new steps for a new relationship.

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    Apr 19, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    After 4 years of being in a relationship it finally ended on a not so fair note. I guess sometimes you gotta know when to let go. When your partner doesn't mention you to new people that he meets there is a problem.I admit my relationship was kind of a rebound that became a long term. I take it that the universe gave me a very good learning lesson. I think I know know the things I want more than ever.

    1.First thing I'm not moving in with a guy until I'm married to him.

    2.If I can't be myself it's not the right relationship.

    3. No more open relationships unless we both decide to do it together preferably with another ltr couple.

    4. He must love dogs especially mine lol

    Gee I hope I'm not asking for too much.




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    Apr 29, 2010 5:37 PM GMT
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREAfter 4 years of being in a relationship it finally ended on a not so fair note. I guess sometimes you gotta know when to let go. When your partner doesn't mention you to new people that he meets there is a problem.I admit my relationship was kind of a rebound that became a long term. I take it that the universe gave me a very good learning lesson. I think I know know the things I want more than ever.

    1.First thing I'm not moving in with a guy until I'm married to him.


    Absurd and unrealistic.

    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HERE2.If I can't be myself it's not the right relationship.


    It shouldn't take getting into a relationship with someone to figure this out. If it does, your priorities are not in place.

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    3. No more open relationships unless we both decide to do it together preferably with another ltr couple.


    An "open relationship" is a contradiction in terms. I prefer the classification of "glorified fuck buddies."

    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HERE4. He must love dogs especially mine lol


    Are you serious?

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    Gee I hope I'm not asking for too much.


    You aren't asking for anything, you're telling people to stay the hell away from you. I really can't tell if this is a serious list, or if you're just being comical. I hope, for your sake, that it's the latter.




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    Apr 29, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
    My "rules of engagement" are quite simple:
    1. Be attractive to me, and attracted to me.
    2. Be somewhat intelligent with a stable career, or taking positive steps in that direction.
    3. Be into my fetishes as much as me.

    The first two are pretty easy to find. The third is next to impossible. LOL