i hate love..

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    Apr 09, 2010 3:43 AM GMT


    pretty much how i feel all the time, once u think u found love it goes away....why cant we just shut emotions off...
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    Apr 09, 2010 3:54 AM GMT
    ....why can’t we just shut emotions off?
    Because were human.
    The human marathon; push through the wall.
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 09, 2010 3:56 AM GMT
    If you find love...and it goes away......then it was never truly love...on both sides..icon_neutral.gif
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    Apr 09, 2010 6:21 AM GMT
    Love is one of those things that we learn more about it by both having it and then not having it. We have tremendous opportunities to grow and to enjoy rich relationships when we have love in our life. We can also learn valuable lessens when love ends.

    From my experience the old cliche holds timeless truth: It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

    To this day, after decades of love found and lost, I continue to "put my heart out on my sleave" despite the fear of hurt and always in hope of love lasting until my dying day.

    Do not confine yourself to the 1-on-1 romantic boyfriend/husband love. There are so many other opportunities to build friendships, acquaintances, to fix family wounds, and to just do something wonderful for strangers. All of this can be done with love.

    Never fear to love. Never grow so bitter and cynical that you cannot love. This is the one thing that it is best to be like an innocent child. Love freely and love often. Love everybody.

    It could be just as simple as giving a hug to a stranger:



    Just imagine how much more close knit our cities, towns, and communities could be if we just gave each other some love through a hug.

    It could change the world forever.

    Aloha and Be Well!

    Alan

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    Apr 09, 2010 7:18 AM GMT
    I wish I didn't want love...

    Or I was better at getting it. :3
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    Apr 09, 2010 7:46 PM GMT
    I LOVE JoJo...I hate love too.

    I mean, I love LOVE at the same time...but I hate that you have to suffer to get it, and suffer if you lose it. You know?

    But once you have it, there is no feeling that can explain it.
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    Apr 09, 2010 7:54 PM GMT


    hmmmm.....*quietly tiptoes away from topic*

    -Doug
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    Apr 09, 2010 7:58 PM GMT
    The purpose of conflict is harmony.

    One must be at peace with the fact that heartbreak and pain are a natural part of life, just a love and happiness are natural parts of life.

    You can't control the situations you find yourself in....you can only control your reaction to them.
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    Apr 09, 2010 8:01 PM GMT