Ugh...where are the good guys shiiit lol

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    Apr 16, 2010 10:52 PM GMT
    ok im sick of getting hit on at the bars and clubs just for them to wanna fuck me...why cant i find a cool down to earth guy that just wants to get to know someone and try and start something meaningful, fuck i know im not the best looking guy but i dont think im tore up either lol...

    what do u think? any ideas on the topic of guys just wanna fuck now a days and not date...
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    Apr 16, 2010 11:20 PM GMT
    revolver1987 saidok im sick of getting hit on at the bars and clubs just for them to wanna fuck me...
    I'm not.
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    Apr 16, 2010 11:24 PM GMT
    Revolver, I am one of those guys you speak of. I just hit on people at clubs and want to sleep with them right away. But I do have intentions. I just want to make sure the sex is good before anything else. They way I view it, I'd rather have sex and then realize the guy's personality sucks, then waste hours, days, maybe weeks to "get to know him," and then realize his personality sucks.
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    Apr 16, 2010 11:32 PM GMT
    guess im just old school....dont get me wrong sex is bomb and i love having it...but only when im in a relationship..i just wish i could find one guy lol im not gettin any younger so im looking for that one guy. lol ask gay as that sounds lol
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    Apr 16, 2010 11:51 PM GMT
    are you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!
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    Apr 17, 2010 12:15 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!


    WORD.... icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 17, 2010 12:50 AM GMT
    Just talk for a while....exchange facebook or something and try to build something else.You make your own decisions.
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    Apr 17, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    revolver1987 saidwhy cant i find a cool down to earth guy that just wants to get to know someone and try and start something meaningful
    Try to meet guys outside bars and clubs. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 17, 2010 1:27 AM GMT
    well duh lol
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    Apr 17, 2010 1:28 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!



    well if u knew me ud understand but u dont....sorry i have morals and know what i want in life....
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    Apr 17, 2010 1:31 AM GMT
    revolver1987 said
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!



    well if u knew me ud understand but u dont....sorry i have morals and know what i want in life....


    OMG I FORESEE FLAME WARS!

    Can't wait! (sits down with a bucket of budding chicken and waits)
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    Apr 17, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
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    revolver1987 said
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!



    well if u knew me ud understand but u dont....sorry i have morals and know what i want in life....


    OMG I FORESEE FLAME WARS!

    Can't wait! (sits down with a bucket of budding chicken and waits)


    lol jake ur crazy! go make another hit song i keep listening to goin crazy its one of my favs.
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    Apr 17, 2010 4:50 AM GMT
    certainly not here, keep looking :d
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    Apr 17, 2010 4:55 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!


    I'm 23. I know what I want. Don't generalize people by their age. Not to mention, many of my friends are already married at age 23, and very happy with who they are with. You may not have known what you wanted at 23, but that doesn't mean none of us do. Everyone realizes who they are and what they want at different times in their life... and I'm pretty sure I found everything I want icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 17, 2010 5:05 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something?


    Oh my god Mister Darcy marry meeee!
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    Apr 17, 2010 5:09 AM GMT
    JoeB1986 said
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!


    I'm 23. I know what I want. Don't generalize people by their age. Not to mention, many of my friends are already married at age 23, and very happy with who they are with. You may not have known what you wanted at 23, but that doesn't mean none of us do. Everyone realizes who they are and what they want at different times in their life... and I'm pretty sure I found everything I want icon_biggrin.gif


    mhm same here, lets not generalize.
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    Apr 17, 2010 5:11 AM GMT
    umm... then don't go to clubs and get butt hurt when it happens. either accept the fact that it might happen or stay home. problem solved.
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    Apr 17, 2010 5:19 AM GMT
    MsclDrew said
    dancerjack saidyou are rushing, rushing, rushing!

    WORD....

    yes, little drew, words. use them ... read them ... spell them (properly) ... little munT.
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    Apr 17, 2010 10:31 AM GMT
    calibro saidumm... then don't go to clubs and get butt hurt when it happens. either accept the fact that it might happen or stay home. problem solved.


    i never said i just go to clubs to find guys im just saying its stupid i go out and they just try to take me home...im not stupid i was just stating a fact....icon_confused.gif
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    Apr 17, 2010 10:36 AM GMT
    Maybe something about you just says "temporary".
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    Apr 17, 2010 10:44 AM GMT
    McGay saidMaybe something about you just says "temporary".


    maybe who knows...someones temporary might be anothers long term...ya just never know
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    Apr 17, 2010 11:10 AM GMT
    JoeB1986 said
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!


    I'm 23. I know what I want. Don't generalize people by their age. Not to mention, many of my friends are already married at age 23, and very happy with who they are with. You may not have known what you wanted at 23, but that doesn't mean none of us do. Everyone realizes who they are and what they want at different times in their life... and I'm pretty sure I found everything I want icon_biggrin.gif


    It's easy to generalize by age because it's true.

    You may think you know what's going on, but you don't. Look me up in 10 years and tell me that I'm wrong. Hell, look me up in one year and tell me that I'm wrong. And I challenge you to ask your married friends how they feel about being married, but not until they're in their early 30's. I am 100% sure they wouldn't respond the way you think they would.

    You are pretty sure you have found everything you want by the age of 23? If so, the rest of your life will be as dull as this thread's subject matter.
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    Apr 17, 2010 11:14 AM GMT
    reppaT said
    It's easy to generalize by age because it's true.


    You are pretty sure you have found everything you want by the age of 23? If so, the rest of your life will be as dull as this thread's subject matter.


    QFT. I was certain I was right at 23. Ten years later I wish I had had more doubts.
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    Apr 17, 2010 11:21 AM GMT
    JoeB1986 said
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!


    I'm 23. I know what I want. Don't generalize people by their age. Not to mention, many of my friends are already married at age 23, and very happy with who they are with. You may not have known what you wanted at 23, but that doesn't mean none of us do. Everyone realizes who they are and what they want at different times in their life... and I'm pretty sure I found everything I want icon_biggrin.gif


    I second this
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    Apr 17, 2010 11:24 AM GMT
    reppaT said
    JoeB1986 said
    dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?

    this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!


    I'm 23. I know what I want. Don't generalize people by their age. Not to mention, many of my friends are already married at age 23, and very happy with who they are with. You may not have known what you wanted at 23, but that doesn't mean none of us do. Everyone realizes who they are and what they want at different times in their life... and I'm pretty sure I found everything I want icon_biggrin.gif


    It's easy to generalize by age because it's true.

    You may think you know what's going on, but you don't. Look me up in 10 years and tell me that I'm wrong. Hell, look me up in one year and tell me that I'm wrong. And I challenge you to ask your married friends how they feel about being married, but not until they're in their early 30's. I am 100% sure they wouldn't respond the way you think they would.

    You are pretty sure you have found everything you want by the age of 23? If so, the rest of your life will be as dull as this thread's subject matter.




    Hmm idk I'm pretty much the shit! lol no I know what you mean, I think I found what I want and then I'm no longer interested in it and I move on to the next genius idea I'm having icon_biggrin.gif