A little encouragement for you single men!

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    Apr 13, 2010 1:22 AM GMT
    I have noticed heaps of forum topics about single guys who are having trouble or seem to be plagued with the "can't find a good bf" syndrome. It is sad to read about these stories cause I believe we all need someone special.

    Alot of these guys that post these topics are very cute. I thought to myself, we just need to smile more! We need to let loose and just live it up. The more we proactively look the longer it will take to find someone. It will come and you need to put yourself out there and meet men! Yes you will get rejected and yes you might get hurt in the process, but just try your best to brush it off and get back up.

    As a single man myself, I recently was badly hurt and I know I am not in the position to give advice, but I do wish the best of luck to you single men who are looking. I dunno, I suppose I am just in a loving mood right now.

    Love yourself and SMILE MATES!
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    Apr 13, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    Good gosh, my list of personal heroes on this site just grew..

  • Midas426

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    Apr 13, 2010 1:36 AM GMT
    Yup single man here as well. There's the proactive approach and then there's the "waiting for it to happen". I go through each depending on my mood.

    I have to admit though I sometimes tend to rush through life and not take the time to stop and smell the roses. In the rush too maybe I'm not giving potential mates the opportunity to blossom.

    Of course there's a lot of variables....usually mutual attraction is on top of the list. But you're right, it probably wouldn't hurt for me to smile a bit more. And then I need to add more pics to my profile, cause I'm actually more attractive than I appear...*LOL*.

    Anyway thanks for the encouragement. icon_biggrin.gif