Has your straight friend gone gay?

  • Leo123

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    Apr 20, 2010 6:14 AM GMT
    I've heard too many stories about miserable gay men who are in love with their straight friends and their situation turns out a complete fiasco.

    Are there any successful stories around? Has your straight friend gone gay?
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    Apr 20, 2010 12:11 PM GMT
    Triuth be told, I WAS the straight friend who went gay. Turned out to be the right thing to do all along. I turned out just fine.
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    Apr 20, 2010 12:15 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidTriuth be told, I WAS the straight friend who went gay. Turned out to be the right thing to do all along. I turned out just fine.



    Me too. icon_biggrin.gif Not sure how fine I turned out, but I seem OK.
  • hockeyguy99

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    Apr 20, 2010 12:17 PM GMT
    I have had a couple straight buddies go gay for a night... none would be relationship worthy, just a night of fun and we go on our way
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    Apr 20, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    lol, the statement seems so odd, because if you 'went gay' then really you always were. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 20, 2010 3:35 PM GMT
    the weird thing is i always had straight friends that wanted me....go figure
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    Apr 20, 2010 4:17 PM GMT
    England89 saidthe weird thing is i always had straight friends that wanted me....go figure


    In my case the straight friend said it was because he trusted me. But he's still married and I don't know if he has sex with guys anymore.

    Didn't become a disaster. Was weird the first time it happened, but a few years later when he brought it up again it was cool. He's just a straight guy who likes dick, as opposed to what I would consider bi, which would be attracted in some way to men, either by sight, touch, or emotion. But just dick? Nah, if they want to suck me off let 'em say "straight" all they want.

    I know that tends to set off a definition-storm, but there you go. I think a man can identify as straight and still like dick. Plenty of gay men obsess over boobs, so why not? In some cases it seems as simple as it's the one thing they can't get at home.
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    Apr 20, 2010 4:53 PM GMT
    Like so many others, I too was the "straight" one of my friends to come out of the closet. Although they will tell you they knew way before I came out. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 20, 2010 8:16 PM GMT
    No, gay people don't start straight and turn. They identify as straight because they're afraid to be identified as gay.
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    Apr 27, 2010 7:34 PM GMT
    Lysander said
    England89 saidthe weird thing is i always had straight friends that wanted me....go figure


    In my case the straight friend said it was because he trusted me. But he's still married and I don't know if he has sex with guys anymore.

    Didn't become a disaster. Was weird the first time it happened, but a few years later when he brought it up again it was cool. He's just a straight guy who likes dick, as opposed to what I would consider bi, which would be attracted in some way to men, either by sight, touch, or emotion. But just dick? Nah, if they want to suck me off let 'em say "straight" all they want.

    I know that tends to set off a definition-storm, but there you go. I think a man can identify as straight and still like dick. Plenty of gay men obsess over boobs, so why not? In some cases it seems as simple as it's the one thing they can't get at home.



    thats exactly what it was like, it was before i even knew i was gay in high school. i ended up comming out later and they all had girlfriends and would call me from time to time but i stopped answering their calls because i wasnt into it anymore. real men can admit their gay, but they all said theyre straight but they like dick, which was good because i was always kind of an ass man myself haha.
  • rnch

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    Apr 27, 2010 7:37 PM GMT
    not yet..but i have a couple i supect will, given enought time....icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 27, 2010 11:11 PM GMT
    Leo123 saidI've heard too many stories about miserable gay men who are in love with their straight friends and their situation turns out a complete fiasco.

    Are there any successful stories around? Has your straight friend gone gay?
    Does bi with his wife count?
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    Apr 27, 2010 11:21 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Leo123 saidI've heard too many stories about miserable gay men who are in love with their straight friends and their situation turns out a complete fiasco.

    Are there any successful stories around? Has your straight friend gone gay?
    Does bi with his wife count?


    Ummm yes...definitely counts...please elaborate icon_twisted.gif
  • Iluros

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    Apr 27, 2010 11:34 PM GMT
    In high school I knew a guy who was a total jerk to me.

    Then one day he said he had a crush on me. He was still a jerk, though. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Leo123

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    Apr 28, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    Lysander said
    England89 saidthe weird thing is i always had straight friends that wanted me....go figure


    In my case the straight friend said it was because he trusted me. But he's still married and I don't know if he has sex with guys anymore.

    Didn't become a disaster. Was weird the first time it happened, but a few years later when he brought it up again it was cool. He's just a straight guy who likes dick, as opposed to what I would consider bi, which would be attracted in some way to men, either by sight, touch, or emotion. But just dick? Nah, if they want to suck me off let 'em say "straight" all they want.

    I know that tends to set off a definition-storm, but there you go. I think a man can identify as straight and still like dick. Plenty of gay men obsess over boobs, so why not? In some cases it seems as simple as it's the one thing they can't get at home.


    Textbook closet case. Purely straight guys don't suck dick. Do you suck pussy? Exactly..
  • Tiller66

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    Apr 28, 2010 5:58 AM GMT
    Well I've had three of my buds come on to me.With two of them we got it on a few times it was fun,but ultimently it was too much for them and they went back to they'er women.But it was nothing I did'nt expect,the third still comes around.He still needs a little beer,but after just a few he likes to get a little freak on,works for me icon_smile.gif
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    May 02, 2010 9:49 AM GMT
    Leo123 said
    Textbook closet case. Purely straight guys don't suck dick. Do you suck pussy? Exactly..


    Wow. You seem really certain of everything you just said.
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    May 02, 2010 10:40 AM GMT
    Leo123 said
    Textbook closet case. Purely straight guys don't suck dick. Do you suck pussy? Exactly..


    I love cock, but I don't have a problem sucking a pussy either. Well I actually tend to suck the clit more and lick around the pussy, but you get the idea. I find it really bizarre how so many people have such a rigid view of sexuality. Be who you are, don't let society put you in a box.
  • Leo123

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    May 02, 2010 12:38 PM GMT
    Lysander said
    Leo123 said
    Textbook closet case. Purely straight guys don't suck dick. Do you suck pussy? Exactly..


    Wow. You seem really certain of everything you just said.


    The last couple of posts missed the point. There are plenty of bissexuals out there and people willing to do anything. The point is if you are a guy and you suck dick, you have some level of homossexuality within. Either you like the label or not.

    You cannot be a straight guy and like men at the same time. These don't go together, NO..
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    May 02, 2010 12:46 PM GMT
    Leo123 said
    Are there any successful stories around? Has your straight friend gone gay?
    Very close to 100% of them, yes.
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    May 02, 2010 1:08 PM GMT
    Leo, you say purely straight guys don't suck dick. Am I correct in assuming that if a guy isn't "purely" straight he's actually a "closet case?"
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    May 02, 2010 5:57 PM GMT
    Vigorousinfact saidLeo, you say purely straight guys don't suck dick. Am I correct in assuming that if a guy isn't "purely" straight he's actually a "closet case?"


    Exactly. Didn't sound like he left room for anything in between did he?
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    May 02, 2010 9:20 PM GMT
    Oh yeah, gay straight guys; straight guys that like sex with men.

    They're bisexual. There are many that call themselves gay that are not. There are many that call themselves straight but they're not.

    -Doug
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    May 02, 2010 9:38 PM GMT
    I'm truly sorry but I do not believe in the existence of bisexual men. Bisexual = closet case / insecure.

    Women are different. Women are wierd.
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    May 02, 2010 9:56 PM GMT
    I've had this happen to me twice. I had two straight friends who for one night or more did some very gay things. They both love women and wouldnt be with anything but for a relationship and lasting commitment. I believe sexuality is fluid. We look too hard for definition in things that dont necessarily need or require it. I do prefer men MUCH over women.

    I know I was born to prefer men. Have I been with women yes. It was trial and error, I knew from a long time ago I liked men, but I tried women cause it was the "normal" thing to do.

    to the OP my answer from my experience is NO they end terribly and are usually a good lesson to learn but on the other hand not worth the trouble and strain it puts on you emotionally.

    All I can say though is if you are curious yourself about a straight guy, You've Been WARNED!! lol