Masturbating= self preservation.

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    Apr 14, 2010 11:35 PM GMT
    Ok what i am about to type, some of you might not find yourself relating to. I dont know of any male adult who doesn't do this at-least 2 times daily. The topic i wanted to discuss was "Masturbation", and if whether some people masturbate as a to not be sexually promiscuous. Now speaking from experience and from getting certain answers from my male buddies, i came to the conclusion that once a guy is "Horny" or "Heated" ..he is only operating on pure hormones and a simple "sexual urge". Now in regards to gay men, these urges surface every hour and there are multiple websites one can log on to and find someone to help them with these urges. And we all have done so one time or another. So my question to the fellow Realjockers is....why not just Masterbate until you meet that one guy your really interested in? As its not only safer but we all know that once orgasm is reached..your no longer interested in anything sexual and your health wont be at risk from such encounters. Some guys even regret doing the hookup once they come. I have always noticed this..that when i have the urge to get physical...once i give myself that "self satisfaction" and reach an orgasm..its like that part of my needs is abruptly closed..no longer interested and i can start to think clearly again. So why not just masturbate and save yourself the trouble of risking your health by doing random sexual encounters? Which weighs heavier? sex with a stranger or self gratification?
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    Apr 14, 2010 11:52 PM GMT
    tereseus1 saidOk what i am about to type, some of you might not find yourself relating to. I dont know of any male adult who doesn't do this at-least 2 times daily. The topic i wanted to discuss was "Masturbation", and if whether some people masturbate as a to not be sexually promiscuous. Now speaking from experience and from getting certain answers from my male buddies, i came to the conclusion that once a guy is "Horny" or "Heated" ..he is only operating on pure hormones and a simple "sexual urge". Now in regards to gay men, these urges surface every hour and there are multiple websites one can log on to and find someone to help them with these urges. And we all have done so one time or another. So my question to the fellow Realjockers is....why not just Masterbate until you meet that one guy your really interested in? As its not only safer but we all know that once orgasm is reached..your no longer interested in anything sexual and your health wont be at risk from such encounters. Some guys even regret doing the hookup once they come. I have always noticed this..that when i have the urge to get physical...once i give myself that "self satisfaction" and reach an orgasm..its like that part of my needs is abruptly closed..no longer interested and i can start to think clearly again. So why not just masturbate and save yourself the trouble of risking your health by doing random sexual encounters? Which weighs heavier? sex with a stranger or self gratification?



    I don't have anything of substance to say about the post but I'm going to comment anyway...


    LOL @ masturbating at least 2 times a day when you're older than 15.

    LOL @ you flip flopping between spelling masturbate and masterbate.

    Eh, I'll add...people that are into nothing but hooking up are usually the simple people of our world. They can't rub two brain cells together long enough to consider something meaningful so they rub body parts together usually without thought of consequences.

    /my opinion
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    Apr 15, 2010 1:07 AM GMT
    tereseus1 said So why not just masturbate and save yourself the trouble of risking your health by doing random sexual encounters?


    Exactly what some of us do.


    KDean861 saidLOL @ masturbating at least 2 times a day when you're older than 15.

    Why are you laughing? I'm 49 and that's pretty normal for me.
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    Apr 15, 2010 1:19 AM GMT
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    tereseus1 saidOk what i am about to type, some of you might not find yourself relating to. I dont know of any male adult who doesn't do this at-least 2 times daily. The topic i wanted to discuss was "Masturbation", and if whether some people masturbate as a to not be sexually promiscuous. Now speaking from experience and from getting certain answers from my male buddies, i came to the conclusion that once a guy is "Horny" or "Heated" ..he is only operating on pure hormones and a simple "sexual urge". Now in regards to gay men, these urges surface every hour and there are multiple websites one can log on to and find someone to help them with these urges. And we all have done so one time or another. So my question to the fellow Realjockers is....why not just Masterbate until you meet that one guy your really interested in? As its not only safer but we all know that once orgasm is reached..your no longer interested in anything sexual and your health wont be at risk from such encounters. Some guys even regret doing the hookup once they come. I have always noticed this..that when i have the urge to get physical...once i give myself that "self satisfaction" and reach an orgasm..its like that part of my needs is abruptly closed..no longer interested and i can start to think clearly again. So why not just masturbate and save yourself the trouble of risking your health by doing random sexual encounters? Which weighs heavier? sex with a stranger or self gratification?



    I don't have anything of substance to say about the post but I'm going to comment anyway...


    LOL @ masturbating at least 2 times a day when you're older than 15.

    LOL @ you flip flopping between spelling masturbate and masterbate.



    /my opinion


    you completely missed the post lol..but anyways ..masturbate or masterbate...both spelling is correct..
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    Apr 15, 2010 1:20 AM GMT
    Only 2 times per day?
    Pussies!
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    Apr 15, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    Nothing beats a warm body close to your own. Your one or two hands just don't cut it. I mean, you do what ya' gotta do; jackin' is jackin', and it has it's place. But as for me, I prefer the warmth, the feel, the sweat of another body close to my own...but that's just meicon_cool.gifand yours is lookin' pretty good to meicon_cool.gif
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    Apr 15, 2010 3:21 AM GMT

    This a very interesting Topic....and I agree with most that is written but i love Sensuality, to Touch, Feel someone...it's amazing and you Cant get that from masturbating Alone.

    Like Tango, it takes Two or a Few icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 15, 2010 4:45 PM GMT
    There is a lot more to sex than just an orgasm. If it were that simple, no one would crave sex because you could get equally satisfied from jerking off. Sex is a social experience. Sex is an emotional experience. You can't get that from masturbation.

    Yeah, there are risks. That is why I always play safe, get tested regularly, and don't fuck just any old tramp. The relative risks are worth it for the far richer experience.
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    Apr 15, 2010 5:02 PM GMT
    HomingDevice saidWhat about the bottoms though? A dildo just does not equal the same as giving pleasure to another guy.


    See response from @MunchingZombie above. It's about connection, not just satisfaction of a biological twitching.
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    Apr 15, 2010 5:22 PM GMT
    No, self-pleasure is not the same as sex with another human being, but sex for me needs an emotional connection and I can't get that from random hookups. So, solo it is until I find someone I connect with on that level.
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    Apr 15, 2010 5:37 PM GMT
    ejay79 saidNo, self-pleasure is not the same as sex with another human being, but sex for me needs an emotional connection and I can't get that from random hookups. So, solo it is until I find someone I connect with on that level.


    +1
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    Apr 15, 2010 6:28 PM GMT
    djohn767 saidNothing beats a warm body close to your own. Your one or two hands just don't cut it. I mean, you do what ya' gotta do; jackin' is jackin', and it has it's place. But as for me, I prefer the warmth, the feel, the sweat of another body close to my own...but that's just meicon_cool.gifand yours is lookin' pretty good to meicon_cool.gif



    Exactly.
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    Apr 15, 2010 6:42 PM GMT
    ejay79 saidNo, self-pleasure is not the same as sex with another human being, but sex for me needs an emotional connection and I can't get that from random hookups. So, solo it is until I find someone I connect with on that level.

    Spot on.
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    Apr 15, 2010 7:12 PM GMT
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    ejay79 saidNo, self-pleasure is not the same as sex with another human being, but sex for me needs an emotional connection and I can't get that from random hookups. So, solo it is until I find someone I connect with on that level.

    Spot on.


    Agreed!
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    Apr 15, 2010 7:18 PM GMT
    ejay79 said
    tereseus1 said So why not just masturbate and save yourself the trouble of risking your health by doing random sexual encounters?


    Exactly what some of us do.


    KDean861 saidLOL @ masturbating at least 2 times a day when you're older than 15.

    Why are you laughing? I'm 49 and that's pretty normal for me.
    Thanks...pure stupidity. If you're horny and dont want to hook up why not do it. I get off generally 1-3 times daily. As per the 15 part, back then it was like 5 times a day!

    I bought a toy to help me along also. Im over the hook up thing myself and barely do it these days. Too much drama and time wasting. So I bought the fullstroke machine. GOOD TIMES!
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    Apr 15, 2010 7:24 PM GMT
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    ejay79 saidNo, self-pleasure is not the same as sex with another human being, but sex for me needs an emotional connection and I can't get that from random hookups. So, solo it is until I find someone I connect with on that level.


    +1


    ditto
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    Apr 15, 2010 8:09 PM GMT
    Like others, i gree with ejay79. Masturbation works for about one week then the cravings for the real thing begin kicking in. After two weeks and i am ready to just pounce on my man (our jobs sometimes means we are apart for 1-2 weeks).
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    Apr 15, 2010 8:36 PM GMT
    I think that both sides of this debate are valid. Personally I think it may get better if we (american culture in general) started having real conversations about sex with our potential partners. It doesn't need to be all inclusive if it's just a quick hook up, just a condom negotiation would be sufficient.
    again that's just my personal opinion