Oral Sex. Dealbreaker?

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    Apr 12, 2010 11:58 PM GMT
    Being serious. I just want to know how other people feel about oral sex.
    I know someone who was really into this guy and then ended it once he found out the guy didnt like to give oral sex. He said its too big of an issue and he cant be with someone that doesnt want to do it.

    Have you ever dated someone that wasnt a fan of oral sex on both ends or would you date someone like that?

    And is it ok to swallow? Or would you rather spit?
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    Apr 13, 2010 7:09 AM GMT
    That.... is so otherworldly to me. The breaking up with someone because they don't like oral sex, that is.

    I would immediately think they weren't serious about liking them to begin with; however, I have been proven wrong before....



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    I guess? icon_sad.gif
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    Apr 13, 2010 2:57 PM GMT
    If you want me hard, you better be sucking my dick and paying attention to my front, but if that's not what the guy is into, it's not a deal breaker for me unless he's a bottom. It's frustrating to have one sided sex with a guy that just lays there, I like a bit of a fight going on.
    But if I'm the bottom I don't mind so much because I concentrate the foreplay on the top, I can jack off or if we have a threesome, have some other guy dive in.
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    Apr 13, 2010 4:21 PM GMT
    I could never be with a guy who is a bad lay. Sorry, but it doesn't take all that much to broaden your horizons a little to please your guy.

    To me it says something about their personality in a wider sense. Someone who is closed-minded, selfish, and unadventurous in bed will be closed-minded, selfish, and unadventurous in life.
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    Apr 13, 2010 4:50 PM GMT
    Yes, sexual compatibility is an issue for everyone.
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    Apr 13, 2010 5:05 PM GMT
    viveutvivas saidI could never be with a guy who is a bad lay. Sorry, but it doesn't take all that much to broaden your horizons a little to please your guy.

    To me it says something about their personality in a wider sense. Someone who is closed-minded, selfish, and unadventurous in bed will be closed-minded, selfish, and unadventurous in life.


    I like to do everything in bed and use everything I got to physically connect with every inch of my guy's body.from head to toe.

    A guy who has such narrowly defined sexual parameters is not for me. To each his own, but I find these guys kinda mentaly and emotionally stunted, not challenging and boring............and selfish.

    Did I mention boring?
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    Apr 15, 2010 7:12 AM GMT
    Oral sex is a touchy issue for me.

    1. Don't like to give it because my jaw has some alignment issues and it's really uncomfortable... it sucks a lot actually.
    2. Don't like to receive it because well... I'm just not that into it for some weird reason.

    So to answer the question, no. Not a deal breaker.
  • martinaston

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    Apr 17, 2010 7:21 PM GMT
    In a 'situation' like that at the moment and I've got to admit
    KISSINGPRO's words 'selfish' + 'boring' are starting to make sense..
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    Apr 24, 2010 7:40 AM GMT
    Love giving and receiving oral. It is very HOT
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    Apr 25, 2010 10:59 PM GMT
    *GROSS* to each, its own on thaticon_eek.gificon_lol.gif