please keep the licking armpits fetish to yourself

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    Apr 16, 2010 10:00 PM GMT
    personally, i dont mind that people like this but this has recently pissed me off...

    guys coming up to me at bars/clubs and asking...

    "You wear deoderant?"

    - Yes, I am

    "Too bad. You got sexy pits I wanna lick"

    mind you, this is their opening line. no eye contact, no drinks, no flirtatious glace. nothing.

    its like someone coming up to me and asking me do i want them to piss on me.
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    Apr 17, 2010 6:45 AM GMT
    Hmmm. A good question to ask that might help you to find a bar or club where you feel more comfortable and less offended would be:

    Is the "culture" of the type of club or bar (as defined by the management and embraced by the majority of patrons) such that it is normal to immediately ask for sex or intimate contact with anonymous persons?

    If not, then the patrons who are accosting you are "out of line" and should be brought to the attention of management for redress.

    If so, then perhaps your choice of bar is not in keeping with the environment that you prefer. In other words, you're in a place where your expectations are at odds with the culture and environment that management and majority of patrons prefer. Perhaps going to another bar is the best solution.

    Clubs and bars are semi-public places. And, when you add alcohol and possibly other substances into the social mix, people are going to be more forward and less inhibited than in other places. People are going to do and say things that are unusual and possibly downright offensive. That is part of the dynamic of a bar that serves alcohol or where substance use is prevalent.

    There are alternative clubs and venues that do not serve alcohol, where substance use of any kind is frowned upon, and where the focus is more on social interaction. Perhaps one of these options might be more in keeping with what you might be seeking.

    I seldom go to bars anymore because I just don't want to be around the drama that generally occurs in bars. Also, I'm not looking to meet other guys who hang around bars all the time. I just don't see this as a lifestyle characteristic that fits well with my own lifestyle.

    I'm sure you'll find a place that you feel at home spending time and meeting people. Keep searching.

    Aloha and Be Well!
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    Apr 17, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    Are you wlking around the club/bar w/ your arms raised? How is it they get to see your sexy armpits?
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    Apr 17, 2010 4:45 PM GMT
    Never happened to me. But then again I have never been to a club or bar.
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    Apr 17, 2010 9:21 PM GMT
    Hillie saidAre you wlking around the club/bar w/ your arms raised? How is it they get to see your sexy armpits?


    i usually go shirtless at bars and clubs. not immediately but after the first hour or so.

    its fort lauderdale and what with drink specials [4 bucks for an 8oz blue long island]

    oh, and the cocaine and XTC i drop now and then also makes me hot
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    Apr 18, 2010 3:15 AM GMT
    BJBien1010 saidpersonally, i dont mind that people like this but this has recently pissed me off...

    guys coming up to me at bars/clubs and asking...

    "You wear deoderant?"

    - Yes, I am

    "Too bad. You got sexy pits I wanna lick"

    mind you, this is their opening line. no eye contact, no drinks, no flirtatious glace. nothing.

    its like someone coming up to me and asking me do i want them to piss on me.
    If you don't like it, don't go to leather bars. icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:58 PM GMT
    thats just it... it wasnt a leather bar.

    i was in fort lauderdale. wilton manors.

    its happened at BOOM, ALIBI and BILL'S which are not leather bars at all.

    hell, even at the the real leather bar, RAMROD, that still hasn't happened to me there although guys have approached me first, talked, offered to buy me a drink, flirt, and THEN bring up their fetish.

    this is okay with me. build me up. bring me into it.

    don't just open with it.
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    Apr 18, 2010 5:52 PM GMT
    BJBien1010 said
    Hillie saidAre you wlking around the club/bar w/ your arms raised? How is it they get to see your sexy armpits?


    i usually go shirtless at bars and clubs. not immediately but after the first hour or so.

    its fort lauderdale and what with drink specials [4 bucks for an 8oz blue long island]

    oh, and the cocaine and XTC i drop now and then also makes me hot


    Ummmmmmm I'm waiting or the LOL. Plz tell me your jokingicon_confused.gif but who am I to pass judgement. Do you! Just be as careful as one could be under that influence.
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    Apr 27, 2010 9:10 PM GMT
    lol! i am a big fetish of smooth armpits, but since i am bi.. so i only keep them with girls only!!