dancerjack saidare you kidding me with this?
this is fucked up on so many levels that my head is spinning. did we just leap out of a gay version of "pride and prejudice" or something? you're 23... although you don't wanna hear it: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. you may have an inkling of what you THINK you want, but you are rushing, rushing, rushing!
I'm 23. I know what I want. Don't generalize people by their age. Not to mention, many of my friends are already married at age 23, and very happy with who they are with. You may not have known what you wanted at 23, but that doesn't mean none of us do. Everyone realizes who they are and what they want at different times in their life... and I'm pretty sure I found everything I want
It's easy to generalize by age because it's true.
You may think you know what's going on, but you don't. Look me up in 10 years and tell me that I'm wrong. Hell, look me up in one year and tell me that I'm wrong. And I challenge you to ask your married friends how they feel about being married, but not until they're in their early 30's. I am 100% sure they wouldn't respond the way you think they would.
You are pretty sure you have found everything you want by the age of 23? If so, the rest of your life will be as dull as this thread's subject matter.