How much is too much?

  • MilitaryWolf

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    Apr 18, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    A random thought passed through my head and I started wondering if I might be jacking off too much?

    I'm not sure about anyone else but I know for me, on days I work out (which is nearly everyday) I have an extreme increase in libido and my day isn't complete unless I do something about it. Some days I even find it difficult to fall asleep without it.

    Maybe I just have too much time on my hands... which puts a little too much of something else in my hands, haha. Either way, all working out and no jacking off makes me a very dull boy.

    So to pose a few questions:

    How does your libido correlate to your level of activity?

    How much do you guys think is too much? icon_razz.gif
  • calibro

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    Apr 18, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    depends on my hormones levels. I can go weeks at a time not doing it if they're low and also have to do it 12 times a day if they're high (part of that is also one of my meds causes my body to produce a lot of cum and it just physically hurts so I have to relieve the pressure whether or not I feel horny). But exercise is definitely correlated to libido.
  • NashRugger

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    Apr 18, 2010 7:07 PM GMT
    Exercise can increase it, but at the same time, I'm 23 and do it nearly every day, sometimes twice.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 18, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    Been a twice-a-day-man more or less since I was 13 regardless of partners or not, but heavy lifting or sparring can double that, so yeah, it has a definite effect for me.
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Apr 18, 2010 7:32 PM GMT
    MilitaryWolf saidA random thought passed through my head and I started wondering if I might be jacking off too much?

    I'm not sure about anyone else but I know for me, on days I work out (which is nearly everyday) I have an extreme increase in libido and my day isn't complete unless I do something about it. Some days I even find it difficult to fall asleep without it.

    Maybe I just have too much time on my hands... which puts a little too much of something else in my hands, haha. Either way, all working out and no jacking off makes me a very dull boy.

    So to pose a few questions:

    How does your libido correlate to your level of activity?

    How much do you guys think is too much? icon_razz.gif


    I am the same way... especially after I do weight training. The more I workout, the more geared up I am. I don't tend to have this problem when I jog though - not quite sure why??? In short, I don't think you're abnormal... just don't hurt yourself haha
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    Apr 18, 2010 7:43 PM GMT
    RYAN_SC said just don't hurt yourself haha


    And believe me considerable and painful irritation is very real...and painful...Not that this happened to me one very bored weekend a couple weeks ago or anything...
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    Apr 18, 2010 7:47 PM GMT
    Im much the same way. if i work out then its 3-4 times a day. so many ways around the irritation. just dont jerk it with a ferm grip;)
  • MilitaryWolf

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    Apr 18, 2010 8:49 PM GMT
    RYAN_SC said
    MilitaryWolf saidA random thought passed through my head and I started wondering if I might be jacking off too much?

    I'm not sure about anyone else but I know for me, on days I work out (which is nearly everyday) I have an extreme increase in libido and my day isn't complete unless I do something about it. Some days I even find it difficult to fall asleep without it.

    Maybe I just have too much time on my hands... which puts a little too much of something else in my hands, haha. Either way, all working out and no jacking off makes me a very dull boy.

    So to pose a few questions:

    How does your libido correlate to your level of activity?

    How much do you guys think is too much? icon_razz.gif


    I am the same way... especially after I do weight training. The more I workout, the more geared up I am. I don't tend to have this problem when I jog though - not quite sure why??? In short, I don't think you're abnormal... just don't hurt yourself haha


    Actually, I never really thought of that but now that you mention it, cardio doesn't do it for me either, just weight training.
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    Apr 18, 2010 8:52 PM GMT
    my other half gets mad when I beat off. I have to do it when he's sleeping.
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    Apr 18, 2010 8:53 PM GMT
    pf008 saidmy other half gets mad when I beat off. I have to do it when he's sleeping.


    Do it on him while he's sleeping. He may enjoy that more icon_biggrin.gif
  • MilitaryWolf

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    Apr 18, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    haha, I never felt the need to jack off when in a relationship. But then again I was always lucky to have someone who wanted sex as often as I did.
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    Apr 18, 2010 9:51 PM GMT
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    Apr 18, 2010 10:08 PM GMT
    I'm pretty much a twice a day guy, when I wake up and when I go to bed. The only time I really go for threesies is after working out.

    It's not too much unless you're exceeding four jerks a day.
  • NashRugger

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    Apr 18, 2010 10:08 PM GMT
    i still have not figured out wtf was goin on with me the day I did it 5 times, i swear.
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    Apr 18, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    So long as it's not interfering with responsibilities (like work) or interpersonal relationships (like you'd rather stay home jerking off all weekend instead of doing ANYTHING social with family or friends) and you're not giving yourself friction burns, you're fine. (yes, you can give yourself friction burns with LOTS of j/o or sex)

    You're 22 - nothing unusual about wanting to whack off all the time. My record was 7 times in one day - I was 23 or 24. NO IDEA why I was so horny that day. LOL
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    Apr 18, 2010 11:19 PM GMT
    pf008 saidmy other half gets mad when I beat off. I have to do it when he's sleeping.


    My ex was the same way. What's up with that? I just wanted some 'me' time. It's not like I ever told him 'no'. Greedy bastard....
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    Apr 18, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
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    pf008 saidmy other half gets mad when I beat off. I have to do it when he's sleeping.


    Do it on him while he's sleeping. He may enjoy that more icon_biggrin.gif


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    Apr 18, 2010 11:39 PM GMT
    exercising has the opposite effect on me. I lose my libido when I work out regularly. I'm just too tired to bother with sex.
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    Apr 19, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
    calibro saiddepends on my hormones levels. I can go weeks at a time not doing it if they're low and also have to do it 12 times a day if they're high (part of that is also one of my meds causes my body to produce as lot of cum and it just physically hurts so I have to relieve the pressure whether or not I feel horny). But exercise is definitely correlated to libido.




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    Apr 19, 2010 12:12 AM GMT
    I say as long as it's not getting in the way of things your trying to do.. or coming between you and a partner, then hey.. nothing wrong with it at all.

    I only get the chance to every few days. But I make that shit count! icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 19, 2010 12:37 AM GMT
    gymrat4sir saidSo long as it's not interfering with responsibilities (like work) or interpersonal relationships (like you'd rather stay home jerking off all weekend instead of doing ANYTHING social with family or friends) and you're not giving yourself friction burns, you're fine. (yes, you can give yourself friction burns with LOTS of j/o or sex)


    That's really the key answer to keeping anything (work, money, alcohol, sex) balanced in your life. If you eschew everything else because you'd rather stay home and beat off, you're probably using the beatoff time to cover up feelings or thoughts you don't want to face, and that's a normal urge too, but it will throw things out of balance if you're not careful. I guarantee there will come a time where you'll be too busy or focused on something else to even think about sex, and that'll be ok too.
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Apr 19, 2010 12:57 AM GMT
    pf008 saidmy other half gets mad when I beat off. I have to do it when he's sleeping.


    Well, wake him up and tell him I said to help you for God's sake!!!! Wow!

    Hey, OP, for prostate health, according to my urologist, at least once a day is a good thing. At least. So, dude, have fun, and think about sharing the fun. Nothing to be ashamed of or worried about unless, as others have said, it's the number one priority and prevents you from having a life. Then, figure out what it is that's troubling you and has you using masturbation as a band-aid. Then, fix it and go back to enjoying it for all the right reasons.

    And yes, the more you work out and start pushing T around your system, the more you're going to want to unload. Leg days make me cross-eyed!
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    Apr 19, 2010 12:58 AM GMT
    You guys need to get a life. But then again, different strokes for different folks. A little pun there. Sex is great but there are a lot of things out there that are more important and fun to be doing rather than beating your meat alone. Save the hard-on for the right time with the right guy. Also, think of it for a rainy day when you are 70 or older and you can't shoot an eyedropper full, you'll wish you saved a few loads. icon_sad.gif((
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    Apr 19, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    its like being a strait guy with tits, jurk away!
  • rioriz

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    Apr 19, 2010 1:09 AM GMT
    I often wonder the same thing man. I am a good two times a day, but only because I am single. When not hardly never unless my bf is out of town.