How to get attention in a gay bar?

  • Nayro

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    Apr 17, 2010 7:09 PM GMT
    Hi,

    I'm considering to go to Amsterdam for a national party-day in a couple of weeks. This will be the first time for me that I go to gay-bars. What is the way I should behave there? How do I get attention and stuff?
    You have any stories to tell about your gaybar experiences?

  • masculumpedes

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    Apr 17, 2010 7:32 PM GMT
    Presentation is Everything......

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  • Nayro

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    Apr 18, 2010 3:46 AM GMT
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    Apr 18, 2010 3:57 AM GMT
    malefeet saidPresentation is Everything......

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    laughing ouf fucking loud!

    Cheers!
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    Apr 18, 2010 4:04 AM GMT
    A gay bar is like any other bar. Drink to excess and dance like you just don't care.
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    Apr 18, 2010 4:06 AM GMT
    Niceguy89 saidHow to get attention in a gay bar?
    Be different.
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    Apr 18, 2010 4:09 AM GMT
    I usually unbutton my shirt to reveal my hairy chest. Gets attention every time.
  • Nayro

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    Apr 18, 2010 12:15 PM GMT
    Hmm I read somewhere that tight shirts do the trick too... Does that also count if you're not THAT muscular? Just defined/average?
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:21 PM GMT
    Niceguy89 saidHmm I read somewhere that tight shirts do the trick too... Does that also count if you're not THAT muscular? Just defined/average?
    I'd hit on you in a bar. icon_wink.gif
  • Nayro

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    Apr 18, 2010 12:23 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Niceguy89 saidHmm I read somewhere that tight shirts do the trick too... Does that also count if you're not THAT muscular? Just defined/average?
    I'd hit on you in a bar. icon_wink.gif

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    Apr 18, 2010 12:29 PM GMT
    You usually get a person's attention by talking to them. icon_biggrin.gif Just be yourself and don't waste to much time on coming up with a snappy opening line. You'll realize pretty fast whether he's interested or not. If he's not, move on.

    happy hunting
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:31 PM GMT
    Just smile. They will instantly know that you are "fresh meat". You'll have no trouble, I assure you. Have fun!!!
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:34 PM GMT
    Niceguy89 saidHmm I read somewhere that tight shirts do the trick too... Does that also count if you're not THAT muscular? Just defined/average?


    It comes down to the type of attention you are looking for. Some guys will take off their shirts and they tend to get attention although, I suspect, mainly from guys looking for a hook up.

    As for you, yeah a tight shirt could work. There are plenty of guys attracted to young men with a lean build like you have.

    Go out and have fun and then report back to us with all the details! icon_wink.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 18, 2010 12:34 PM GMT
    I would say "being friendly" and look to be having a good time. Laughing, talking, being approachable is always helpful
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:36 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI would say "being friendly" and look to be having a good time. Laughing, talking, being approachable is always helpful
    Not sure which place you're going, but the places I go it seems to be better if you're there alone and looking lonely (albeit on purpose). Someone will always "be there to help" and cheer you up...the fun way.
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:42 PM GMT
    Niceguy89 saidHmm I read somewhere that tight shirts do the trick too... Does that also count if you're not THAT muscular? Just defined/average?


    If you wear a tight shirt, make sure it's snug only in the chest area. If it's tight in both the chest and the midsection areas, you'll like a throwback 90's kid who is trying too hard.
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:45 PM GMT
    BlkMuscleGent said
    Niceguy89 saidHmm I read somewhere that tight shirts do the trick too... Does that also count if you're not THAT muscular? Just defined/average?


    If you wear a tight shirt, make sure it's snug only in the chest area. If it's tight in both the chest and the midsection areas, you'll like a throwback 90's kid who is trying too hard.
    Down here, with his build, it would be best if he went shirtless, or completely unbuttoned, or ripped open down the middle by some random hottie in the bar. icon_wink.gif
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    Apr 18, 2010 12:50 PM GMT
    rock out with your cock out...literally.

    cock rings are cool too!
  • Nayro

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    Apr 18, 2010 10:07 PM GMT
    BJBien1010 saidrock out with your cock out...literally.

    cock rings are cool too!


    I dont think those kind of bars will be the first I will go to icon_razz.gif thanks though icon_razz.gif

    As for the shirts, I think I have something hanging in my closet icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 18, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    Have you EVER gone to a bar period??? If you have, then just behave like you and if someone wants to give you attention they will. If not, they won't just don't be butt hurt when you don't get any attention. Now, if you want a sure fire way to get attention, be witty. Be engaging. Be present. Be friendly. And they will FLOCK to you.

    Or be the one to approach people at the bars and have fun with that.
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    Apr 18, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    Wear tank tops!!!
  • NashRugger

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    Apr 18, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    malefeet saidPresentation is Everything......

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    omfg!

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    Apr 18, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    Don't worry too much about what you wear, just be approachable, strike up a conversation with some guys or even the bartender if they aren't too busy. Once you talk to one person the rest of the night will be fine.

    My first venture into a gay bar... I was still wearing jeans, cuban heeled boots, RM Williams belt buckle and a check collared shirt... the bouncer asked if I knew it was a gay bar. The guys in there were friendly enough, and if you go when it is busy they've all had a few anyway and are happy to chat with anyone icon_smile.gif
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Apr 18, 2010 10:20 PM GMT
    It's not that difficult to get attention, in my opinion. Guys will look at you no matter what. If you look back, they'll likely approach. It's all about prolonged eye contact.

  • chauncy44

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    Apr 18, 2010 10:25 PM GMT
    Wear something you are comfortable in no matter what others think and be outgoing. Introduce yourself to others if you are not approached first including at the bar if you are in line waiting for a drink. Make sure and mix and mingle if you get bored or your area becomes stagnant. Most of all have fun.