An Honest Question.....

  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 11, 2010 8:01 PM GMT
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    In your previous relationships whether simply dating or committed, who was usually the one to end things? Your partner or yourself? 106.gif
  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 11, 2010 9:16 PM GMT
    For myself, it has been a 60-40 ratio.....Yes, I am a workaholic and I know sometimes I fail at showing guys the attention that they need and thus they tend to move on...on the other hand....I think I would be quite a catch for someone....someday....icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 11, 2010 9:17 PM GMT
    Me...all three times.
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    Apr 11, 2010 9:22 PM GMT
    Me each time, and in conjunction with a couples' counselor.

    In other words, we attempted couples counseling and at a certain point I arrived at moments of clarity where I had to decide to "settle for" or "go separate ways".
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    Aug 18, 2010 11:13 PM GMT
    malefeet saidFor myself, it has been a 60-40 ratio.....Yes, I am a workaholic and I know sometimes I fail at showing guys the attention that they need and thus they tend to move on...on the other hand....I think I would be quite a catch for someone....someday....icon_redface.gif


    i wouldn't have dumped you for being a workaholic. it's not the amount of attention that matters but the intensity.
    i would never have the courage to ask my partner to give up work for me. maybe i'm just silly
    but one or two quality hours spent together every day, a nice weekend and a good sleep together satisfies me
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    Aug 18, 2010 11:15 PM GMT
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    In your previous relationships whether simply dating or committed, who was usually the one to end things? Your partner or yourself? 106.gif


    Me more often than not
  • KepaArg

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    Aug 18, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    Let's see...

    Dima: Mutual due to distance, and neither willing to move
    Lucas: Me
    Alejandro: Me
    Nico: Him
    Tomas: Currently dating him, but we will not maintain an exclusive relation once I'm in the Middle East

    Obviously there have been in the middle, but none I would call my bf
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    Aug 18, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    I always seem to be the person leaving....
  • nv7_

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    Aug 18, 2010 11:25 PM GMT
    1. Him
    2. Me
    3. Me
    4. Him
    5. Him

    60/40? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 18, 2010 11:57 PM GMT
    I've only been in three committed relationship, and I ended all of them...peacefully.
    The last one didn't take it so well and attempted to start drama, but rather than fighting back, I simply involved the police to keep it civil, and it finally ended well.
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    Aug 18, 2010 11:59 PM GMT
    I've only been in one relationship. He ended it. One night he just decided that he "didn't want to be in a relationship at that point in his life" because he would miss out on certain opportunities by being in a relationship with me. I was a wreck, but my fraternity helped me get through it. We don't talk anymore.
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    Aug 19, 2010 12:00 AM GMT
    oh, and i had one relationship until now, i ended it
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:09 AM GMT
    I've only been in one relationship. He ended it. One night he just decided that he "didn't want to be in a relationship at that point in his life" because he would miss out on certain opportunities by being in a relationship with me. I was a wreck, but my fraternity helped me get through it. We don't talk anymore.ed hardy bekleidung/ed hardy perfume/ed hardy schuheThanks for your posting; I really appreciate your ideas. Hope you can keep going.This is a really great website, and I really like your essay. Thanks for your sharing.I like it very much, thanks!!!Thanks for that recommendation; it is really helpful for me to say!
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Aug 19, 2010 6:19 AM GMT
    once me twice the other one by cheating.
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:28 AM GMT
    twice me and twice the other by screwing around, 1 in person and 1 online AND in person(how they cheated)
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:54 AM GMT
    I've ended all my gay relationships (3)...and don't even know where my exes are.that's why they are called exes...
    My ex wife did throw me out, but it had nothing to do with being gay
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    Aug 19, 2010 7:01 AM GMT
    Old thread but made me think.

    50/50 split BF/LTR wise which has perplexed me over the years: skillet and dish throwing exercises (ashamed but true) (NOT one sided at all) as I always thought every thing was fine until... HE stepped over the line. I have lost all innocence and inhibitions in a war of the heart/spirit.
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    Aug 19, 2010 7:02 AM GMT
    My first I ended. We were together a year. The relationship had settled into jovial camaraderie devoid of all romantic passion after only 6 months. We were basically roommates at that point. At the age of 25. We are still friends, though (just e-mailed him an hour gone).

    My second I also ended, because I wanted him to commit to actually be in a relationship (we were dating for 3 months, but actually were in love, not infatuation). I figured at that point we should know enough about each other to know if we wanted to be exclusive (not married). He wasn't ready, I was, he pulled these little stunts to push me away, so I said, "ok, we're done." I was kind of a wreck afterwards. We didn't speak for at least a month, but we do now. We're friends again, too.
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    Aug 19, 2010 8:21 AM GMT
    Always him, except for my last relationship...I usually dont have the balls to brake up icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:23 PM GMT
    charlitos saidAlways him, except for my last relationship...I usually dont have the balls to brake up icon_sad.gif
    That's the only reason my relationships lasted as long as they did. I was ready to call it quits in the first year, but hung on for a couple more years in all three relationships 'cause I was too afraid to break it off. icon_lol.gif