Hows the best way to start as a bottom for the first time?

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    Apr 16, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    I am a virgin only because I am afraid of pain is there anyway for me to become a bottom with no pain?
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    Apr 16, 2010 4:04 AM GMT
    NO! Breathe and ask for mercy!
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    Apr 16, 2010 4:15 AM GMT
    Buy a dildo and play with it.

    Get an experienced top to take your cherry.

    Make him warm you up for a long, long time.

    If it hurts, make him continue to warm you up.


    Anal sex doesn't have to be painful. You shit out dick sized logs every day without discomfort so your ass is really up to the task. It is all a matter of getting the confidence to ride a dick to orgasm.
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    Apr 19, 2010 1:39 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidBuy a dildo and play with it.

    Get an experienced top to take your cherry.

    Make him warm you up for a long, long time.

    If it hurts, make him continue to warm you up.


    Anal sex doesn't have to be painful. You shit out dick sized logs every day without discomfort so your ass is really up to the task. It is all a matter of getting the confidence to ride a dick to orgasm.


    ^^^ What he said. The best position for a first timer is to sit on his cock.
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    Apr 19, 2010 3:12 AM GMT
    1. Listen to Zombie.

    2. Know that "it" might not happen on the first night. Instead of "trying", just relax with each other and have fun.
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    Apr 19, 2010 3:16 AM GMT
    my first time was not painfull, bloody or otherwise unpleasant.

    my bf spent LOTS of time rimming me with his Talented Tongue, one, two and then three fingers in and out of me with lots of gun oil synthetic lube...2 spritz of "anal ease" spray and a heathy snort of a brand new bottle of poppers.... his condom covered, lubed up plump penis slid right in! and out! and in!! icon_wink.gificon_cool.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 19, 2010 3:23 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidBuy a dildo and play with it.

    Get an experienced top to take your cherry.

    Make him warm you up for a long, long time.

    If it hurts, make him continue to warm you up.


    Anal sex doesn't have to be painful. You shit out dick sized logs every day without discomfort so your ass is really up to the task. It is all a matter of getting the confidence to ride a dick to orgasm.



    I never laughed so hard in my life. Well said!
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    Apr 20, 2010 3:33 AM GMT
    For my first anal experience, I was practically raped in a video booth when I was 21. That was painful. I was able to get away.

    Since then I've have been provided two kinds of anal experiences.

    One is lovely and wonderful by a man who cares for me. He will lube his finger (sometimes with a glove, most times not), and finger me loose. Maybe there will be some tongue to warm up my hole. Then I'll suck him hard, lube his penis, then he'll gently enter me from behind. (Note: it's easier when on your knees, than on your back with your legs up, or sitting on him) He'll make sure I'm comfortable and when I want him to push harder when I'm hot and ready he will.

    The other is a guy who tries to see if he can stick his little weenie up my intestines, not caring how he positions himself and shouts things like "take this bitch."

    I hope you get the later for your first time.
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    Apr 20, 2010 4:46 AM GMT
    Doesn't have to be painful at all.

    Go slow, relax, lots of foreplay, lots of lube. The most amazing sensation ever!!!!

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