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    Jun 28, 2007 3:37 AM GMT
    I touch myself frequently. My boyfriend Porn helps me out sometimes... I never have to worry about him being faithful! :)
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    Jun 30, 2007 2:31 PM GMT
    Sometimes if If A person is depressed or their nerves are acting up or stressed out can make it difficult or impossible to jack off. At times depression has been a problem for me in this regard. I think I do jack off a lot. I know this has been said before but If you don't do it often or at all it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Although maybe you should talk to your doctor or something just to give you piece of mind. And to rule out anything.
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    Jun 30, 2007 6:44 PM GMT
    I just kinda confuse if it is true that when u always musterbate u lose weight???or bcome thin sknny
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    Jun 30, 2007 11:35 PM GMT
    I think Jacking off is great. If you don't, that's cool. I don't know if you should get your testosterone levels checked if you aren't in to rubbing one out.
    I feel masterbation is helpful for good sex. From my own experience I know that I last that much longer when I cranked one out earlier that day.
    If you aren't in to it and you are still having good sex, congrats, but I just think experimentation away from a partner is good too, that way you bring something new to the table, I mean bed.