Fenix_Stone saidI been wondering this since all gay sites I am on are about nothing but sex I wanted to know if anyone else think it is possible
Yes, because not all gay sites are all about hook-ups. RJ is not, and my partner & I have met a number of great guys from RJ in person, purely for socializing.
I met both my late partner and my present partner through AOL gay chat rooms. After months of getting acquainted online, mostly in open chat rooms that allowed us to judge how the other interacted with guys and how they thought, what their opinions were, likes & dislikes, etc, we exchanged pics, and finally spoke on the phone. Last we met in person, when in each case I traveled down to meet him.
We don't use AOL anymore, but there are other gay social sites that aren't all about raw sex. Plus a site is what you make it, and some of the best content filters start with yourself. So the answer is yes, it is possible, and I've done it.