redbull saidWhat if you met an awesome looking guy but he lacked confidence/self esteem in himself would it turn you off sexually?
I've been told point-blank that it's a turn off. I have virtually no self esteem and a self-deprecating sense of humor (bad combo), so I talk and joke about myself a lot. I've had guys get aggravated with me and tell me to stop, because it's a not funny and a big turn off.
redbull saidand like wise if you met an average looking guy but was self confident and a high self esteem would that turn you on even though he was just average?
The so-called average guys are my favorite, and when they're comfortable in their own skin and radiate confidence, it's pretty appealing (not that I'd ever approach them, I just find it attractive).
But, the times I've had guys start emails or IM's with, "I know I'm not your type...." or "You probably aren't interested in someone like me..." it's like I lose interest instantly, when I otherwise would have been...