• hectorjack

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    Apr 14, 2010 7:20 AM GMT
    I live in INDIA where still people think being gay is sick and not many of the parents neither the society (friends) will be just ok to accept that my son or my friend is a gay. I am blessed with loving parents who had given me always the best in my life including a very fine international education which led me to a sophisticated living today. Even though I am not ashamed of being a gay today due to various other reasons I cant yet be openly gay here at my part of INDIA. If I break all these personal and social barriers and come out openly as a gay I am not sure where life leads form there. As always I would also love to believe that this is just today and things might change tomorrow.

    When I write all this I must say I don't have any disrespect for my country or my friends. It’s a sate of mind makes me feel that I am not being true to myself and my loved ones. In my 25years of life have met a very few GAY men and mostly things were physical form the opposite side (noting to blame) when I know that’s how their mindset is when they grow up in such a restricted society.

    The actual problem is even if I find some one of my type with whom I can share my life apart form being just physical the practical fact that we will break all our loved one’s heart for leading a life with out peace and recognition in the society drives me crazy. I am not sure how this post can actually help me but just felt I should share it with my bro’s whose life out there is much less crazier and I am happy for you all. Sometimes just expressing ourselves the way we want with out making any boundaries will be a great relief that’s what I am trying to do. Thanks for the time.
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    Apr 14, 2010 12:59 PM GMT
    Hey it's hectorjack!! Hi, you!

    Thanks for this post; you make us humbly grateful for what we have and so easily take for granted every day.

    respectfully, Doug and Bill